{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/","title":{"rendered":"Co se d\u011bje ve swingers klubu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Obsah<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1a8d1c49\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">P\u0159ep\u00edna\u010d<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1a8d1c49\"  aria-label=\"P\u0159ep\u00edna\u010d\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >\u00davod: Co je to swingers klub?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Co m\u00e1m o\u010dek\u00e1vat?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >V opa\u010dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se nem\u00e1te \u010deho b\u00e1t.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Jak se tam s n\u011bk\u00fdm sezn\u00e1m\u00edm?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Kdy\u017e poprv\u00e9 vstoup\u00edte do swingers klubu, m\u016f\u017eete c\u00edtit sm\u011bs vzru\u0161en\u00ed a nervozity. Ale bu\u010fte si jisti, \u017ee se nen\u00ed \u010deho b\u00e1t. Swingers kluby jsou p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9 prostory, kde mohou stejn\u011b sm\u00fd\u0161lej\u00edc\u00ed jedinci zkoumat svou sexualitu v bezpe\u010dn\u00e9m a dobrovoln\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Ve swingers klubu se m\u016f\u017eete t\u011b\u0161it na r\u016fznorodou skupinu lid\u00ed v\u0161ech v\u011bkov\u00fdch kategori\u00ed, tvar\u016f a velikost\u00ed. V\u0161ichni jsou tu ze stejn\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu - cht\u011bj\u00ed se bavit a prozkoumat sv\u00e9 fantazie. Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd n\u00e1tlak, abyste se \u00fa\u010dastnili n\u011b\u010deho, co v\u00e1m nen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, a souhlas je v\u017edy kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>Ve swingers klubu m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt sv\u011bdky r\u016fzn\u00fdch aktivit. N\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u00e1ry se mohou v\u011bnovat intimn\u00edm chvilk\u00e1m, zat\u00edmco jin\u00e9 se mohou st\u00fdkat a bavit s ostatn\u00edmi hosty. Mohou zde b\u00fdt vyhrazen\u00e9 prostory pro soukrom\u011bj\u0161\u00ed setk\u00e1n\u00ed, jako jsou herny nebo temn\u00e9 kouty pro diskr\u00e9tn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed aktivity.<\/p>\n<p>Na swingers party m\u016f\u017eete o\u010dek\u00e1vat kombinaci exhibicionismu a voyeurismu. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed host\u00e9 se mohou t\u011b\u0161it z toho, \u017ee sleduj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed p\u0159i sexu\u00e1ln\u00edch aktech, zat\u00edmco jin\u00fdm m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e se jich sami \u00fa\u010dastn\u00ed. Atmosf\u00e9ra je obvykle uvoln\u011bn\u00e1 a neodsuzuj\u00edc\u00ed, co\u017e ka\u017ed\u00e9mu umo\u017e\u0148uje svobodn\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e9 touhy.<\/p>\n<p>Co se d\u011bje ve swingers klubu nebo sex klubu, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed nakonec na v\u00e1s. A\u0165 u\u017e jste tam proto, abyste pozorovali, st\u00fdkali se s lidmi nebo zkoumali sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed hranice, je to jen a jen va\u0161e zku\u0161enost. Jen nezapome\u0148te otev\u0159en\u011b komunikovat se sv\u00fdm partnerem a respektovat hranice ostatn\u00edch a ur\u010dit\u011b pro\u017eijete ve swingers komunit\u011b nezapomenuteln\u00e9 a p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 chv\u00edle.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Pro mnoho lid\u00ed je swingers klub jedn\u00edm z prvn\u00edch m\u00edst, kde skute\u010dn\u011b za\u010dnou vyu\u017e\u00edvat sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed svobodu otev\u0159en\u00e9ho vztahu. O to v\u00edce p\u0159ed prvn\u00ed n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvou \u010dasto panuje nejistota a dezinformace o tom, co to vlastn\u011b swingers klub je, co se v n\u011bm d\u011bje a zda se tam v\u016fbec vyplat\u00ed chodit.<\/p>\n<p>Jedin\u00e9 informace, kter\u00e9 lze v tomto ohledu nal\u00e9zt, jsou \u010dasto informace, kter\u00e9 nab\u00edzej\u00ed samotn\u00e9 kluby, a ty se podle logiky v\u011bci nezdaj\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 spolehliv\u00fdm zdrojem pravdiv\u00fdch informac\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Proto bych v\u00e1m zde r\u00e1d \u0159ekl, co p\u0159esn\u011b m\u016f\u017eete o\u010dek\u00e1vat, na co si d\u00e1t pozor a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b vyjasnil n\u011bkter\u00e9 b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159edsudky!<\/p>\n<p>A kr\u00e1tk\u00e1 pozn\u00e1mka pro v\u00e1s: P\u00ed\u0161u zde pouze o heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edch swingers klubech.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>\u00davod: Co je to swingers klub?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Naprost\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina swingers klub\u016f m\u00e1 velmi podobnou strukturu. Je zde recepce, kde zaplat\u00edte a obvykle dostanete kl\u00ed\u010d od sk\u0159\u00ed\u0148ky (sd\u00edlen\u00e9 v p\u00e1ru). Tam se v\u00e1s tak\u00e9 zeptaj\u00ed, zda jste tam u\u017e n\u011bkdy byli, a pokud ne, \u010dasto v\u00e1m nab\u00eddnou prohl\u00eddku, kde si m\u016f\u017eete v\u0161e prohl\u00e9dnout, obvykle bez placen\u00ed vstupn\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkde je k dispozici unisex \u0161atna, kde se m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159evl\u00e9knout a ulo\u017eit si v\u011bci. Je tam bar, kde obvykle dostanete n\u00e1poje zdarma. To \u010dasto, ale ne v\u017edy, zahrnuje i alkoholick\u00e9 n\u00e1poje. Krom\u011b toho b\u00fdv\u00e1 k dispozici bufet s v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b dobr\u00fdm j\u00eddlem, kter\u00e9 je tak\u00e9 zahrnuto v cen\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Krom\u011b toho je klub obvykle rozd\u011blen na dv\u011b \u010d\u00e1sti, form\u00e1ln\u00ed a hrac\u00ed. Ve form\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti jsou v\u0161echny v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 jsem pr\u00e1v\u011b vyjmenoval, obvykle je tam tak\u00e9 tane\u010dn\u00ed parket. Mnoho klub\u016f m\u00e1 pro tuto form\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st stanoven\u00fd dress code. V\u011bt\u0161inou pravidla \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed n\u011bco v tom smyslu, \u017ee je \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b elegantn\u00ed nebo sexy oble\u010den\u00ed a \u010d\u00edm pozd\u011bji ve\u010der nast\u00e1v\u00e1, t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 m\u00edt na sob\u011b v\u016fbec n\u011bco. V\u011bt\u0161inou je v\u00e1m dovoleno chodit ve spodn\u00edm pr\u00e1dle nebo extr\u00e9mn\u011b lehce oble\u010deni d\u0159\u00edve ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed, ani\u017e by v\u00e1s to obt\u011b\u017eovalo. V t\u00e9to form\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti v\u00e1s obvykle ne\u010dek\u00e1 nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nahota, ne\u017e na jakou byste jinak mohli b\u00fdt zvykl\u00ed. Ob\u010das dojde na n\u011bjak\u00e9 razantn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed mazlen\u00ed nebo or\u00e1ln\u00ed sex, ale v\u011bt\u0161inou se tato \u010dinnost pom\u011brn\u011b rychle p\u0159esune do hrac\u00edch z\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Hrac\u00ed plocha je obvykle tvo\u0159ena n\u011bkolika m\u00edstnostmi, kter\u00e9 jsou pokryty roho\u017eemi. Z hygienick\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f jsou pod nimi ru\u010dn\u00edky a v dosahu kondomy a ubrousky. V t\u011bchto hrac\u00edch z\u00f3n\u00e1ch, jak u\u017e asi tu\u0161\u00edte, m\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt sex.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Tyto mal\u00e9 m\u00edstnosti jsou obvykle velmi frekventovan\u00e9, a proto byste se nem\u011bli zlobit, pokud jsou \"obsazen\u00e9\" - pokud chv\u00edli po\u010dk\u00e1te, m\u00edstnosti se nakonec op\u011bt uvoln\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Co m\u00e1m o\u010dek\u00e1vat?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm: Mezit\u00edm m\u00e1 naprosto ka\u017ed\u00fd swingers klub jasn\u00e9 pravidlo \"Ne znamen\u00e1 ne\". Toto pravidlo je podpo\u0159eno t\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd, kdo ho nedodr\u017euje, let\u00ed bez n\u00e1hrady ven a je z klubu vyk\u00e1z\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>U\u017e jen kv\u016fli tomuto pravidlu se v\u00e1m n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva swingers klubu m\u016f\u017ee velmi vyplatit. Zde m\u016f\u017eete, pokud tak je\u0161t\u011b ne\u010din\u00edte, pro\u017e\u00edvat svou vlastn\u00ed sexualitu v jasn\u011b regulovan\u00e9m r\u00e1mci.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>K dal\u0161\u00edmu bodu: Pokud jste na ve\u0159ejn\u00e9 h\u0159e se sv\u00fdm spole\u010dn\u00edkem, m\u016f\u017eete o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee lid\u00e9 kolem v\u00e1s budou m\u00edt tak\u00e9 sex. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pokud jsou tito lid\u00e9 v t\u011bsn\u00e9 fyzick\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti, je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku ruka opatrn\u011b p\u0159ejede a poprv\u00e9 se dotkne ne\u0161kodn\u00e9ho m\u00edsta, jako je rameno nebo noha.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>M\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1t, \u017ee v\u00e1s, va\u0161eho spole\u010dn\u00edka nebo oba spole\u010dn\u011b n\u011bkdo sbal\u00ed. Tyto pokusy o sbalen\u00ed jsou v\u0161ak obvykle mnohem nesm\u011blej\u0161\u00ed a ti\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed no\u010dn\u00edho klubu.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>V opa\u010dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se nem\u00e1te \u010deho b\u00e1t.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pokud tomu tak je, pro\u010d se tolik lid\u00ed tolik boj\u00ed swingers a p\u00e1rov\u00fdch klub\u016f? V\u017edy\u0165 tam vlastn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee j\u00edt kdokoli a d\u00edvat se na porno v p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9m p\u0159enosu spole\u010dn\u011b se sv\u00fdm partnerem? Ano, p\u0159esn\u011b tak, to byste mohli! Vstup do swingers klubu v\u00e1s nezavazuje k sexu s ostatn\u00edmi, dokonce v\u016fbec ne k aktivn\u00ed sexualit\u011b. M\u016f\u017eete se tam j\u00edt tak\u00e9 jen naj\u00edst a\/nebo op\u00edt, pokud chcete. (Mo\u017enost, kterou mohu doporu\u010dit ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017een\u011b. \u017deny obvykle ve swingers klubech neplat\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 vstupn\u00e9, ale o tom a\u017e pozd\u011bji).<\/p>\n<p>To, \u017ee n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva swingers klub\u016f p\u0159esto nen\u00ed tak roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e1, je podle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru zp\u016fsobeno n\u011bkter\u00fdmi p\u0159edsudky a dezinformacemi.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159edsudky: P\u0159edsudky: fakta a m\u00fdty<br \/>\nP\u0159edsudky: Jsou tam jen sta\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9<br \/>\nMnoho mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed m\u00e1 p\u0159edsudek, \u017ee swing je n\u011bco, co d\u011bl\u00e1 pouze generace nad 60 let, a proto v takov\u00fdch klubech najdou v\u011bt\u0161inou star\u00e9 p\u00e1ny, kte\u0159\u00ed je pova\u017euj\u00ed za \"\u010derstv\u00e9 maso\". Stru\u010dn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno: nen\u00ed tomu tak.<\/p>\n<p>V mnoha swingers klubech se pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00fd v\u011bk n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvn\u00edk\u016f pohybuje mezi 35 a 45 lety. Zku\u0161enosti ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee rozmez\u00ed je od 18 do 75 let, co\u017e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee ano, jsou zde i star\u0161\u00ed lid\u00e9. Ale nejen to. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed tak\u00e9 na tom, jak\u00e9 publikum klub m\u00e1, obvykle to lze zjistit pom\u011brn\u011b snadno a rychle pomoc\u00ed mal\u00e9ho triku. (Tento trik vysv\u011btluji d\u00e1le v \u010dl\u00e1nku).<\/p>\n<p>Pokud v\u00e1s p\u0159edstava star\u0161\u00edch lid\u00ed znerv\u00f3z\u0148uje, m\u016f\u017eete se z\u00fa\u010dastnit speci\u00e1ln\u00edch ve\u010der\u016f pro mlad\u00e9 p\u00e1ry, kde je pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00fd v\u011bk pod 30 let.<\/p>\n<p>Upozorn\u011bn\u00ed: Obvykle jsou rezervov\u00e1ny m\u011bs\u00edce dop\u0159edu. V mlad\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku je o n\u011b rozhodn\u011b velk\u00fd z\u00e1jem.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159edsudky: Jsou tam jenom \u010dahouni<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Faktem je, \u017ee: swingers sc\u00e9na proch\u00e1z\u00ed (t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159) V\u0160EMI spole\u010densk\u00fdmi vrstvami. Potk\u00e1te tam lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, lidi s kancel\u00e1\u0159skou prac\u00ed i lidi s doktor\u00e1tem a tak d\u00e1le a tak d\u00e1le. Setk\u00e1te se tam nejen se sv\u00fdm soci\u00e1ln\u00edm okol\u00edm, ale i s lidmi, se kter\u00fdmi jinak m\u00e1te m\u00e9n\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9ho. Pouze slab\u0161\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vrstvy zde v\u011bt\u0161inou nenajdete, proto\u017ee si prost\u011b nemohou dovolit zaplatit vstupn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159edsudky: Jsou tam jen profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u00e1my<br \/>\nTo je tak\u00e9 p\u0159edsudek, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed pravdiv\u00fd. Nezn\u00e1m z\u00e1kon, ale zat\u00edm jsem na ka\u017ed\u00e9 domovsk\u00e9 str\u00e1nce, a\u0165 u\u017e se jedn\u00e1 o ten nejmen\u0161\u00ed provin\u010dn\u00ed klub, na\u0161el pravidlo, \u017ee profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovnice nejsou jednozna\u010dn\u011b v\u00edt\u00e1ny a \u017ee je t\u0159eba okam\u017eit\u011b nahl\u00e1sit, pokud existuje podez\u0159en\u00ed, \u017ee si zde n\u011bkdo chce vyd\u011blat pen\u00edze.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159edsudky: Swinge\u0159i jsou poly<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Volba klubu: swingers nebo klub pro p\u00e1ry?<br \/>\nP\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm je t\u0159eba poznamenat, \u017ee mezi jednotliv\u00fdmi swingers kluby jsou velk\u00e9 rozd\u00edly. N\u011bkter\u00e9 kluby se nenaz\u00fdvaj\u00ed swingers kluby, ale kluby pro p\u00e1ry, proto\u017ee se do nich p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed p\u00e1ry sm\u00ed\u0161en\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed, a nikoliv jednotlivci. P\u0159esn\u00fd vztah mezi v\u00e1mi a va\u0161\u00edm spole\u010dn\u00edkem se nekontroluje.<\/p>\n<p>A pr\u00e1v\u011b zde m\u016f\u017eete za\u010d\u00edt s v\u00fdb\u011brem klubu: Co chcete? Na co si trouf\u00e1te? A jak\u00e9 jsou va\u0161e po\u017eadavky?<\/p>\n<p>Klub pro p\u00e1ry m\u00e1 tu v\u00fdhodu, \u017ee v n\u011bm nejsou \u017e\u00e1dn\u00ed s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei. Zat\u00edmco tradi\u010dn\u00ed swingers kluby jsou financov\u00e1ny p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b s\u00f3lov\u00fdmi mu\u017ei, kluby pro p\u00e1ry, jak u\u017e n\u00e1zev napov\u00edd\u00e1, pou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed dovnit\u0159 pouze p\u00e1ry. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee na ka\u017edou d\u00e1mu a ka\u017ed\u00e9ho p\u00e1na, kte\u0159\u00ed tam jsou, p\u0159ipad\u00e1 tak\u00e9 jejich prot\u011bj\u0161ek, a tak nedoch\u00e1z\u00ed k nerovn\u00e9mu pom\u011bru pohlav\u00ed. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pokud si st\u00e1le nejste jist\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eete si pro za\u010d\u00e1tek vybrat klub pro p\u00e1ry. Mnoho tamn\u00edch p\u00e1r\u016f je na swingers sc\u00e9n\u011b tak\u00e9 nov\u00e1\u010dky, a proto pon\u011bkud nejist\u00fdmi. Proto se toho v pr\u016fm\u011bru stane m\u00e9n\u011b, proto\u017ee mnoz\u00ed si (zat\u00edm) netroufaj\u00ed b\u00fdt \u00fato\u010dn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Dlouho jsem m\u011bla p\u0159edsudky v\u016f\u010di swingers klub\u016fm, kter\u00e9 umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed i s\u00f3lo mu\u017ee, ale byla jsem pou\u010dena.<\/p>\n<p>Prvn\u00ed z\u0159ejmou v\u00fdhodou swingers klub\u016f je, \u017ee jsou mnohem levn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. P\u00e1ry plat\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b a s\u00f3lo d\u00e1my obvykle neplat\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nic. S\u00f3lo mu\u017ei plat\u00ed mnohem v\u00edce a u dve\u0159\u00ed je p\u0159\u00edsn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdb\u011br.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Druhou v\u00fdhodou je, \u017ee m\u00e1te v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdb\u011br. P\u00e1rov\u00e9 kluby nejsou tak b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 jako swingers kluby. V ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, a\u0165 u\u017e \u017eijete v jak\u00e9mkoli hn\u00edzd\u011b nebo ur-katolick\u00e9m regionu N\u011bmecka, m\u016f\u017eete si b\u00fdt relativn\u011b jisti, \u017ee n\u011bkde je swingers klub v p\u0159ijateln\u00e9m dosahu - nen\u00ed tak jist\u00e9, \u017ee to sam\u00e9 plat\u00ed pro klub pro p\u00e1ry.<\/p>\n<p>Posledn\u00ed v\u00fdhodou je, jakkoli to m\u016f\u017ee zn\u00edt absurdn\u011b: s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei.<\/p>\n<p>Na rozd\u00edl od klub\u016f pro p\u00e1ry jsou zde s\u00f3lo p\u00e1nov\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fd z\u00e1jem o pozn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a jsou aktivn\u00ed. To m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m i va\u0161emu spole\u010dn\u00edkovi zp\u016fsobit nep\u0159\u00edjemnosti, pokud jste nezku\u0161en\u00ed nebo ve va\u0161em vztahu hraje roli \u017e\u00e1rlivost. J\u00e1 osobn\u011b jsem se nau\u010dil tuto atmosf\u00e9ru oce\u0148ovat. I kdy\u017e m\u011b s\u00f3lov\u00ed p\u00e1nov\u00e9 s p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00fdm doprovodem nikdy nezaj\u00edmali, vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ru, ve kter\u00e9 je v\u00edce otev\u0159enosti a flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed - a tedy i v\u00edce d\u011bn\u00ed ne\u017e v p\u00e1rov\u00e9m klubu. Jist\u011b, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed tak\u00e9 na p\u0159esn\u00e9m v\u00fdb\u011bru klubu.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Nejlep\u0161\u00edm tipem pro konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed pro klub je v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b domovsk\u00e1 str\u00e1nka a popis samotn\u00e9 akce. Mnoho swingers klub\u016f m\u00e1 \"noc pro p\u00e1ry\" a mnoh\u00e9 maj\u00ed tak\u00e9 r\u016fzn\u00e9 dal\u0161\u00ed tematick\u00e9 ve\u010dery. Pokud tedy chcete nav\u0161t\u00edvit swingers klub se sv\u00fdm spole\u010dn\u00edkem jako zv\u011bdav\u00fd p\u00e1r, m\u011bli byste si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b vybrat sp\u00ed\u0161e takovou noc pro p\u00e1ry ne\u017e \"hardcore XXL p\u00e1rty s mu\u017esk\u00fdmi p\u0159ebytky\", kter\u00e9 se tam tak\u00e9 konaj\u00ed. Pokud si to ov\u0161em nep\u0159ejete.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Uv\u011bdomte si, \u017ee v\u017edy existuj\u00ed v\u00fdhody i nev\u00fdhody! Mal\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 kluby usnad\u0148uj\u00ed nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed kontaktu, velk\u00e9 kluby v\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed v klidu poc\u00edtit vlastn\u00ed hranice. V levn\u00fdch klubech \u010dasto panuje p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 srde\u010dnost, v drah\u00fdch klubech lid\u00e9 \u010dasto vypadaj\u00ed hez\u010d\u00ed a tak d\u00e1le a tak d\u00e1le.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Jak se tam s n\u011bk\u00fdm sezn\u00e1m\u00edm?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>V\u0161echny tyto v\u011bci u\u017e mo\u017en\u00e1 zn\u00e1te, pokud jste ji\u017e d\u0159\u00edve n\u011bjak\u00fd klub nav\u0161t\u00edvili, nebo se je m\u016f\u017eete nau\u010dit, kdy\u017e n\u011bjak\u00fd nav\u0161t\u00edv\u00edte s otev\u0159enou mysl\u00ed. nau\u010dit, kdy\u017e n\u011bjak\u00fd nav\u0161t\u00edv\u00edte s otev\u0159enou mysl\u00ed. M\u00e1m pro v\u00e1s v\u0161ak n\u011bkolik dal\u0161\u00edch tip\u016f, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m mohou pomoci i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee jste ji\u017e n\u011bjak\u00fd klub nav\u0161t\u00edvili, nebo pokud pro v\u00e1s toto v\u0161echno nen\u00ed nic nov\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Pomal\u00e1 cesta pro lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed necht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt odm\u00edtnuti<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Rychl\u00fd zp\u016fsob, kdy\u017e je m\u00e9n\u011b trp\u011blivosti<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Velmi rychl\u00fd zp\u016fsob, pokud p\u0159esn\u011b v\u00edte, co chcete.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Prost\u011b se tam za\u010dn\u011bte spole\u010dn\u011b bavit nebo si lehn\u011bte do bl\u00edzkosti dvojice, kter\u00e1 v\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1, a za\u010dn\u011bte se bavit. Obvykle to trv\u00e1 maxim\u00e1ln\u011b n\u011bkolik minut, ne\u017e se prvn\u00ed ruce zatoulaj\u00ed nebo dojde k jin\u00e9mu kontaktu. Cel\u00e9 to prob\u011bhne t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 automaticky, bez n\u011bjak\u00e9ho velk\u00e9ho mluven\u00ed nebo snahy.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Tento tip je ur\u010den hlavn\u011b pro p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 jsou samy se sebou vyrovnan\u00e9. Tento tip by rad\u011bji nem\u011bli pou\u017e\u00edvat s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei, proto\u017ee tam sp\u00ed\u0161e vede k v\u00fd\u0161e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9mu fenom\u00e9nu \"okrajov\u00e9ho honi\u010de\" a nejm\u00e9n\u011b p\u00e1r\u016f opravdu p\u0159itahuje.<\/p>\n<p>Tajn\u00fd tip: Flirtujte!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud tedy v takov\u00e9m klubu norm\u00e1ln\u011b flirtujete a sna\u017e\u00edte se, stejn\u011b jako ve voln\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, u\u017e v\u00fdrazn\u011b vy\u010dn\u00edv\u00e1te z pr\u016fm\u011bru. Bu\u010fte okouzluj\u00edc\u00ed. Nebojte se. Flirtujte s ostatn\u00edmi, navazujte fyzick\u00fd kontakt, tan\u010dete. Mluvte o tom, jak v\u00e1m p\u0159ijde vtipn\u00e9, \u017ee jste tady a jak se c\u00edt\u00edte, nebo \u017ee jste byli stra\u0161n\u011b nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed, kdy\u017e jste sem jeli. T\u00edm, \u017ee budete d\u011blat tyto v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 jsou p\u0159i ka\u017edodenn\u00edm flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed, m\u00e1te nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0161anci ud\u011blat n\u011bco p\u0159esn\u011b s t\u00edm p\u00e1rem, se kter\u00fdm chcete b\u00fdt sexu\u00e1ln\u011b aktivn\u00ed. Sta\u010d\u00ed jen na chv\u00edli zapomenout na tenhle skryt\u00fd motiv, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd: \"Budeme m\u00edt pozd\u011bji sex?\", a vzpomenout si, koho m\u00e1te p\u0159ed sebou: lidi s norm\u00e1ln\u00edmi obavami a nejistotami, kte\u0159\u00ed se r\u00e1di bav\u00ed a r\u00e1di se nechaj\u00ed pomilovat a r\u00e1di se nechaj\u00ed m\u00edt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kdy\u017e poprv\u00e9 vstoup\u00edte do swingers klubu, m\u016f\u017eete c\u00edtit sm\u011bs vzru\u0161en\u00ed a nervozity. Ale bu\u010fte si jisti, \u017ee se nen\u00ed \u010deho b\u00e1t. Swingers kluby jsou p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9 prostory, kde mohou stejn\u011b sm\u00fd\u0161lej\u00edc\u00ed jedinci zkoumat svou sexualitu v bezpe\u010dn\u00e9m a dobrovoln\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed. Ve swingers klubu m\u016f\u017eete o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee se setk\u00e1te s ... <a title=\"Co se d\u011bje ve swingers klubu?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/co-se-vlastne-deje-ve-swingers-klubu\/\" aria-label=\"\u010c\u00edst v\u00edce o What happens in a swingers club?\">P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si v\u00edce<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swinger-club"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}