{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/da\/hvad-sker-der-egentlig-i-en-swingerklub\/","title":{"rendered":"Hvad sker der i en swingerklub?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Indholdsfortegnelse<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1c1b3863\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1c1b3863\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/da\/hvad-sker-der-egentlig-i-en-swingerklub\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Introduktion: Hvad er en swingerklub?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/da\/hvad-sker-der-egentlig-i-en-swingerklub\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Hvad kan jeg forvente?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/da\/hvad-sker-der-egentlig-i-en-swingerklub\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Ellers har du absolut intet at frygte.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/da\/hvad-sker-der-egentlig-i-en-swingerklub\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Hvordan m\u00f8der jeg nogen der?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>N\u00e5r du f\u00f8rste gang g\u00e5r ind i en swingerklub, f\u00f8ler du m\u00e5ske en blanding af sp\u00e6nding og nerv\u00f8sitet. Men v\u00e6r sikker p\u00e5, at der ikke er noget at v\u00e6re bange for. Swingerklubber er indbydende steder, hvor ligesindede kan udforske deres seksualitet i et sikkert og indforst\u00e5et milj\u00f8.<\/p>\n<p>I en swingerklub kan du forvente at se en mangfoldig gruppe af mennesker i alle aldre, former og st\u00f8rrelser. Alle er der af samme grund - for at have det sjovt og udforske deres fantasier. Der er intet pres for at deltage i noget, man ikke har det godt med, og samtykke er altid n\u00f8glen.<\/p>\n<p>Inde i en swingerklub kan du v\u00e6re vidne til en r\u00e6kke forskellige aktiviteter. Nogle par er m\u00e5ske i gang med intime stunder med hinanden, mens andre mingler og socialiserer med andre g\u00e6ster. Der kan v\u00e6re afm\u00e6rkede omr\u00e5der til mere private m\u00f8der, s\u00e5som legerum eller m\u00f8rke hj\u00f8rner til mere diskrete aktiviteter.<\/p>\n<p>Under en swingerfest kan du forvente at se en blanding af ekshibitionisme og voyeurisme. Nogle g\u00e6ster nyder m\u00e5ske at se andre deltage i seksuelle handlinger, mens andre er mere trygge ved selv at deltage. Atmosf\u00e6ren er som regel afslappet og ikke-d\u00f8mmende, s\u00e5 alle kan f\u00f8le sig frie til at udtrykke deres lyster.<\/p>\n<p>Hvad der sker i en swingerklub eller sexklub, er i sidste ende op til dig. Uanset om du er der for at observere, socialisere eller udforske dine egne gr\u00e6nser, er oplevelsen helt, hvad du g\u00f8r den til. Bare husk at kommunikere \u00e5bent med din partner og respektere andres gr\u00e6nser, s\u00e5 er du sikker p\u00e5 at f\u00e5 en mindev\u00e6rdig og forn\u00f8jelig tid i swingersamfundet.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>For mange mennesker er swingerklubben et af de f\u00f8rste steder, hvor de rent faktisk begynder at bruge den seksuelle frihed i et \u00e5bent forhold. S\u00e5 meget desto mere er der inden det f\u00f8rste bes\u00f8g ofte usikkerhed og misinformation om, hvad en swingerklub egentlig er, hvad der sker der, og om det overhovedet er v\u00e6rd at tage derhen.<\/p>\n<p>Den eneste information, man kan finde i den forbindelse, er ofte den, som klubberne selv tilbyder, og det ser ikke ud til at v\u00e6re en s\u00e6rlig p\u00e5lidelig kilde til \u00e6rlig information.<\/p>\n<p>Derfor vil jeg gerne fort\u00e6lle dig her, hvad du pr\u00e6cis kan forvente, hvad du kan holde \u00f8je med og selvf\u00f8lgelig rydde nogle almindelige fordomme af vejen!<\/p>\n<p>Og en kort bem\u00e6rkning til dig: Jeg skriver kun om heteroseksuelle swingerklubber her.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Introduktion: Hvad er en swingerklub?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Langt de fleste swingerklubber er opbygget p\u00e5 samme m\u00e5de. Der er en reception, hvor man betaler og som regel f\u00e5r en n\u00f8gle til et skab (som man deler som par). Der bliver man ogs\u00e5 spurgt, om man har v\u00e6ret der f\u00f8r, og hvis ikke, bliver man ofte tilbudt en guidet tur, hvor man kan se det hele, som regel uden at betale entr\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Et sted er der et unisex-omkl\u00e6dningsrum, hvor man kan kl\u00e6de om og opbevare sine ting. Der er en bar, hvor du som regel kan f\u00e5 gratis drikkevarer. Det inkluderer ofte, men ikke altid, alkoholiske drikkevarer. Derudover er der som regel en buffet med mere eller mindre god mad, som ogs\u00e5 er inkluderet i prisen.<\/p>\n<p>Desuden er klubben normalt opdelt i to omr\u00e5der, en formel del og et legeomr\u00e5de. I den formelle del er der alle de ting, jeg lige har n\u00e6vnt, og som regel er der ogs\u00e5 et dansegulv. Mange klubber har en dresscode for dette formelle omr\u00e5de. For det meste siger reglerne noget i retning af, at rimeligt smart eller sexet t\u00f8j er \u00f8nsket, og jo senere aftenen bliver, jo mindre vigtigt er det at have noget som helst p\u00e5. Det meste af tiden f\u00e5r man lov til at g\u00e5 rundt i lingeri eller ekstremt letp\u00e5kl\u00e6dt, f\u00f8r alle andre g\u00f8r det, uden at blive generet. I denne formelle del har du normalt ikke andet at forvente end mere n\u00f8genhed, end du m\u00e5ske ellers er vant til. Af og til vil der forekomme lidt kraftigere petting eller oralsex, men for det meste flyttes denne aktivitet ret hurtigt til legeomr\u00e5derne.<\/p>\n<p>Legeomr\u00e5det best\u00e5r som regel af flere rum, der er d\u00e6kket af m\u00e5tter. Der er h\u00e5ndkl\u00e6der til at l\u00e6gge under af hygiejniske grunde og kondomer og v\u00e5dservietter inden for r\u00e6kkevidde. I disse legeomr\u00e5der kan man, som du m\u00e5ske har g\u00e6ttet, have sex.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Disse sm\u00e5 rum er som regel meget velbes\u00f8gte, og derfor skal du ikke blive irriteret, hvis de er \"optaget\" - hvis du venter lidt, bliver rummene p\u00e5 et tidspunkt ledige igen.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Hvad kan jeg forvente?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>F\u00f8rst og fremmest: I mellemtiden har absolut alle swingerklubber en klar \"Nej betyder nej\"-regel. Denne regel underst\u00f8ttes af det faktum, at enhver, der ikke overholder den, flyver ud uden refusion og bliver udelukket fra klubben.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Alene denne regel kan g\u00f8re et bes\u00f8g i en swingerklub meget v\u00e6rdifuldt for dig. Her kan du, hvis du ikke allerede g\u00f8r det, udleve din selvbestemte seksualitet inden for en klart reguleret ramme.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Til det n\u00e6ste punkt: Hvis du er p\u00e5 en offentlig leg med din ledsager, kan du forvente, at folk omkring dig ogs\u00e5 vil have sex. Is\u00e6r hvis disse mennesker er i umiddelbar fysisk n\u00e6rhed, er det muligt, at en h\u00e5nd p\u00e5 et tidspunkt forsigtigt vil strejfe og f\u00f8rst r\u00f8re ved et uskyldigt sted som en skulder eller et ben.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Det kan ske, at du eller din ledsager eller jer begge bliver lagt an p\u00e5 sammen. Men disse opsamlingsfors\u00f8g er normalt meget mere generte og stille end i det s\u00e6dvanlige natklubmilj\u00f8.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Ellers har du absolut intet at frygte.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hvis det er tilf\u00e6ldet, hvorfor er s\u00e5 mange mennesker s\u00e5 bange for swinger- og parklubber? Alle kan faktisk tage derhen og se live-porno sammen med deres ledsager? Ja, pr\u00e6cis, det kan man godt! At g\u00e5 ind i en swingerklub forpligter dig ikke til at have sex med andre, ikke engang til aktiv seksualitet overhovedet. Du kan ogs\u00e5 bare tage derhen for at spise og\/eller drikke dig fuld, hvis du har lyst til det. (En mulighed, jeg kan anbefale til alle kvinder. Kvinder betaler som regel n\u00e6sten ingen entr\u00e9 i swingerklubber, men mere om det senere).<\/p>\n<p>At bes\u00f8get p\u00e5 swingerklubber alligevel ikke er s\u00e5 udbredt, skyldes efter min mening nogle fordomme og misinformation.<\/p>\n<p>Fordomme: Fakta og myter<br \/>\nFordomme: Der er kun gamle mennesker der<br \/>\nMange unge har den fordom, at swinging er noget, som kun 60+-generationen g\u00f8r, og at de derfor mest vil finde gamle herrer i s\u00e5danne klubber, som betragter dem som \"frisk k\u00f8d\". For at g\u00f8re det kort: Det er ikke tilf\u00e6ldet.<\/p>\n<p>Mange swingerklubber har et publikum, hvis gennemsnitsalder ligger mellem 35 og 45 \u00e5r. Erfaringen viser, at sp\u00e6ndet g\u00e5r fra 18 til 75, hvilket betyder, at ja, der er nogle mennesker, som er \u00e6ldre. Men ikke kun. Det afh\u00e6nger ogs\u00e5 af, hvilket publikum klubben har, og det kan man som regel finde ud af relativt nemt og hurtigt med et lille trick. (Jeg forklarer dette trick l\u00e6ngere nede i artiklen).<\/p>\n<p>Hvis tanken om \u00e6ldre mennesker g\u00f8r dig meget utilpas, er der ogs\u00e5 s\u00e6rlige aftener for unge par, hvor gennemsnitsalderen er under 30 \u00e5r.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e6r opm\u00e6rksom: De er som regel booket flere m\u00e5neder i forvejen. Der er helt sikkert en stor eftersp\u00f8rgsel i den yngre aldersgruppe.<\/p>\n<p>Fordomme: Der er kun chavs der<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Faktum er: Swingerscenen er et snit gennem (n\u00e6sten) ALLE sociale klasser. Der m\u00f8der du folk, der har en uddannelse, folk med kontorjobs og folk med ph.d.'er og s\u00e5 videre og s\u00e5 videre. Der m\u00f8der du ikke kun dit eget sociale milj\u00f8, men ogs\u00e5 de mennesker, som du ellers har mindre at g\u00f8re med. Kun de svagere sociale klasser er normalt ikke at finde her, fordi de simpelthen ikke har r\u00e5d til at betale indgangsgebyret.<\/p>\n<p>Fordomme: Der er kun professionelle damer der<br \/>\nDet er ogs\u00e5 en fordom, som ikke er sand. Jeg kender ikke loven, men indtil videre har jeg p\u00e5 alle hjemmesider, selv p\u00e5 den mindste provinsklub, fundet en regel om, at professionelle sexarbejdere tydeligvis ikke er velkomne, og at det skal rapporteres med det samme, hvis der er mistanke om, at nogen er her for at tjene penge.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Fordomme: Swingere er poly<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Valg af klub: swinger- eller parklub?<br \/>\nF\u00f8rst og fremmest skal det bem\u00e6rkes, at der er stor forskel p\u00e5 forskellige swingerklubber. Nogle klubber kaldes ikke swingerklubber, men parklubber, fordi der optages par af blandet k\u00f8n og ikke enkeltpersoner. Det pr\u00e6cise forhold mellem dig og din ledsager kontrolleres ikke.<\/p>\n<p>Og det er her, du kan begynde at v\u00e6lge en klub: Hvad vil du? Hvad t\u00f8r du g\u00f8re? Og hvad er dine krav?<\/p>\n<p>En parklub har den fordel, at der ikke er nogen solom\u00e6nd der. Mens traditionelle swingerklubber hovedsageligt finansieres af solom\u00e6nd, lukker parklubber, som navnet antyder, kun par ind. Det betyder, at for hver dame og herre, der er der, er der ogs\u00e5 en modpart, og derfor er der ingen ulige k\u00f8nsfordeling. Is\u00e6r hvis du stadig er lidt usikker, kan du v\u00e6lge en parklub som en start. Mange af parrene der er ogs\u00e5 nye p\u00e5 swinger-scenen og derfor ret usikre. Derfor sker der i gennemsnit mindre, fordi mange (endnu) ikke t\u00f8r v\u00e6re offensive.<\/p>\n<p>I lang tid havde jeg fordomme mod swingerklubber, der ogs\u00e5 tillader solom\u00e6nd, men jeg blev klogere.<\/p>\n<p>Den f\u00f8rste \u00e5benlyse fordel ved swingerklubber er, at de er meget billigere. Par betaler mindre, og solodamer betaler som regel n\u00e6sten ingenting. Solom\u00e6nd betaler meget mere, og der er et strengere udvalg ved d\u00f8ren.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Den anden fordel er, at du har flere valgmuligheder. Parklubber er ikke s\u00e5 almindelige som swingerklubber. Uanset hvilken rede eller urkatolsk region i Tyskland du bor i, kan du v\u00e6re relativt sikker p\u00e5, at der et eller andet sted er en swingerklub inden for acceptabel r\u00e6kkevidde - det er ikke s\u00e5 sikkert, at det samme g\u00e6lder for en parklub.<\/p>\n<p>Den sidste fordel er, hvor absurd det end lyder: solom\u00e6nd.<\/p>\n<p>I mods\u00e6tning til parklubben er der solo-herrer, som har en \u00f8get interesse i at l\u00e6re andre at kende og er aktive. Det kan g\u00f8re dig og din ledsager utilpas, hvis I er uerfarne, eller hvis jalousi spiller en rolle i jeres forhold. Personligt har jeg l\u00e6rt at s\u00e6tte pris p\u00e5 denne atmosf\u00e6re. Selvom jeg aldrig var interesseret i solo-herrer med mine respektive eskorter, skaber de en atmosf\u00e6re, hvor der er mere \u00e5benhed og mere flirt - og derfor sker der mere end i en parklub. Det afh\u00e6nger selvf\u00f8lgelig ogs\u00e5 af det pr\u00e6cise valg af klub.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Det bedste tip til at tr\u00e6ffe en konkret beslutning om en klub er i f\u00f8rste omgang hjemmesiden og beskrivelsen af selve arrangementet. Mange swingerklubber har en \"paraften\", og mange har ogs\u00e5 forskellige andre temaaftener. S\u00e5 hvis du vil bes\u00f8ge en swingerklub med din ledsager som et nysgerrigt par, b\u00f8r du nok v\u00e6lge en s\u00e5dan paraften frem for de \"hardcore XXL-mandeoverskudsfester\", der ogs\u00e5 finder sted der. Medmindre du selvf\u00f8lgelig gerne vil.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e6r opm\u00e6rksom p\u00e5, at der altid er fordele og ulemper! Sm\u00e5 familieklubber g\u00f8r det lettere at f\u00e5 kontakt, store klubber lader dig m\u00e6rke dine egne gr\u00e6nser i fred. Billige klubber har ofte en behagelig hjertelighed, i dyre klubber ser folk ofte p\u00e6nere ud og s\u00e5 videre og s\u00e5 videre.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Hvordan m\u00f8der jeg nogen der?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du ved m\u00e5ske allerede alle disse ting, hvis du har bes\u00f8gt en klub f\u00f8r, eller du kan l\u00e6re dem ved at bes\u00f8ge en med et \u00e5bent sind. l\u00e6re dem ved at bes\u00f8ge en med et \u00e5bent sind. Jeg har dog et par ekstra tips til dig, som kan hj\u00e6lpe dig, selv om du har bes\u00f8gt en klub f\u00f8r, eller hvis alt dette ikke er nyt for dig.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Den langsomme vej for folk, der ikke \u00f8nsker at blive afvist<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Den hurtige m\u00e5de, n\u00e5r der er mindre t\u00e5lmodighed<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Den superhurtige m\u00e5de, hvis du ved pr\u00e6cis, hvad du vil have.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Bare begynd at have det sjovt sammen der, eller l\u00e6g dig i n\u00e6rheden af et par, der interesserer dig, og begynd at have det sjovt. Det tager som regel h\u00f8jst et par minutter, f\u00f8r de f\u00f8rste h\u00e6nder vandrer over, eller der p\u00e5 anden m\u00e5de skabes kontakt. Det hele k\u00f8rer n\u00e6sten automatisk, uden den store snak eller anstrengelse.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Dette tip er prim\u00e6rt til par, der har fred med sig selv. Dette tip skal helst ikke bruges af solom\u00e6nd, for der f\u00f8rer det snarere til det ovenn\u00e6vnte \"marginal wanker\"-f\u00e6nomen, og det er de f\u00e6rreste par, der virkelig finder det attraktivt.<\/p>\n<p>Hemmeligt tip: Flirt!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 hvis du bare flirter normalt i s\u00e5dan en klub og g\u00f8r dig umage, ligesom du ville g\u00f8re i naturen, skiller du dig allerede betydeligt ud fra gennemsnittet. V\u00e6r charmerende. V\u00e6r ikke bange. Flirt med andre, skab fysisk kontakt, dans. Tal om, hvor sjovt du synes, det er at v\u00e6re her, og hvordan du har det, eller at du var frygtelig nerv\u00f8s, da du k\u00f8rte hertil. Ved at g\u00f8re disse ting, som tages for givet i hverdagsflirten, har du den bedste chance for at g\u00f8re noget med lige pr\u00e6cis det par, du gerne vil v\u00e6re seksuelt aktiv med. Du skal bare glemme denne bagtanke, som alle har: \"Skal vi have sex senere?\" et \u00f8jeblik og huske, hvem du har foran dig: mennesker med normal frygt og usikkerhed, som kan lide at have det sjovt og kan lide at blive romantiseret og kan lide at blive taget.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e5r du f\u00f8rste gang g\u00e5r ind i en swingerklub, f\u00f8ler du m\u00e5ske en blanding af sp\u00e6nding og nerv\u00f8sitet. Men v\u00e6r sikker p\u00e5, at der ikke er noget at v\u00e6re bange for. Swingerklubber er indbydende steder, hvor ligesindede kan udforske deres seksualitet i et sikkert og indforst\u00e5et milj\u00f8. 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