{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/es\/que-ocurre-realmente-en-un-club-swinger\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre en un club de intercambio de parejas?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u00cdndice<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d2dd0a930\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d2dd0a930\"  aria-label=\"Alternar\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/es\/que-ocurre-realmente-en-un-club-swinger\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Introducci\u00f3n: \u00bfQu\u00e9 es un club de intercambio de parejas?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/es\/que-ocurre-realmente-en-un-club-swinger\/#What_should_I_expect\" >\u00bfQu\u00e9 puedo esperar?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/es\/que-ocurre-realmente-en-un-club-swinger\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Por lo dem\u00e1s, no tiene absolutamente nada que temer.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/es\/que-ocurre-realmente-en-un-club-swinger\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo conocer a alguien all\u00ed?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Cuando entras por primera vez en un club de intercambio de parejas, puede que sientas una mezcla de excitaci\u00f3n y nerviosismo. Pero tranquilo, no hay nada que temer. Los clubes de intercambio de parejas son espacios acogedores donde personas con ideas afines pueden explorar su sexualidad en un entorno seguro y consensuado.<\/p>\n<p>En un club de intercambio de parejas, puedes esperar ver un grupo diverso de personas de todas las edades, formas y tama\u00f1os. Todos est\u00e1n all\u00ed por la misma raz\u00f3n: pasarlo bien y explorar sus fantas\u00edas. No hay presi\u00f3n para participar en nada con lo que no te sientas c\u00f3modo, y el consentimiento es siempre la clave.<\/p>\n<p>Dentro de un club de intercambio de parejas, puede ser testigo de una variedad de actividades que tienen lugar. Algunas parejas pueden tener momentos \u00edntimos entre ellas, mientras que otras se mezclan y socializan con otros clientes. Puede haber zonas designadas para encuentros m\u00e1s privados, como salas de juegos o rincones oscuros para actividades m\u00e1s discretas.<\/p>\n<p>Durante una fiesta de intercambio de parejas, puedes esperar ver una mezcla de exhibicionismo y voyeurismo. Algunos invitados disfrutan viendo a otros realizar actos sexuales, mientras que otros se sienten m\u00e1s c\u00f3modos participando ellos mismos. El ambiente suele ser relajado y sin prejuicios, lo que permite a todos expresar libremente sus deseos.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que ocurra en un club de intercambio de parejas o en un club sexual depende, en \u00faltima instancia, de ti. Tanto si est\u00e1s all\u00ed para observar, socializar o explorar tus propios l\u00edmites, la experiencia depender\u00e1 de lo que t\u00fa hagas de ella. S\u00f3lo recuerde comunicarse abiertamente con su pareja y respetar los l\u00edmites de los dem\u00e1s, y usted est\u00e1 seguro de tener un tiempo memorable y agradable en la comunidad de intercambio de parejas.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Para muchas personas, el club de intercambio de parejas es uno de los primeros lugares en los que realmente empiezan a hacer uso de la libertad sexual de una relaci\u00f3n abierta. Adem\u00e1s, antes de la primera visita suele haber incertidumbre y desinformaci\u00f3n sobre qu\u00e9 es realmente un club de intercambio de parejas, qu\u00e9 ocurre en \u00e9l y si merece la pena ir.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica informaci\u00f3n que se puede encontrar a este respecto suele ser la que ofrecen los propios clubes y eso, por l\u00f3gica, no parece ser una fuente muy fiable de informaci\u00f3n honesta.<\/p>\n<p>Por ello, me gustar\u00eda explicarle aqu\u00ed qu\u00e9 puede esperar exactamente, en qu\u00e9 puede fijarse y, por supuesto, aclarar algunos prejuicios comunes.<\/p>\n<p>Y una breve nota para ti: Aqu\u00ed s\u00f3lo escribo sobre clubs de intercambio de parejas heterosexuales.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Introducci\u00f3n: \u00bfQu\u00e9 es un club de intercambio de parejas?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>La gran mayor\u00eda de los clubes de intercambio de parejas tienen una estructura muy similar. Hay una recepci\u00f3n donde pagas y normalmente te dan la llave de una taquilla (compartida en pareja). All\u00ed tambi\u00e9n te preguntar\u00e1n si has estado antes y, si no, a menudo te ofrecer\u00e1n una visita guiada, donde podr\u00e1s echar un vistazo a todo, normalmente sin pagar la entrada.<\/p>\n<p>En alg\u00fan lugar hay un vestuario unisex donde puedes cambiarte y guardar tus cosas. Hay un bar en el que suele haber bebidas gratis. Esto incluye a menudo, aunque no siempre, bebidas alcoh\u00f3licas. Adem\u00e1s, suele haber un buf\u00e9 con comida m\u00e1s o menos buena, que tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 incluida en el precio.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, el club suele estar dividido en dos zonas, una parte formal y la zona de juegos. En la parte formal est\u00e1n todas las cosas que acabo de enumerar, normalmente tambi\u00e9n hay una pista de baile. Muchos clubes tienen un c\u00f3digo de vestimenta para esta zona formal. La mayor\u00eda de las veces las normas dicen algo as\u00ed como que se desea ropa razonablemente chic o sexy y que cuanto m\u00e1s tarde se haga la noche, menos importante es llevar nada. La mayor\u00eda de las veces te permiten pasearte en lencer\u00eda, o extremadamente ligera de ropa, antes que los dem\u00e1s, sin que te molesten. En esta parte formal, por lo general no hay que esperar m\u00e1s que m\u00e1s desnudez de la que podr\u00eda estar acostumbrado. Ocasionalmente se producen caricias m\u00e1s vigorosas o sexo oral, pero en la mayor\u00eda de los casos esta actividad se traslada a las zonas de juego con bastante rapidez.<\/p>\n<p>La zona de juegos suele constar de varias habitaciones cubiertas con colchonetas. Hay toallas para poner debajo por razones higi\u00e9nicas y preservativos y toallitas al alcance de la mano. En estas zonas de juego, como ya habr\u00e1s adivinado, se puede practicar sexo.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Estas peque\u00f1as salas suelen estar muy frecuentadas, por lo que no debe molestarse si est\u00e1n \"ocupadas\": si espera un poco, las salas volver\u00e1n a quedar libres.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>\u00bfQu\u00e9 puedo esperar?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>En primer lugar: Mientras tanto, absolutamente todos los clubes de swingers tienen una regla clara de \"No significa no\". Esta regla est\u00e1 respaldada por el hecho de que cualquiera que no la cumpla se va sin derecho a reembolso y es expulsado del club.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Esta regla por s\u00ed sola puede hacer que la visita a un club de intercambio de parejas merezca la pena. Aqu\u00ed podr\u00e1, si no lo est\u00e1 haciendo ya, vivir su sexualidad autodeterminada dentro de un marco claramente regulado.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Al siguiente punto: si est\u00e1s en una obra p\u00fablica con tu acompa\u00f1ante, puedes esperar que la gente que te rodea tambi\u00e9n tenga sexo. Especialmente si estas personas est\u00e1n en estrecha proximidad f\u00edsica, es posible que en alg\u00fan momento una mano cautelosamente tat sobre y tocar primero un lugar inocuo como un hombro o una pierna.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Puede ocurrir que te liguen a ti, a tu acompa\u00f1ante o a los dos juntos. Sin embargo, estos intentos de ligue suelen ser mucho m\u00e1s t\u00edmidos y silenciosos que en el ambiente habitual de las discotecas.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Por lo dem\u00e1s, no tiene absolutamente nada que temer.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si es as\u00ed, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 tanta gente tiene tanto miedo a los clubes de intercambio de parejas? En realidad, \u00bfcualquiera podr\u00eda ir all\u00ed y ver porno en directo junto con su acompa\u00f1ante? S\u00ed, exactamente, \u00a1podr\u00edas hacerlo! Entrar en un club de intercambio de parejas no te obliga a tener relaciones sexuales con otras personas, ni siquiera a una sexualidad activa en absoluto. Tambi\u00e9n puedes ir all\u00ed s\u00f3lo para comer y\/o emborracharte si quieres. (Una opci\u00f3n que recomiendo a todas las mujeres. Las mujeres no suelen pagar casi nada de entrada en los clubes de intercambio de parejas, pero hablaremos de ello m\u00e1s adelante).<\/p>\n<p>Que la visita de clubes de swingers no est\u00e9 sin embargo tan extendida, se debe en mi opini\u00f3n a algunos prejuicios y a la desinformaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Prejuicios: Hechos y mitos<br \/>\nPrejuicios: S\u00f3lo hay gente mayor<br \/>\nMuchos j\u00f3venes tienen el prejuicio de que el intercambio de parejas es algo que s\u00f3lo hace la generaci\u00f3n de m\u00e1s de 60 a\u00f1os y que, por lo tanto, en esos clubes encontrar\u00e1n sobre todo a se\u00f1ores mayores que los consideran \"carne fresca\". En pocas palabras: no es as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Muchos clubes de intercambio de parejas tienen un p\u00fablico cuya edad media oscila entre los 35 y los 45 a\u00f1os. La experiencia demuestra que la horquilla va de los 18 a los 75, lo que significa que s\u00ed, que hay gente mayor. Pero no s\u00f3lo. Tambi\u00e9n depende del p\u00fablico que tenga el club, normalmente esto se puede averiguar de forma relativamente f\u00e1cil y r\u00e1pida con un peque\u00f1o truco. (Explico este truco m\u00e1s abajo en el art\u00edculo).<\/p>\n<p>Si la idea de gente mayor le inquieta, tambi\u00e9n hay noches especiales para parejas j\u00f3venes en las que la media de edad no supera los 30 a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>Atenci\u00f3n: Suelen reservarse con meses de antelaci\u00f3n. Hay una gran demanda, sobre todo entre los m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes.<\/p>\n<p>Prejuicios: S\u00f3lo hay chavs all\u00ed<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Es un hecho: La escena swinger es un corte a trav\u00e9s de (casi) TODAS las clases sociales. All\u00ed conocer\u00e1s a gente con estudios, gente con trabajos de oficina y gente con doctorados, etc\u00e9tera, etc\u00e9tera. All\u00ed conocer\u00e1s no s\u00f3lo a tu propio entorno social, sino tambi\u00e9n a la gente con la que de otro modo tendr\u00edas menos relaci\u00f3n. S\u00f3lo las clases sociales m\u00e1s d\u00e9biles no suelen encontrarse aqu\u00ed, porque sencillamente no pueden permitirse pagar la entrada.<\/p>\n<p>Prejuicios: S\u00f3lo hay mujeres profesionales<br \/>\nEsto tambi\u00e9n es un prejuicio, que no es cierto. No conozco la ley, pero hasta ahora he encontrado en todas las p\u00e1ginas de inicio, ya sea la del club m\u00e1s peque\u00f1o de la provincia, una norma que dice claramente que los profesionales del sexo no son bienvenidos y que se debe informar inmediatamente si hay sospechas de que alguien est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed para ganar dinero.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Prejuicios: Los swingers son poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Elecci\u00f3n de club: \u00bfun club de swingers o de parejas?<br \/>\nEn primer lugar, hay que se\u00f1alar que existen grandes diferencias entre los distintos clubes de swingers. Algunos clubes no se llaman clubes de swingers, sino clubes de parejas, porque all\u00ed se admiten parejas de sexo mixto y no individuos. No se comprueba la relaci\u00f3n exacta entre usted y su acompa\u00f1ante.<\/p>\n<p>Y aqu\u00ed es donde puedes empezar a elegir un club: \u00bfQu\u00e9 quieres? \u00bfQu\u00e9 te atreves a hacer? \u00bfY cu\u00e1les son tus exigencias?<\/p>\n<p>Un club de parejas tiene la ventaja de que no hay hombres solos. Mientras que los clubes de swingers tradicionales est\u00e1n financiados principalmente por hombres solos, los clubes de parejas, como su nombre indica, s\u00f3lo dejan entrar a parejas. Esto significa que por cada dama y caballero que est\u00e1n all\u00ed, tambi\u00e9n hay una contraparte y por lo tanto no hay proporciones desiguales de g\u00e9nero. Sobre todo si a\u00fan no est\u00e1 seguro, puede empezar por un club de parejas. Muchas de las parejas all\u00ed tambi\u00e9n son nuevas en la escena swinger y por lo tanto bastante inseguras. Por lo tanto, en promedio, sucede menos, porque muchos (todav\u00eda) no se atreven a ser ofensivos.<\/p>\n<p>Durante mucho tiempo tuve prejuicios contra los clubes de intercambio de parejas que tambi\u00e9n admiten hombres solos, pero me ense\u00f1aron mejor.<\/p>\n<p>La primera ventaja obvia de los clubes de intercambio de parejas es que son mucho m\u00e1s baratos. Las parejas pagan menos y las mujeres solas no suelen pagar casi nada. Los hombres solos pagan mucho m\u00e1s y hay una selecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s estricta en la puerta.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>La segunda ventaja es que tienes m\u00e1s donde elegir. Los clubes de parejas no son tan comunes como los de swingers. En cualquier caso, no importa en qu\u00e9 nido o regi\u00f3n ur-cat\u00f3lica de Alemania vivas, puedes estar relativamente seguro de que en alg\u00fan lugar hay un club de swingers a un alcance aceptable - no tan seguro de que ocurra lo mismo con un club de parejas.<\/p>\n<p>La \u00faltima ventaja es, por absurdo que parezca: los hombres solos.<\/p>\n<p>A diferencia del club de parejas, hay caballeros solitarios que tienen un gran inter\u00e9s en conocer a otros y son activos. Esto puede hacer que usted y su acompa\u00f1ante se sientan inc\u00f3modos si no tienen experiencia o si los celos juegan un papel importante en su relaci\u00f3n. Personalmente, he aprendido a apreciar este ambiente. Aunque nunca me interesaron los caballeros en solitario con mis respectivos acompa\u00f1antes, crean una atm\u00f3sfera en la que hay m\u00e1s apertura y m\u00e1s flirteo, y por tanto m\u00e1s marcha que en un club de parejas. Ciertamente, tambi\u00e9n depende de la elecci\u00f3n exacta del club.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>El mejor consejo para tomar una decisi\u00f3n concreta sobre un club es, en primer lugar, la p\u00e1gina de inicio y la descripci\u00f3n del evento en s\u00ed. Muchos clubes de swingers tienen una \"noche de parejas\" y muchos tambi\u00e9n tienen otras noches tem\u00e1ticas. As\u00ed que si quieres visitar un club de swingers con tu acompa\u00f1ante como una pareja curiosa, probablemente deber\u00edas elegir tal noche de parejas en lugar de las \"fiestas hardcore XXL de excedentes masculinos\" que tambi\u00e9n tienen lugar all\u00ed. A no ser, claro est\u00e1, que te apetezca.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Ten en cuenta que siempre hay pros y contras. Los clubes familiares peque\u00f1os facilitan el contacto, los grandes te permiten sentir tus propios l\u00edmites con tranquilidad. Los clubes baratos suelen tener una cordialidad agradable, en los clubes caros la gente suele estar m\u00e1s guapa y as\u00ed sucesivamente.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo conocer a alguien all\u00ed?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Puede que ya sepas todas estas cosas si has visitado un club antes, o puedes aprenderlas visitando uno con la mente abierta. aprenderlas visitando uno con la mente abierta. Sin embargo, tengo algunos consejos adicionales para ti que pueden ayudarte incluso si ya has visitado un club antes, o si todo esto no es nada nuevo para ti.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>La v\u00eda lenta para los que no quieren rechazo<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>La v\u00eda r\u00e1pida cuando hay menos paciencia<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>La forma m\u00e1s r\u00e1pida, si sabes exactamente lo que quieres.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Empieza a divertirte all\u00ed, o t\u00fambate cerca de una pareja que te interese y empieza a divertirte. Normalmente pasar\u00e1n unos minutos como mucho antes de que las primeras manos se acerquen o se establezca contacto de cualquier otra forma. Todo se desarrolla de forma casi autom\u00e1tica, sin grandes conversaciones ni esfuerzos.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Este consejo es principalmente para parejas que est\u00e1n en paz consigo mismas. Este consejo no debe ser utilizado preferentemente por los hombres solos, porque all\u00ed m\u00e1s bien conduce al fen\u00f3meno antes mencionado \"pajillero marginal\", y las parejas m\u00e1s pocos realmente encontrar atractivo.<\/p>\n<p>Consejo secreto: \u00a1coquetea!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que si ligas con normalidad en un club de este tipo y te esfuerzas, como har\u00edas en la naturaleza, ya destacar\u00e1s considerablemente de la media. S\u00e9 encantador. No tengas miedo. Flirtea con los dem\u00e1s, establece contacto f\u00edsico, baila. Habla de lo divertido que te parece estar aqu\u00ed y de c\u00f3mo te sientes o de que estabas terriblemente nervioso cuando condujiste hasta aqu\u00ed. Haciendo estas cosas, que se dan por sentadas en el flirteo cotidiano, tienes la mejor oportunidad de hacer algo exactamente con la pareja con la que quieres ser sexualmente activo. S\u00f3lo tienes que olvidarte por un momento de ese motivo ulterior que tiene todo el mundo, \"\u00bfVamos a tener sexo despu\u00e9s?\", y recordar a qui\u00e9n tienes delante: personas con miedos e inseguridades normales a las que les gusta divertirse y a las que les gusta que las seduzcan.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando entras por primera vez en un club de intercambio de parejas, puede que sientas una mezcla de excitaci\u00f3n y nerviosismo. Pero tranquilo, no hay nada que temer. Los clubes de intercambio de parejas son espacios acogedores donde personas con ideas afines pueden explorar su sexualidad en un entorno seguro y consensuado. 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