{"id":236,"date":"2022-06-06T10:20:33","date_gmt":"2022-06-06T10:20:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=236"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:18:32","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:18:32","slug":"what-percentage-of-couples-are-swingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/","title":{"rendered":"Kui suur osa paaridest on Swingers?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Sisukord<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf47d0adb\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf47d0adb\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#What_Percentage_of_Couples_Are_Swingers\" >Kui suur osa paaridest on Swingers?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Statistics\" >Statistika<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Demographics\" >Demograafia<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Religious_affiliation\" >Usuline kuuluvus<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Life_satisfaction\" >Eluga rahulolu<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Cheating\" >Petmine<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Online_hook-ups\" >Online-\u00fchendused<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Divorce_rates\" >Abielulahutuse m\u00e4\u00e4rad<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/et\/kui-suur-osa-paaridest-on-swingerid\/#Preferences_for_sex\" >Soolised eelistused<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Percentage_of_Couples_Are_Swingers\"><\/span>Kui suur osa paaridest on Swingers?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Kui suur on abielupaaride osakaal? Seda on raske kindlalt \u00f6elda, sest sellekohane statistika on erinev. Hinnanguliselt on siiski v\u00e4ike protsent abielupaaridest swingivad, kusjuures m\u00f5ned uuringud n\u00e4itavad, et umbes 4% abielupaaridest tegelevad swingimisega. See t\u00e4hendab, et ainult v\u00e4ike protsent inimestest on \u00fcldiselt swingerid. Kuigi on raske t\u00e4pselt kindlaks teha, kui paljud paarid on swingerid, on selge, et swinging ei ole nii levinud kui traditsioonilised monogaamilised suhted. \u00dcldiselt on swingivate paaride osakaal ingliskeelsetes riikides suhteliselt v\u00e4ike v\u00f5rreldes abielupaaride koguarvuga.<\/p>\n<p>Kui suur osa paaridest on siis swingerid? Vastus sellele k\u00fcsimusele varieerub suuresti s\u00f5ltuvalt suhte t\u00fc\u00fcbist. Swingerid ei ole pigem n\u00f5us arusaamaga, et mees peaks olema \"saavutaja\" ja naine peaks j\u00e4\u00e4ma koju. Need erinevused ei ole aga alati nii drastilised. Siin on m\u00f5ned demograafilised andmed swingerite kohta. Lugege edasi, et teada saada, millised on erinevused sellistes suhetes ja kuidas aru saada, kas teie suhe v\u00f5ib olla swinging.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Statistics\"><\/span>Statistika<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>P\u00f5hja-Ameerika Swingiklubide Liit (NASCA) on koostanud m\u00f5ned uuringud Swingiklubide arvu kohta. Need uuringud n\u00e4itavad, et swingerid moodustavad kaks kuni neli protsenti abielus olevatest inimestest. Teised uuringud on n\u00e4idanud, et swingerid moodustavad kaks kuni neli protsenti kogu elanikkonnast, Bartell ja Cole (1974) on aga andnud 1,7 protsenti. Swingeri kohta ei ole olemas \u00fchtset m\u00e4\u00e4ratlust ja eri r\u00fchmadel on t\u00f5en\u00e4oliselt erinevad m\u00e4\u00e4ratlused.<\/p>\n<p>In a survey of 1,200 swingers, researchers found that less than 5 percent never reached a climax, and that less than one percent never achieved it in the past year. This doesn&#8217;t include their bedroom life with a committed partner, either. Still, swingers are more likely to reach completion than monogamous partners. The findings suggest that more swingers are embracing this lifestyle. Despite the stigma surrounding open relationships, more people are willing to explore this type of lifestyle.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Demographics\"><\/span>Demograafia<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-259 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/demographics.jpg\" alt=\"demograafia\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/demographics.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/demographics-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/demographics-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/demographics-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Swingerite demograafilisi andmeid v\u00f5ib kirjeldada kui keskklassi valged. Neil on v\u00e4hemalt kaheaastane k\u00f5rgharidus. Nad on abielus ja neil on v\u00e4hemalt \u00fcks abielu. Nad on poliitiliselt rohkem keskerakondlased kui teised r\u00fchmad, neist 36% m\u00e4\u00e4ratlevad end demokraatidena ja 25% vabariiklastena. Huvitaval kombel on swingerid v\u00e4hem rassiliselt ja sotsiaalselt konservatiivsed kui elanikkond \u00fcldiselt. Samuti kuuluvad nad suurema t\u00f5en\u00e4osusega keskklassi ja on ametikohal v\u00f5i juhtival ametikohal.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, while swingers are generally more likely to be women, they are also more likely to have a dysfunctional or abusive family background. Such backgrounds are associated with a higher rate of sex addiction and disturbed relationship patterns. It is important to exclude abuse as a cause, however, because swingers are likely to believe that human nature is &#8220;bad,&#8221; even if that&#8217;s not necessarily true. Swingers with abusive families often view human nature as an inherently perverse and evil trait.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Religious_affiliation\"><\/span>Usuline kuuluvus<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The survey found that most swingers were not religious. In fact, two-thirds of them reported no religious affiliation at all. Only Protestants had a higher religious affiliation. In contrast, polys and swingers were equally likely to be members of one of the four main religions, with the swingers&#8217; religious affiliation being the lowest. But these swingers are not necessarily bad examples of heterosexual relationships. The study&#8217;s results have important implications for heterosexual relationships, not just for swinging couples.<\/p>\n<p>Lisaks kiigepaaridele seisavad paljud kristlikud usklikud silmitsi teiste kristlaste hinnanguga. See hinnang v\u00f5ib p\u00f5hineda teadmatusel v\u00f5i kadedusel, kuid kristlastel on kohustus austada Jumalat ja hoida oma eraelu oma partnerist eraldi. M\u00f5nel juhul v\u00f5ivad kristlased soovida teistest usunditest eemale hoida ja mitte avalikustada oma suhteid, et v\u00e4ltida konflikte. M\u00f5ned kristlikud paarid elavad aga hea meelega oma usuliste t\u00f5ekspidamiste j\u00e4rgi, isegi kui nad on vaheldumisi koos.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Life_satisfaction\"><\/span>Eluga rahulolu<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hiljutises uuringus viisid teadlased l\u00e4bi eksperimendi, et teha kindlaks seos ps\u00fchholoogilise n\u00f5ustamise ja paaride eluga rahulolu vahel. Osalejad m\u00e4\u00e4rati juhuslikult kas juhtumi- v\u00f5i kontrollgruppi. Ps\u00fchholoog manustas k\u00fcsimustikku \"Temporaalne rahulolu eluga\", mis sisaldab viisteist k\u00fcsimustikku. Uuringusse kuulus ka kolm v\u00e4iksemat skaalat, mis m\u00f5\u00f5davad eluga rahulolu. Tulemused n\u00e4itasid statistiliselt olulist erinevust kahe r\u00fchma vahel. \u00dcldiselt j\u00f5uti uuringus j\u00e4reldusele, et ps\u00fchholoogilist konsultatsiooni saanud paarid kogesid suuremat eluga rahulolu kui need, kes ps\u00fchholoogilist konsultatsiooni ei saanud.<\/p>\n<p>Uuringus osalejad teatasid oma eluga rahulolust ning sotsiaalsetest ja demograafilistest teguritest. Patsientide eluga rahulolu valdkond oli oluliselt madalam kui abikaasade puhul. Patsientide puhul olid k\u00f5ige enam m\u00f5jutatud valdkonnad eluga rahulolu, vaba aeg ja seksuaalelu. Ainult suhe oma partneriga j\u00e4i teiste valdkondadega v\u00f5rdselt k\u00f5rgele tasemele. M\u00f5lema abikaasa puhul oli k\u00f5ige rahulolevam valdkond perekonnaelu, millel oli k\u00f5rgeim hinne. Siiski ei olnud surnud uuringus osalejad tingimata \u00f5nnelikumad kui teised osalejad.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cheating\"><\/span>Petmine<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>How many swingers are there in a relationship? Almost 1%, according to a recent survey. Interestingly, women are more likely to break rules and not tell their partners, while men are less likely to do so. Women over fifty and swingers older than 40 are the most common groups of swingers. However, it is important to note that these statistics don&#8217;t include affairs or lonesome men looking for their tail.<\/p>\n<p>The origins of swinging can be traced back to the 1950s, when war pilots would tend to look after their friends&#8217; wives in case they died in combat. It also has a strong resemblance to the ancient Israelite law of brother-in-law marriage. In the 1960s and 1970s, sexual revolutions questioned all moral codes and led to open relationships, although they were not formally characterized as cheating. Today, however, these types of relationships are no longer considered cheating, and the trend towards open relationships has gone full circle.<\/p>\n<p>Swingers identify as middle-of-the-road politically, with an increased tendency to take liberal stances on controversial issues. They&#8217;re more likely to support marriage between Whites and Blacks, and to support homosexual relationships. They&#8217;re also less likely to reject traditional gender roles. In fact, swingers are less likely to be racist or sexist than other types of couples. In addition, swingers are less likely to say that their partner should &#8220;be an achiever&#8221; and spend more time at home.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Online_hook-ups\"><\/span>Online-\u00fchendused<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-261 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/online-hook-ups.jpg\" alt=\"online-hook-ups\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/online-hook-ups.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/online-hook-ups-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/online-hook-ups-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/online-hook-ups-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many people are curious about the swinger lifestyle, but what percentage of couples are swingers? Interestingly, this question isn&#8217;t answered by the percentage of couples that use condoms, but rather by the number of people who are interested in swinging, and the media that promotes it. According to research, around 1% of adults are swingers. This figure does not take into account affairs, college students, twenty-somethings, and divorced men looking for a tail.<\/p>\n<p>While swingers do not consider themselves polyamorous, they do consider themselves open relationships and have sex with others. While swingers are not polyamorous, they seek sexual experiences with other couples, and usually do so with no or limited boundaries. While studies about polyamory and open relationships have increased in recent years, those examining swingers haven&#8217;t risen to that level. NBC News, for example, reports that between two and ten percent of married couples are swingers.<\/p>\n<p>Teadlased \u00fctlevad, et kvaliteetse seksi puudumine on \u00fcks peamisi lahutuse p\u00f5hjusi monogaamilistes paarides. Lisaks n\u00e4itas uuring, et 37% abikaasadest ja 29% naistest tunnistasid, et neil on olnud abieluv\u00e4liseid suhteid. Need arvud moodustavad m\u00e4rkimisv\u00e4\u00e4rse osa esimese abielu lahutuste arvust. Samuti peetakse t\u00f5en\u00e4olisemaks, et Swingerid j\u00e4\u00e4vad teisest inimesest rasedaks - see on mure, mida ei tohiks alahinnata.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Divorce_rates\"><\/span>Abielulahutuse m\u00e4\u00e4rad<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>One study found that divorce rates among swingers are lower than those of other marriage types. Swingers are successful whiteys who are financially secure, fully trusting, and free from addictions. They spend years together and are able to keep their affairs in order. A swinger&#8217;s divorce rate is approximately four percent, and it is significantly lower than that of couples with more traditional marriages. However, this doesn&#8217;t mean that swingers should be avoided altogether.<\/p>\n<p>Friendship Expressi ja Milleri swing-klubide poolt l\u00e4bi viidud uuringust selgus, et peaaegu 90 protsenti swingeritest tunnistab end religioosseks. Ainult 47 protsenti teatab, et k\u00e4ib regulaarselt jumalateenistustel. Need paarid toetavad pigem valgete ja mustanahaliste vahelist abielu. Swingeritel on ka v\u00e4hem rassistlikke, seksistlikke ja heteroseksistlikke vaateid kui elanikkonnal \u00fcldiselt. Kuid nad lahutavad harvemini kui teised abielut\u00fc\u00fcbid ja andmed v\u00f5ivad olla eksitavad.<\/p>\n<p>Kuigi kiikumine on suhteliselt uus n\u00e4htus, ei ole see sugugi haruldane. Tegelikult on mitme partneriga seks ja pol\u00fcamoorsed suhted peaaegu sama vanad kui truudusetus. Avatud abielud on pol\u00fcamoria \u00fcks vorm, mida v\u00f5ib j\u00e4lgida kuni l\u00e4\u00e4ne tsivilisatsiooni ajani tagasi. Kuigi see tava ei ole l\u00e4\u00e4ne kultuuris nii levinud, harrastasid anabaptistid ja juudid juba kuueteistk\u00fcmnendal sajandil naistevahetust. See on levinud ka m\u00f5nes v\u00e4hemusrahvuse kommunistlikus \u00f5petuses.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Preferences_for_sex\"><\/span>Soolised eelistused<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>On mitmeid viise, kuidas teha kindlaks, kas paar on swinger. Esiteks v\u00f5ite k\u00fcsida oma partnerilt, millised on tema seksuaalsed eelistused. Kui te olete vanem, siis v\u00f5ite eelistada kondoomi, samas kui noor swinger ei pruugi suguhaiguste p\u00e4rast nii palju muret tunda. Nii v\u00f5i teisiti, swingerid hindavad kogukonda ja individuaalseid eelistusi rohkem kui seksuaaltervist. Lisaks k\u00fcsivad swingerid \u00fcksteiselt t\u00f5en\u00e4olisemalt, kas neil on mugav kondoomi kasutada.<\/p>\n<p>Kiikumine v\u00f5ib olla suurep\u00e4rane v\u00f5imalus paarile oma seksuaalse vabaduse avastamiseks. Kui \u00fcks partner tahab koos uusi elamusi kogeda, samas kui teine partner pigem vaatab, kuidas teine inimene seksiga tegeleb, on swinging elustiil neile hea valik. Esialgse arutelu k\u00e4igus v\u00f5ib \u00fcks partner julgustada teist proovima. Kui teine partner \u00fctleb ei, ei tohiks swinging elustiili suhtes survet avaldada.<\/p>\n<p>Swingers don&#8217;t want to be polyamorous, and they don&#8217;t usually seek multiple partners. Their primary goal is to experience sex with little or no strings attached. Although studies on polyamory and open relationships have increased in recent years, there is no indication that swinging is more common in married couples. According to NBC News, anywhere between two and ten percent of married couples practice swinging.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"margin: 0px auto; display: block;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/_M1L3FxintE\" width=\"523\" height=\"292\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kui suur osa paaridest on Swingers? Kui suur on abielupaaride osakaal? Seda on raske kindlalt \u00f6elda, sest selle teema statistika varieerub. Hinnanguliselt on siiski v\u00e4ike protsent abielupaaridest swingijad, kusjuures m\u00f5ned uuringud n\u00e4itavad, et umbes 4% abielupaaridest tegelevad swingimisega. 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