{"id":113,"date":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=113"},"modified":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","slug":"how-to-recognize-other-swingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/","title":{"rendered":"Mist\u00e4 tunnistaa parinvaihtarit?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Sis\u00e4llysluettelo<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d072af38c\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d072af38c\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\" >Onko olemassa tiettyj\u00e4 tapoja tunnistaa parinvaihto?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\" >Merkkej\u00e4 tunnistaa Swingers<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\" >1. Heid\u00e4n puutarhassaan on nurmikon tontut.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\" >2. He k\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t erikoisia koruja.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#3_They_have_a_hot_tub\" >3. Heill\u00e4 on poreallas.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\" >4. Ne n\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t kuumenevan i\u00e4n my\u00f6t\u00e4.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/#Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\" >Muita huhuttuja merkkej\u00e4 ja symboleja Swingerit<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Nelj\u00e4 t\u00e4rkeint\u00e4 vihjett\u00e4 toimivat leiv\u00e4nmuruja muille parinvaihtomiehille.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>Onko olemassa tiettyj\u00e4 tapoja tunnistaa parinvaihto?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>T\u00e4m\u00e4 on miljoonan dollarin kysymys, joka nousee esiin koko ajan swingiyhteis\u00f6ss\u00e4.<\/p>\n<p>Swing-yst\u00e4viemme keskuudessa vallitsee yksimielisyys siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 yksik\u00e4\u00e4n swinger ei k\u00e4ytt\u00e4isi sit\u00e4, koska pelk\u00e4isi joutuvansa paljastetuksi, jos el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyylille olisi erityinen merkki tai symboli.<\/p>\n<p>Meill\u00e4 on yst\u00e4vi\u00e4, jotka ovat yritt\u00e4neet k\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 v\u00e4rikk\u00e4it\u00e4 nurmikon koriste-esineit\u00e4 tai eksoottisia kasveja l\u00e4hett\u00e4\u00e4kseen itsetunnustavia savusignaaleja muille el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyylille.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e4m\u00e4 pienet vihjeet voivat toimia leiv\u00e4nmuruina muille etsiville parinvaihtoyrityksille, mutta he eiv\u00e4t yleens\u00e4 ole niin r\u00f6yhkeit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 he tahattomasti v\u00e4litt\u00e4isiv\u00e4t niit\u00e4 yst\u00e4villeen ja naapureilleen.<\/p>\n<p>Although the swingers we know may not display a banner that says &#8220;swingers partying&#8221; in their front yard, that doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s completely impossible to find clues and signs that your neighbors may be in the lifestyle.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>Merkkej\u00e4 tunnistaa Swingers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Seuraavassa on joitakin merkkej\u00e4, joita olemme tunnistaneet yhdess\u00e4 poppariyst\u00e4viemme kanssa vuosien varrella.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\"><\/span>1. Heid\u00e4n puutarhassaan on nurmikon tontut.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>S\u00f6p\u00f6t, suloiset ja v\u00e4rikk\u00e4\u00e4t nurmikon tontut on aina yhdistetty keinuvaan yhteis\u00f6\u00f6n.<\/p>\n<p>Our neighbors, who have no idea we are swingers, often joke that others in our neighborhood have gnomes and don&#8217;t know their true meaning. I always joke back and tell them that Martha and John may well be 80 by now &#8211; you never know!<\/p>\n<p>Kun ajattelen asiaa, iso\u00e4itini pihalla oli nurmikon tonttuja ymp\u00e4riins\u00e4. Ehk\u00e4 t\u00e4m\u00e4 keinuminen on perinn\u00f6llist\u00e4?<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\"><\/span>2. He k\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t erikoisia koruja.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard for years that a black ring on a man&#8217;s right hand is a way to identify other swingers. Or that a woman wearing an anklet on her right ankle is a sign that a couple is out and about and open to meeting other swingers.<\/p>\n<p>While these might be clues to identification, I&#8217;m pretty sure I wouldn&#8217;t trust these clues alone or try to break the ice by asking, &#8220;&#8230;so I see your ring\/ankle, are you a swinger?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Saimme hiljattain tiet\u00e4\u00e4, ett\u00e4 parinvaihtoa varten on olemassa kansainv\u00e4linen symboli. Heid\u00e4n verkkosivunsa tarjoaa koruja, vaatteita, v\u00e4liaikaisia tatuointeja ja asusteita, jotka auttavat houkuttelemaan ja tunnistamaan samanhenkisi\u00e4 ihmisi\u00e4 ymp\u00e4ri maailmaa.<\/p>\n<p>While we might wear something like this when we&#8217;re out of town or traveling, we certainly wouldn&#8217;t wear it locally for fear of being easily outed.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_have_a_hot_tub\"><\/span>3. Heill\u00e4 on poreallas.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Having a hot tub on your back patio has always been associated with being a member of the swinging community. While I don&#8217;t necessarily think this is a safe way to say it, it is definitely a sign.<\/p>\n<p>My\u00f6nnett\u00e4k\u00f6\u00f6n, ett\u00e4 meill\u00e4 on poreallas, ja niin on monilla el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyyliyst\u00e4vill\u00e4mme!<\/p>\n<p>Meid\u00e4n ostimme sen ennen kuin aloitimme el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyylin, mutta ehk\u00e4 alitajuisesti tiesimme, ett\u00e4 meid\u00e4n oli tarkoitus swingata?<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\"><\/span>4. Ne n\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t kuumenevan i\u00e4n my\u00f6t\u00e4.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Tuntemamme parinvaihtarit vanhenevat kuin hieno viini.<\/p>\n<p>Kun muistelet seurusteluvuosiasi, muistatko, miten pitk\u00e4lle menit tehdess\u00e4si vaikutuksen seurustelukumppaneihisi?<\/p>\n<p>Ne meist\u00e4, jotka el\u00e4v\u00e4t el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyyliss\u00e4, ponnistelevat edelleen sen eteen.<\/p>\n<p>While most people our age are skipping the gym, dropping waxing from their priority list, and showering once a week, we&#8217;re still keeping things tight from head to toe.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re part of the swinging lifestyle, it&#8217;s important to take care of your health and appearance. My husband and I look better now, in our late 30s, than we did when we were 25.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\"><\/span>Muita huhuttuja merkkej\u00e4 ja symboleja Swingerit<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard of several other symbols and signs being used over the years, but couldn&#8217;t really confirm any of them as accurate.<\/p>\n<p>Muutamia muita huhuja, jotka liikkuvat internetiss\u00e4, ovat muun muassa pampasruoho etupihalla, ananas-ovenkoputtaja, vaaleanpunaiset flamingot puutarhassa, naiset, joilla on varvasrenkaat, ja pariskunnille sopivat yin-yang-tatuoinnit.<\/p>\n<p>Vaikka useimmat meist\u00e4 el\u00e4m\u00e4ntyylin parissa ty\u00f6skentelevist\u00e4 pyrkiv\u00e4tkin pit\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4n yksityisyytemme mahdollisimman hyvin yll\u00e4, on silti joitakin merkkej\u00e4 siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 parinvaihto voi olla tunnistettavissa.<\/p>\n<p>Jos suosikkinaapurisi k\u00e4ytt\u00e4v\u00e4t outoja koruja, heill\u00e4 on nurmikko t\u00e4ynn\u00e4 tonttuja, ylisuuri poreallas ja he ovat yh\u00e4 kuumempia, kun kaikki muut heid\u00e4n ymp\u00e4rill\u00e4\u00e4n vanhenevat, he saattavat olla parinvaihtomiehi\u00e4.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nelj\u00e4 t\u00e4rkeint\u00e4 vihjett\u00e4 toimivat leiv\u00e4nmuruja muille parinvaihtomiehille. Onko olemassa tiettyj\u00e4 tapoja tunnistaa parinvaihto? T\u00e4m\u00e4 on miljoonan dollarin kysymys, joka nousee esiin koko ajan svingiyhteis\u00f6ss\u00e4. Svingiyst\u00e4vien keskuudessa vallitsee yksimielisyys siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 yksik\u00e4\u00e4n swinger ei k\u00e4ytt\u00e4isi sit\u00e4, koska h\u00e4n pelk\u00e4\u00e4 joutuvansa ulos, jos ... <a title=\"Mist\u00e4 tunnistaa parinvaihtarit?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/miten-tunnistaa-muut-parinvaihtoajat\/\" aria-label=\"Lue lis\u00e4\u00e4 aiheesta Miten tunnistaa parinvaihtarit?\">Lue lis\u00e4\u00e4<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-the-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":429,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/429"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}