{"id":113,"date":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=113"},"modified":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","slug":"how-to-recognize-other-swingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment reconna\u00eetre les \u00e9changistes ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table des mati\u00e8res<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf68ef27e\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf68ef27e\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\" >Existe-t-il des moyens d'identifier les \u00e9changistes ?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\" >Signes d'identification des \u00e9changistes<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\" >1. Ils ont des nains de jardin dans leur jardin.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\" >2. Elles portent des bijoux curieux.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#3_They_have_a_hot_tub\" >3. Ils disposent d'un bain \u00e0 remous.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\" >4. Ils semblent devenir plus chauds en vieillissant.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-reconnaitre-dautres-echangistes\/#Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\" >Autres signes et symboles suppos\u00e9s de l'\u00e9changisme<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Les 4 indices les plus importants servent de fil d'Ariane \u00e0 d'autres \u00e9changistes en goguette.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>Existe-t-il des moyens d'identifier les \u00e9changistes ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>C'est la question \u00e0 un million de dollars qui revient constamment dans la communaut\u00e9 de l'\u00e9changisme.<\/p>\n<p>Nos amis \u00e9changistes s'accordent \u00e0 dire qu'aucun d'entre eux ne l'utiliserait de peur d'\u00eatre d\u00e9masqu\u00e9 s'il existait un signe ou un symbole sp\u00e9cifique \u00e0 ce mode de vie.<\/p>\n<p>Nous avons des amis qui ont essay\u00e9 d'utiliser des ornements de pelouse color\u00e9s ou des plantes exotiques pour envoyer des signaux de fum\u00e9e d'auto-identification aux autres adeptes du style de vie.<\/p>\n<p>Ces petits indices peuvent servir de fil d'Ariane \u00e0 d'autres \u00e9changistes \u00e0 l'aff\u00fbt, mais ils ne sont g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement pas assez effront\u00e9s pour les transmettre par inadvertance \u00e0 leurs amis et voisins.<\/p>\n<p>Although the swingers we know may not display a banner that says &#8220;swingers partying&#8221; in their front yard, that doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s completely impossible to find clues and signs that your neighbors may be in the lifestyle.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>Signes d'identification des \u00e9changistes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Voici quelques-uns des signes que nous avons identifi\u00e9s avec nos amis \u00e9changistes au fil des ans.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\"><\/span>1. Ils ont des nains de jardin dans leur jardin.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Les nains de jardin mignons, doux et color\u00e9s ont toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 associ\u00e9s \u00e0 la communaut\u00e9 des \u00e9changistes.<\/p>\n<p>Our neighbors, who have no idea we are swingers, often joke that others in our neighborhood have gnomes and don&#8217;t know their true meaning. I always joke back and tell them that Martha and John may well be 80 by now &#8211; you never know!<\/p>\n<p>En y repensant, ma grand-m\u00e8re avait des nains de jardin partout dans son jardin. Peut-\u00eatre que cette histoire d'\u00e9changisme est h\u00e9r\u00e9ditaire ?<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\"><\/span>2. Elles portent des bijoux curieux.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard for years that a black ring on a man&#8217;s right hand is a way to identify other swingers. Or that a woman wearing an anklet on her right ankle is a sign that a couple is out and about and open to meeting other swingers.<\/p>\n<p>While these might be clues to identification, I&#8217;m pretty sure I wouldn&#8217;t trust these clues alone or try to break the ice by asking, &#8220;&#8230;so I see your ring\/ankle, are you a swinger?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nous avons r\u00e9cemment appris qu'il existe un symbole international pour les \u00e9changistes. Leur site web propose des bijoux, des v\u00eatements, des tatouages temporaires et des accessoires pour aider \u00e0 attirer et \u00e0 identifier les personnes partageant les m\u00eames id\u00e9es dans le monde entier.<\/p>\n<p>While we might wear something like this when we&#8217;re out of town or traveling, we certainly wouldn&#8217;t wear it locally for fear of being easily outed.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_have_a_hot_tub\"><\/span>3. Ils disposent d'un bain \u00e0 remous.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Having a hot tub on your back patio has always been associated with being a member of the swinging community. While I don&#8217;t necessarily think this is a safe way to say it, it is definitely a sign.<\/p>\n<p>Certes, nous disposons d'un jacuzzi, tout comme nombre de nos amis adeptes du style de vie !<\/p>\n<p>Le n\u00f4tre a \u00e9t\u00e9 achet\u00e9 avant que nous n'entrions dans le mode de vie, mais peut-\u00eatre savions-nous inconsciemment que nous \u00e9tions destin\u00e9s \u00e0 l'\u00e9changisme ?<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\"><\/span>4. Ils semblent devenir plus chauds en vieillissant.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Les \u00e9changistes que nous connaissons vieillissent comme du bon vin.<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque vous vous rem\u00e9morez vos ann\u00e9es d'amour, vous souvenez-vous des efforts que vous faisiez pour impressionner vos partenaires ?<\/p>\n<p>Ceux d'entre nous qui ont adopt\u00e9 ce mode de vie font encore ce genre d'efforts.<\/p>\n<p>While most people our age are skipping the gym, dropping waxing from their priority list, and showering once a week, we&#8217;re still keeping things tight from head to toe.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re part of the swinging lifestyle, it&#8217;s important to take care of your health and appearance. My husband and I look better now, in our late 30s, than we did when we were 25.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\"><\/span>Autres signes et symboles suppos\u00e9s de l'\u00e9changisme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard of several other symbols and signs being used over the years, but couldn&#8217;t really confirm any of them as accurate.<\/p>\n<p>D'autres rumeurs circulent sur l'internet : de l'herbe de la pampa dans le jardin, un ananas en guise de heurtoir, des flamants roses dans le jardin, des femmes portant des bagues aux orteils et des tatouages yin-yang assortis pour les couples.<\/p>\n<p>Bien que la plupart des adeptes de ce mode de vie s'efforcent de pr\u00e9server leur vie priv\u00e9e, certains signes permettent d'identifier les \u00e9changistes.<\/p>\n<p>Si vos voisins pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9s portent des bijoux curieux, ont une pelouse remplie de gnomes, un jacuzzi surdimensionn\u00e9 et ont de plus en plus chaud alors que tout le monde autour d'eux vieillit, il se peut qu'ils soient \u00e9changistes.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les 4 indices les plus importants servent de fil d'Ariane \u00e0 d'autres \u00e9changistes en vadrouille. Existe-t-il des moyens d'identifier les \u00e9changistes ? C'est la question \u00e0 un million de dollars qui revient souvent dans la communaut\u00e9 \u00e9changiste. 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