{"id":243,"date":"2022-04-06T14:30:21","date_gmt":"2022-04-06T14:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=243"},"modified":"2022-08-05T16:36:38","modified_gmt":"2022-08-05T16:36:38","slug":"how-i-became-a-swinger-the-secrets-of-a-swingers-lifestyle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-je-suis-devenu-echangiste-les-secrets-dun-mode-de-vie-echangiste\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment je suis devenu un \u00e9changiste - Les secrets d'un mode de vie \u00e9changiste"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table des mati\u00e8res<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1fe7ba9f\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1fe7ba9f\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-je-suis-devenu-echangiste-les-secrets-dun-mode-de-vie-echangiste\/#How_I_Became_a_Swinger_%E2%80%93_The_Secrets_of_a_Swingers_Lifestyle\" >Comment je suis devenu un \u00e9changiste - Les secrets d'un mode de vie \u00e9changiste<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-je-suis-devenu-echangiste-les-secrets-dun-mode-de-vie-echangiste\/#Getting_into_a_swingers_club_or_orgy\" >Getting into a swinger&#8217;s club or orgy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-je-suis-devenu-echangiste-les-secrets-dun-mode-de-vie-echangiste\/#Keeping_your_relationship_healthy_as_a_swinger\" >Garder une relation saine en tant qu'\u00e9changiste<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/fr\/comment-je-suis-devenu-echangiste-les-secrets-dun-mode-de-vie-echangiste\/#Keeping_your_relationship_healthy_with_a_swinger_couple\" >Garder une relation saine avec un couple \u00e9changiste<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_I_Became_a_Swinger_%E2%80%93_The_Secrets_of_a_Swingers_Lifestyle\"><\/span>Comment je suis devenu un \u00e9changiste - Les secrets d'un mode de vie \u00e9changiste<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>How I Became a Swinger: The secrets of a swinger&#8217;s lifestyle. Swinging is all about having fun, making new friends, and having sex with strangers. So what does swinging mean? Well, you&#8217;ve probably guessed by now that it&#8217;s anything and everything but sex. But that&#8217;s not all swinging is! There&#8217;s also the issue of how to keep a swinger&#8217;s relationship healthy.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Getting_into_a_swingers_club_or_orgy\"><\/span>Getting into a swinger&#8217;s club or orgy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First, you should become friendly with the people you meet at the parties. While there&#8217;s no need to engage in sexual intercourse at a party, it would be mortifying to show up sober. Once you&#8217;ve made friends, you can discuss a plan of action. You can attend a sex party for different reasons &#8211; voyeurism, hedonism, cuckolding fantasies, playing with others, or exploring your bisexual curiosity.<\/p>\n<p>First, remember that swingers are not frat boys. You won&#8217;t get swept away in the orgy if you show up at swinger&#8217;s clubs. They aren&#8217;t particularly cliquish, so you don&#8217;t have to worry about being excluded. However, you should approach swingers yourself to make your way in the community. It&#8217;s best to approach members of the swingers&#8217; club directly, and avoid introducing yourself to the other students &#8211; they may be too shy to speak with you!<\/p>\n<p>You can also contact a swingers party company, such as Dust to Dawn. If you&#8217;re a man, don&#8217;t push her into participating &#8211; it&#8217;s always better to ask her if there are any upcoming group sex parties you can attend. But don&#8217;t be afraid to show some cash as well. You never know who may be able to open the door for you!<\/p>\n<p>Before you decide to take the plunge into the swinging lifestyle, it&#8217;s important to make sure that you&#8217;re confident and trusting in your partner. It&#8217;s important to have mutual trust and confidence, as a swinging lifestyle doesn&#8217;t break down many social barriers. This is also a great way to improve your relationship and sex life. This article will help you get started!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re new to the swinging lifestyle, you can start slow and find out if you like it before you take the plunge. You can also browse swinging websites and watch porn while easing into the swinging lifestyle. You can also discuss your sexual life with your partner so that you can feel comfortable and confident in introducing yourself to the club. It will be easier to join a swinger&#8217;s club or orgy if you know someone who already does.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keeping_your_relationship_healthy_as_a_swinger\"><\/span>Garder une relation saine en tant qu'\u00e9changiste<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-269 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/keeping-your-relationship-healthy-as-a-swinger.jpg\" alt=\"garder une relation saine en tant qu&#039;\u00e9changiste\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/keeping-your-relationship-healthy-as-a-swinger.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/keeping-your-relationship-healthy-as-a-swinger-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/keeping-your-relationship-healthy-as-a-swinger-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/swingero.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/keeping-your-relationship-healthy-as-a-swinger-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si vous pratiquez l'\u00e9changisme, vous devez savoir ce qu'il faut \u00e9viter. Les effets positifs de l'\u00e9changisme peuvent \u00eatre \u00e9clips\u00e9s par ses cons\u00e9quences n\u00e9gatives. Cependant, l'\u00e9changisme peut aussi \u00eatre une exp\u00e9rience agr\u00e9able pour les deux partenaires. Vous devriez discuter des moyens de maintenir votre relation saine en tant qu'\u00e9changiste. Il est important de discuter des barri\u00e8res qui peuvent vous prot\u00e9ger, vous et votre partenaire, des IST et des grossesses.<\/p>\n<p>Swinging is not easy. It requires a lot of trust and perfect communication. It also requires more trust than monogamous relationships. One partner may feel neglected, while another may feel jealous. In either case, communication is key. It is crucial to be open and honest with your partner. Keeping your relationship healthy as a swinger requires more work than a monogamous relationship. If you don&#8217;t communicate openly and listen to your partner, your relationship will be strained.<\/p>\n<p>To maintain a healthy relationship as a swinger, you should explore your reasons for swinging. Do you have unmet needs? If so, you should consider having sex outside of your primary relationship. You should also consider how much your partner wants to share with you. If you feel like you aren&#8217;t getting enough of your partner, it might be time to start a swinging relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Les relations \u00e9changistes ne conviennent pas \u00e0 tout le monde et ne doivent pas \u00eatre utilis\u00e9es comme une m\u00e9thode de d\u00e9pannage pour les relations en difficult\u00e9. En fait, la plupart des couples qui choisissent l'\u00e9changisme sont d\u00e9j\u00e0 heureux. Ils font \u00e9tat d'un niveau de bonheur plus \u00e9lev\u00e9. Cependant, l'\u00e9changisme exige que vous soyez ouverts, honn\u00eates et que vous communiquiez constamment pour assurer la sant\u00e9 \u00e0 long terme de votre relation. Voici quelques conseils pour pr\u00e9server la sant\u00e9 de votre relation en tant qu'\u00e9changiste.<\/p>\n<p>Les \u00e9changistes doivent s\u00e9parer leur vie sexuelle du reste de la relation. Bien que cela puisse \u00eatre tentant, ce n'est pas une bonne id\u00e9e si votre partenaire flirte ouvertement avec quelqu'un d'autre. Pour que votre relation soit saine en tant qu'\u00e9changiste, vous devez d\u00e9finir des limites et \u00e9tablir des r\u00e8gles. Par exemple, vous et votre partenaire ne devriez pas \u00e9changer des activit\u00e9s sexuelles si vous avez des ant\u00e9c\u00e9dents de MST. Vous devez discuter en priv\u00e9 de la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 de votre relation avec d'autres \u00e9changistes.<\/p>\n<p>When a swinging partner swaps partners, there are several things you should know. You should not be a swinger if your partner doesn&#8217;t want to switch partners. For example, a swinging partner may be prone to becoming frustrated with each other and may get angry easily. Your partner may even begin to feel betrayed if he doesn&#8217;t have sexual intercourse with his partner.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keeping_your_relationship_healthy_with_a_swinger_couple\"><\/span>Garder une relation saine avec un couple \u00e9changiste<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>One of the biggest challenges facing couples who are planning to get involved in swing dancing is keeping sexual encounters discreet. While experienced swing dancers know that they should keep their sexual encounters private, novices often brag about who they have played with. The couple should make sure that they only share recordings and photos of their sex sessions with other swingers. Ultimately, swing dancing should only be considered by couples with solid relationships. It is not a cure-all for a relationship&#8217;s nagging issues.<\/p>\n<p>The first step in keeping your relationship healthy with a swinger couple is to make sure that communication is on point. Even if you&#8217;ve been in a relationship for many years, don&#8217;t assume that your partner is aware of everything you say or do. Their moods can change due to problems at work, family matters, or finances. It&#8217;s important to meet your partner eye to eye.<\/p>\n<p>Une autre \u00e9tape importante pour maintenir une relation saine avec un couple \u00e9changiste est de s'assurer que vous \u00eates tous les deux au clair sur ce que vous attendez de la relation. Les \u00e9changistes sont int\u00e9ress\u00e9s par le plaisir, l'amiti\u00e9 et l'amour. Un couple \u00e9changiste sait faire la part des choses et peut maintenir une relation sans heurts. Si vous et votre partenaire \u00e9changiste \u00eates tous deux adeptes de ce mode de vie, vous devez conclure un accord \u00e9crit qui \u00e9nonce clairement vos attentes et les conditions dans lesquelles vous \u00eates pr\u00eats \u00e0 passer du temps l'un avec l'autre.<\/p>\n<p>Un couple \u00e9changiste aura probablement des r\u00e8gles de base sp\u00e9cifiques en mati\u00e8re de sexe. Certains n'encouragent que les pr\u00e9liminaires et les caresses, tandis que d'autres favorisent les rapports oraux, vaginaux ou anaux. Dans certains cas, les \u00e9changistes pr\u00e9f\u00e8rent m\u00eame faire l'amour s\u00e9par\u00e9ment. Il est important de discuter de ces questions avec votre partenaire pour que votre relation reste saine et heureuse. Il est \u00e9galement important de garder votre intimit\u00e9 ouverte, mais assurez-vous que vous vous sentez tous les deux en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 l'un par rapport \u00e0 l'autre.<\/p>\n<p>L'\u00e9changisme est une exp\u00e9rience amusante et agr\u00e9able pour les deux partenaires, et il peut vous aider \u00e0 renforcer vos liens. L'\u00e9changisme permet aux couples de se rapprocher et d'apprendre \u00e0 conna\u00eetre leurs exp\u00e9riences sexuelles. Les exp\u00e9riences qui en r\u00e9sultent peuvent ajouter du piment \u00e0 une relation d\u00e9j\u00e0 excellente. L'\u00e9changisme est particuli\u00e8rement b\u00e9n\u00e9fique pour les couples qui recherchent une exp\u00e9rience pour pimenter leur relation. L'\u00e9changisme est une bonne option pour les couples qui recherchent quelque chose de nouveau.<\/p>\n<p>As with any sexual practice, the ability to maintain your sex life without swinging is crucial. It may even improve the quality of your relationship. When it&#8217;s done right, swinging can actually improve your quality of life. For example, your partner may have more time to devote to your relationship. This can also help your relationship stay healthy, as your partner will be more willing to give you more time.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zHXHZhU45iQ\" width=\"540\" height=\"302\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comment je suis devenu \u00e9changiste - Les secrets d'un mode de vie \u00e9changiste Comment je suis devenu \u00e9changiste : Les secrets d'un mode de vie \u00e9changiste. L'\u00e9changisme consiste \u00e0 s'amuser, \u00e0 se faire de nouveaux amis et \u00e0 faire l'amour avec des inconnus. Qu'est-ce que l'\u00e9changisme ? 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