{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik egy swinger klubban?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Tartalomjegyz\u00e9k<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c2494166b\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c2494166b\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Bevezet\u00e9s: Mi az a swinger klub?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Mire sz\u00e1m\u00edthatok?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nincs mit\u0151l tartania.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Hogyan ismerkedhetek meg ott valakivel?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Amikor el\u0151sz\u00f6r l\u00e9p be egy szvingerklubba, izgalom \u00e9s idegess\u00e9g kever\u00e9k\u00e9t \u00e9rezheti. De megnyugodhat, nincs mit\u0151l f\u00e9lnie. A szvingerklubok olyan bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gos helyek, ahol a hasonl\u00f3 gondolkod\u00e1s\u00fa emberek biztons\u00e1gos \u00e9s konszenzusos k\u00f6rnyezetben fedezhetik fel a szexualit\u00e1sukat.<\/p>\n<p>Egy swinger klubban mindenf\u00e9le kor\u00fa, alak\u00fa \u00e9s m\u00e9ret\u0171 emberekre sz\u00e1m\u00edthat. Mindenki ugyanaz\u00e9rt van ott - hogy j\u00f3l \u00e9rezze mag\u00e1t \u00e9s felfedezze fant\u00e1zi\u00e1j\u00e1t. Nincs nyom\u00e1s, hogy r\u00e9szt vegyen b\u00e1rmiben, ami nem esik j\u00f3l, \u00e9s a beleegyez\u00e9s mindig kulcsfontoss\u00e1g\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Egy swinger klubban a legk\u00fcl\u00f6nf\u00e9l\u00e9bb tev\u00e9kenys\u00e9geknek lehet tan\u00faja. Egyes p\u00e1rok intim pillanatokat t\u00f6ltenek egym\u00e1ssal, m\u00edg m\u00e1sok a t\u00f6bbi vend\u00e9ggel keverednek \u00e9s ismerkednek. Lehetnek kijel\u00f6lt ter\u00fcletek a priv\u00e1tabb tal\u00e1lkoz\u00e1sokhoz, p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul j\u00e1tsz\u00f3szob\u00e1k vagy s\u00f6t\u00e9t sarkok a diszkr\u00e9tebb tev\u00e9kenys\u00e9gekhez.<\/p>\n<p>Egy swinger-parti sor\u00e1n az exhibicionizmus \u00e9s a voyeurizmus kever\u00e9k\u00e9re sz\u00e1m\u00edthat. Egyes vend\u00e9gek \u00e9lvezhetik, hogy m\u00e1sok szexu\u00e1lis aktusokat v\u00e9geznek, m\u00edg m\u00e1soknak k\u00e9nyelmesebb lehet, ha maguk is r\u00e9szt vesznek benne. A l\u00e9gk\u00f6r \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban laza \u00e9s nem \u00edt\u00e9lkezik, \u00edgy mindenki szabadon kifejezheti v\u00e1gyait.<\/p>\n<p>Az, hogy mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik egy swinger klubban vagy szexklubban, v\u00e9gs\u0151 soron rajtad m\u00falik. Ak\u00e1r megfigyelni, ak\u00e1r szocializ\u00e1l\u00f3dni, ak\u00e1r felfedezni a saj\u00e1t hat\u00e1raidat, az \u00e9lm\u00e9nyt teljes m\u00e9rt\u00e9kben te alak\u00edtod ki. Csak ne feledje, hogy ny\u00edltan kommunik\u00e1ljon partner\u00e9vel, \u00e9s tartsa tiszteletben m\u00e1sok hat\u00e1rait, \u00e9s biztos, hogy eml\u00e9kezetes \u00e9s \u00e9lvezetes id\u0151t fog elt\u00f6lteni a swinging k\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9gben.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Sok ember sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra a swinger klub az egyik els\u0151 hely, ahol t\u00e9nylegesen elkezdik kihaszn\u00e1lni a nyitott kapcsolat szexu\u00e1lis szabads\u00e1g\u00e1t. Ann\u00e1l is ink\u00e1bb, mert az els\u0151 l\u00e1togat\u00e1s el\u0151tt gyakran bizonytalans\u00e1g \u00e9s f\u00e9linform\u00e1ci\u00f3k vannak azzal kapcsolatban, hogy mi is val\u00f3j\u00e1ban egy swinger klub, mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik ott, \u00e9s hogy egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n \u00e9rdemes-e odamenni.<\/p>\n<p>Az egyetlen inform\u00e1ci\u00f3, amit ezzel kapcsolatban tal\u00e1lni lehet, gyakran maguk a klubok ny\u00fajtj\u00e1k, \u00e9s ez minden logika szerint nem t\u0171nik t\u00fal megb\u00edzhat\u00f3 forr\u00e1snak a becs\u00fcletes inform\u00e1ci\u00f3k tekintet\u00e9ben.<\/p>\n<p>Ez\u00e9rt itt szeretn\u00e9m elmondani, hogy pontosan mire sz\u00e1m\u00edthatsz, mire \u00e9rdemes odafigyelned, \u00e9s persze eloszlatni n\u00e9h\u00e1ny \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos el\u0151\u00edt\u00e9letet!<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s egy r\u00f6vid megjegyz\u00e9s az \u00d6n sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra: Itt csak heteroszexu\u00e1lis swinger klubokr\u00f3l \u00edrok.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Bevezet\u00e9s: Mi az a swinger klub?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>A swinger klubok t\u00falnyom\u00f3 t\u00f6bbs\u00e9ge nagyon hasonl\u00f3an \u00e9p\u00fcl fel. Van egy recepci\u00f3, ahol fizetsz, \u00e9s \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban kapsz egy szekr\u00e9nykulcsot (p\u00e1rk\u00e9nt megosztva). Ott megk\u00e9rdezik azt is, hogy j\u00e1rt\u00e1l-e m\u00e1r ott kor\u00e1bban, \u00e9s ha nem, akkor gyakran felaj\u00e1nlanak egy vezetett t\u00far\u00e1t, ahol mindent megn\u00e9zhetsz, \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban a bel\u00e9p\u0151d\u00edj megfizet\u00e9se n\u00e9lk\u00fcl.<\/p>\n<p>Valahol van egy uniszex \u00f6lt\u00f6z\u0151, ahol \u00e1t\u00f6lt\u00f6zhetsz \u00e9s elrakhatod a cuccaidat. Van egy b\u00e1r, ahol \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban ingyen italokat lehet kapni. Ez gyakran, de nem mindig alkoholos italokat is tartalmaz. Ezen k\u00edv\u00fcl \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban van egy b\u00fcf\u00e9 t\u00f6bb\u00e9-kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 j\u00f3 \u00e9telekkel, ami szint\u00e9n benne van az \u00e1rban.<\/p>\n<p>Tov\u00e1bb\u00e1 a klub \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban k\u00e9t r\u00e9szre van osztva, egy hivatalos r\u00e9szre \u00e9s a j\u00e1tsz\u00f3t\u00e9rre. A hivatalos r\u00e9szen van minden, amit az el\u0151bb felsoroltam, \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban van egy t\u00e1nct\u00e9r is. Sok klubban van \u00f6lt\u00f6zk\u00f6d\u00e9si szab\u00e1lyzat, erre a hivatalos r\u00e9szre. A szab\u00e1lyok legt\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r valami olyasmit mondanak, hogy viszonylag eleg\u00e1ns vagy szexi ruh\u00e1k k\u00edv\u00e1natosak, \u00e9s min\u00e9l k\u00e9s\u0151bbre esik az este, ann\u00e1l kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 fontos, hogy egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n b\u00e1rmit is viselj\u00fcnk. A legt\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r megengedik, hogy feh\u00e9rnem\u0171ben vagy rendk\u00edv\u00fcl enyh\u00e9n \u00f6lt\u00f6zve s\u00e9t\u00e1lj k\u00f6rbe, miel\u0151tt mindenki m\u00e1s ezt tenn\u00e9, an\u00e9lk\u00fcl, hogy zavarna. Ebben a hivatalos r\u00e9szben \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban nem kell m\u00e1st v\u00e1rnod, mint t\u00f6bb meztelens\u00e9get, mint amihez egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt hozz\u00e1szokt\u00e1l. Alkalmank\u00e9nt el\u0151fordul n\u00e9mi er\u0151teljesebb simogat\u00e1s vagy or\u00e1lis szex, de t\u00f6bbnyire ez a tev\u00e9kenys\u00e9g viszonylag gyorsan \u00e1tker\u00fcl a j\u00e1t\u00e9kterekbe.<\/p>\n<p>A j\u00e1tsz\u00f3t\u00e9r \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban t\u00f6bb helyis\u00e9gb\u0151l \u00e1ll, amelyeket sz\u0151nyegekkel bor\u00edtanak. Higi\u00e9niai okokb\u00f3l t\u00f6r\u00fclk\u00f6z\u0151ket lehet al\u00e1 tenni, \u00e9s az \u00f3vszerek \u00e9s t\u00f6rl\u0151kend\u0151k el\u00e9rhet\u0151 k\u00f6zels\u00e9gben vannak. Ezeken a j\u00e1tsz\u00f3tereken, ahogy azt m\u00e1r sejthette, lehet szexelni.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Ezek a kis szob\u00e1k \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban igen forgalmasak, ez\u00e9rt nem kell bosszankodnia, ha \"foglaltak\" - ha v\u00e1r egy kicsit, a szob\u00e1k id\u0151vel \u00fajra szabadd\u00e1 v\u00e1lnak.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Mire sz\u00e1m\u00edthatok?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>El\u0151sz\u00f6r is: Ek\u00f6zben minden swinger klubban van egy egy\u00e9rtelm\u0171 \"Nem, az nemet jelent\" szab\u00e1ly. Ezt a szab\u00e1lyt az is al\u00e1t\u00e1masztja, hogy aki nem tartja be, az visszat\u00e9r\u00edt\u00e9s n\u00e9lk\u00fcl rep\u00fcl ki, \u00e9s ki van tiltva a klubb\u00f3l.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Ez a szab\u00e1ly m\u00e1r \u00f6nmag\u00e1ban is nagyon is kifizet\u0151d\u0151v\u00e9 teheti egy swinger klub l\u00e1togat\u00e1s\u00e1t. Itt ugyanis, ha m\u00e9g nem \u00edgy teszel, vil\u00e1gosan szab\u00e1lyozott keretek k\u00f6z\u00f6tt \u00e9lheted ki az \u00f6nmeghat\u00e1roz\u00f3 szexualit\u00e1sodat.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>A k\u00f6vetkez\u0151 ponthoz: Ha nyilv\u00e1nos j\u00e1t\u00e9kban vagy a t\u00e1rsaddal, sz\u00e1m\u00edthatsz arra, hogy a k\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00f6tted l\u00e9v\u0151 emberek is szexelni fognak. K\u00fcl\u00f6n\u00f6sen, ha ezek az emberek k\u00f6zvetlen fizikai k\u00f6zels\u00e9gben vannak, lehets\u00e9ges, hogy egy ponton egy k\u00e9z \u00f3vatosan odatapogat, \u00e9s el\u0151sz\u00f6r meg\u00e9rint egy \u00e1rtalmatlan pontot, p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul a v\u00e1llat vagy a l\u00e1bat.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>El\u0151fordulhat, hogy \u00d6nt vagy a t\u00e1rs\u00e1t, vagy mindkett\u0151j\u00fcket egy\u00fctt t\u00e1madj\u00e1k meg. Ezek a felszed\u00e9si k\u00eds\u00e9rletek azonban \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban sokkal f\u00e9l\u00e9nkebbek \u00e9s csendesebbek, mint a szok\u00e1sos sz\u00f3rakoz\u00f3helyi k\u00f6rnyezetben.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nincs mit\u0151l tartania.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ha ez \u00edgy van, akkor mi\u00e9rt f\u00e9lnek olyan sokan annyira a swinger- \u00e9s p\u00e1rkapcsolati klubokt\u00f3l? Tulajdonk\u00e9ppen b\u00e1rki elmehetne oda, \u00e9s n\u00e9zhetne \u00e9l\u0151 porn\u00f3t a t\u00e1rs\u00e1val egy\u00fctt? Igen, pontosan, megteheted! A swinger klubba val\u00f3 bel\u00e9p\u00e9s nem k\u00f6telez arra, hogy m\u00e1sokkal szexeljen, s\u0151t egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nem is akt\u00edv szexualit\u00e1sra. Ha akarsz, ak\u00e1r csak enni \u00e9s\/vagy ber\u00fagni is mehetsz oda. (Egy olyan lehet\u0151s\u00e9g, amit minden n\u0151nek tudok aj\u00e1nlani. A n\u0151k \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban szinte semmi bel\u00e9p\u0151t nem fizetnek a swinger klubokban, de err\u0151l majd k\u00e9s\u0151bb).<\/p>\n<p>Az, hogy a swinger klubok l\u00e1togat\u00e1sa ennek ellen\u00e9re nem annyira elterjedt, v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyem szerint n\u00e9h\u00e1ny el\u0151\u00edt\u00e9letnek \u00e9s t\u00e9ves inform\u00e1ci\u00f3nak k\u00f6sz\u00f6nhet\u0151.<\/p>\n<p>El\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let: T\u00e9nyek \u00e9s m\u00edtoszok<br \/>\nEl\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let: Csak \u00f6regek vannak ott<br \/>\nSok fiatalban \u00e9l az az el\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let, hogy a szvingel\u00e9s csak a 60 \u00e9v feletti gener\u00e1ci\u00f3nak val\u00f3, \u00e9s ennek megfelel\u0151en az ilyen klubokban t\u00f6bbnyire id\u0151s urakat tal\u00e1lnak, akik \"friss h\u00fasnak\" tekintik \u0151ket. R\u00f6viden: ez nem \u00edgy van.<\/p>\n<p>Sok swinger klubban a k\u00f6z\u00f6ns\u00e9g \u00e1tlag\u00e9letkora 35 \u00e9s 45 \u00e9v k\u00f6z\u00f6tt van. A tapasztalat azt mutatja, hogy a sk\u00e1la 18 \u00e9s 75 k\u00f6z\u00f6tt mozog, ami azt jelenti, hogy igen, vannak id\u0151sebbek is. De nem csak. Ez att\u00f3l is f\u00fcgg, hogy milyen k\u00f6z\u00f6ns\u00e9ge van a klubnak, \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban ez viszonylag k\u00f6nnyen \u00e9s gyorsan kider\u00edthet\u0151 egy kis tr\u00fckkel. (Ezt a tr\u00fckk\u00f6t a cikk tov\u00e1bbi r\u00e9sz\u00e9ben kifejtem).<\/p>\n<p>Ha az id\u0151sebb emberek gondolata nagyon nyugtalan\u00edtja \u00d6nt, vannak speci\u00e1lis fiatal p\u00e1rok \u00e9jszak\u00e1i is, ahol az \u00e1tlag\u00e9letkor 30 \u00e9v alatti.<\/p>\n<p>Fejeket fel: Ezek \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban h\u00f3napokra el\u0151re le vannak foglalva. A fiatalabb koroszt\u00e1lyban hat\u00e1rozottan nagy a kereslet.<\/p>\n<p>El\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let: Ott csak cs\u00e1v\u00f3k vannak<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>A t\u00e9ny az: A swinger szc\u00e9na (majdnem) MINDEN t\u00e1rsadalmi oszt\u00e1lyon \u00e1t\u00edvel. Ott tal\u00e1lkozhatsz olyan emberekkel, akiknek van v\u00e9gzetts\u00e9g\u00fck, irodai munk\u00e1val rendelkez\u0151 emberekkel \u00e9s PhD-vel rendelkez\u0151 emberekkel, \u00e9s \u00edgy tov\u00e1bb, \u00e9s \u00edgy tov\u00e1bb. Nemcsak a saj\u00e1t t\u00e1rsadalmi k\u00f6rnyezeteddel tal\u00e1lkozol ott, hanem azokkal az emberekkel is, akikkel egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt kevesebb k\u00f6z\u00f6d van. Csak a gyeng\u00e9bb t\u00e1rsadalmi r\u00e9tegeket \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban nem tal\u00e1lod itt, mert egyszer\u0171en nem tudj\u00e1k megfizetni a bel\u00e9p\u0151d\u00edjat.<\/p>\n<p>El\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let: Csak hivat\u00e1sos h\u00f6lgyek vannak ott<br \/>\nEz is egy el\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let, ami nem igaz. Nem ismerem a t\u00f6rv\u00e9nyt, de eddig minden honlapon, legyen az a legkisebb vid\u00e9ki klub honlapja, tal\u00e1ltam egy szab\u00e1lyt, hogy a hivat\u00e1sos szexmunk\u00e1sok egy\u00e9rtelm\u0171en nem sz\u00edvesen l\u00e1tottak, \u00e9s azonnal jelenteni kell, ha felmer\u00fcl a gyan\u00fa, hogy valaki p\u00e9nzkeres\u00e9s c\u00e9lj\u00e1b\u00f3l van itt.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>El\u0151\u00edt\u00e9let: Swingerek poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Klubv\u00e1laszt\u00e1s: swinger vagy p\u00e1ros klub?<br \/>\nEl\u0151sz\u00f6r is meg kell jegyezni, hogy nagy k\u00fcl\u00f6nbs\u00e9gek vannak a k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 swinger klubok k\u00f6z\u00f6tt. Egyes klubokat nem szvingerkluboknak, hanem p\u00e1rkluboknak neveznek, mert oda vegyes nem\u0171 p\u00e1rokat fogadnak be, nem pedig egy\u00e9neket. Az \u00d6n \u00e9s t\u00e1rsa k\u00f6z\u00f6tti pontos kapcsolatot nem ellen\u0151rzik.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s ez az a pont, ahol elkezdheted kiv\u00e1lasztani a klubot: Mit akarsz? Mit mersz csin\u00e1lni? \u00c9s mik az ig\u00e9nyeid?<\/p>\n<p>Egy p\u00e1ros klubnak megvan az az el\u0151nye, hogy ott nincsenek sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak. M\u00edg a hagyom\u00e1nyos szvingerklubokat f\u0151k\u00e9nt sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak finansz\u00edrozz\u00e1k, addig a p\u00e1ros klubok, ahogy a neve is mutatja, csak p\u00e1rokat engednek be. Ez azt jelenti, hogy minden ott l\u00e9v\u0151 h\u00f6lgynek \u00e9s \u00farnak van egy ellenp\u00e1rja is, \u00edgy nincs egyenl\u0151tlen nemi ar\u00e1ny. F\u0151leg, ha m\u00e9g kicsit bizonytalan vagy, v\u00e1laszthatsz kezd\u00e9snek egy p\u00e1ros klubot. Az ottani p\u00e1rok k\u00f6z\u00fcl sokan szint\u00e9n \u00fajak a swinger szc\u00e9n\u00e1ban, \u00e9s ez\u00e9rt meglehet\u0151sen bizonytalanok. Ez\u00e9rt \u00e1tlagosan kevesebb t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik, mert sokan (m\u00e9g) nem mernek t\u00e1mad\u00f3ak lenni.<\/p>\n<p>Sok\u00e1ig el\u0151\u00edt\u00e9leteim voltak a szvingerklubokkal szemben, amelyekben sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak is r\u00e9szt vehetnek, de jobb bel\u00e1t\u00e1sra tan\u00edtottak.<\/p>\n<p>A swinger klubok els\u0151 nyilv\u00e1nval\u00f3 el\u0151nye: sokkal olcs\u00f3bbak. A p\u00e1rok kevesebbet fizetnek, a sz\u00f3l\u00f3 h\u00f6lgyek pedig \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban szinte semmit. A sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak sokkal t\u00f6bbet fizetnek, \u00e9s az ajt\u00f3n\u00e1l szigor\u00fabb a v\u00e1logat\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>A m\u00e1sodik el\u0151nye, hogy t\u00f6bb v\u00e1laszt\u00e1si lehet\u0151s\u00e9ged van. A p\u00e1ros klubok nem olyan gyakoriak, mint a swinger klubok. Mindenesetre nem sz\u00e1m\u00edt, hogy N\u00e9metorsz\u00e1g melyik f\u00e9szekben vagy ur-katolikus r\u00e9gi\u00f3ban \u00e9l, viszonylag biztos lehet benne, hogy valahol van egy swinger klub elfogadhat\u00f3 t\u00e1vols\u00e1gon bel\u00fcl - nem olyan biztos, hogy ugyanez igaz a p\u00e1ros klubokra.<\/p>\n<p>Az utols\u00f3 el\u0151ny, b\u00e1rmennyire is abszurdnak hangzik: a sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak.<\/p>\n<p>A p\u00e1ros klubbal ellent\u00e9tben vannak sz\u00f3l\u00f3 urak, akik fokozottan \u00e9rdekl\u0151dnek a m\u00e1sok megismer\u00e9se ir\u00e1nt \u00e9s akt\u00edvak. Ez kellemetlen helyzetbe hozhatja \u00d6nt \u00e9s t\u00e1rs\u00e1t, ha tapasztalatlanok, vagy a f\u00e9lt\u00e9kenys\u00e9g j\u00e1tszik szerepet a kapcsolatukban. \u00c9n szem\u00e9ly szerint megtanultam \u00e9rt\u00e9kelni ezt a l\u00e9gk\u00f6rt. B\u00e1r a sz\u00f3l\u00f3 \u00fariemberek soha nem \u00e9rdekeltek a megfelel\u0151 k\u00eds\u00e9r\u0151immel, m\u00e9gis olyan l\u00e9gk\u00f6rt teremtenek, amelyben sokkal nyitottabb \u00e9s t\u00f6bb a fl\u00f6rt\u00f6l\u00e9s - \u00e9s ez\u00e9rt t\u00f6bb t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik, mint egy p\u00e1ros klubban. Term\u00e9szetesen ez a klub pontos kiv\u00e1laszt\u00e1s\u00e1t\u00f3l is f\u00fcgg.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>A legjobb tipp a konkr\u00e9t d\u00f6nt\u00e9s meghozatal\u00e1hoz egy klub sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra els\u0151sorban a honlap \u00e9s maga az esem\u00e9ny le\u00edr\u00e1sa. Sok swinger klubban van \"p\u00e1ros est\", \u00e9s sokan tartanak k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 m\u00e1s tematikus esteket is. Ha teh\u00e1t k\u00edv\u00e1ncsi p\u00e1rk\u00e9nt k\u00edv\u00e1ncsi p\u00e1rk\u00e9nt szeretne ell\u00e1togatni egy swinger klubba a p\u00e1rj\u00e1val, akkor val\u00f3sz\u00edn\u0171leg ink\u00e1bb egy ilyen p\u00e1ros est\u00e9t v\u00e1lasszon, mint az ott is megrendez\u00e9sre ker\u00fcl\u0151 \"hardcore XXL f\u00e9rfi t\u00f6bblet bulikat\". Hacsak persze nem szeretn\u00e9tek.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Legyen tiszt\u00e1ban azzal, hogy mindig vannak el\u0151ny\u00f6k \u00e9s h\u00e1tr\u00e1nyok! A kis csal\u00e1di klubok megk\u00f6nny\u00edtik a kapcsolatteremt\u00e9st, a nagy klubok hagyj\u00e1k, hogy nyugodtan \u00e9rezd a saj\u00e1t hat\u00e1raidat. Az olcs\u00f3 klubokban gyakran kellemes sz\u00edv\u00e9lyess\u00e9g uralkodik, a dr\u00e1ga klubokban gyakran szebbek az emberek, \u00e9s \u00edgy tov\u00e1bb, \u00e9s \u00edgy tov\u00e1bb.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Hogyan ismerkedhetek meg ott valakivel?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Mindezeket a dolgokat m\u00e1r tudhatod, ha m\u00e1r j\u00e1rt\u00e1l kor\u00e1bban egy klubban, vagy megtanulhatod \u0151ket, ha nyitottan l\u00e1togatsz el egy klubba. megtanulhatod \u0151ket, ha nyitottan l\u00e1togatsz el egy klubba. Van azonban n\u00e9h\u00e1ny extra tippem sz\u00e1modra, amelyek akkor is seg\u00edthetnek, ha m\u00e1r j\u00e1rt\u00e1l kor\u00e1bban klubban, vagy ha mindez nem \u00fajdons\u00e1g sz\u00e1modra.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>A lass\u00fa \u00fat azok sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra, akik nem akarnak elutas\u00edt\u00e1st<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>A gyors \u00fat, ha kev\u00e9s a t\u00fcrelem<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>A szupergyors m\u00f3dszer, ha pontosan tudod, mit akarsz.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Csak kezdjetek el egy\u00fctt sz\u00f3rakozni ott, vagy fek\u00fcdjetek le egy olyan p\u00e1r k\u00f6zel\u00e9be, aki \u00e9rdekel titeket, \u00e9s kezdjetek el sz\u00f3rakozni. \u00c1ltal\u00e1ban legfeljebb n\u00e9h\u00e1ny percbe telik, mire az els\u0151 kezek \u00e1tv\u00e1ndorolnak, vagy b\u00e1rmilyen m\u00e1s m\u00f3don kapcsolatba ker\u00fclnek. Az eg\u00e9sz szinte automatikusan, mindenf\u00e9le nagy besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s vagy er\u0151fesz\u00edt\u00e9s n\u00e9lk\u00fcl zajlik.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Ez a tipp els\u0151sorban olyan p\u00e1roknak sz\u00f3l, akik b\u00e9k\u00e9ben vannak \u00f6nmagukkal. Ezt a tippet lehet\u0151leg ne alkalmazz\u00e1k sz\u00f3l\u00f3 f\u00e9rfiak, mert ott ink\u00e1bb a fent eml\u00edtett \"margin\u00e1lis faszfej\" jelens\u00e9ghez vezet, \u00e9s a legkevesebb p\u00e1r tal\u00e1lja igaz\u00e1n vonz\u00f3nak.<\/p>\n<p>Titkos tipp: fl\u00f6rt\u00f6lj!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>Teh\u00e1t ha csak norm\u00e1lisan fl\u00f6rt\u00f6lsz egy ilyen klubban, \u00e9s igyekszel, ahogy a vadonban is tenn\u00e9d, m\u00e1ris jelent\u0151sen kit\u0171nsz az \u00e1tlagb\u00f3l. L\u00e9gy b\u00e1jos. Ne f\u00e9lj! Fl\u00f6rt\u00f6lj m\u00e1sokkal, l\u00e9pj testi kontaktusba, t\u00e1ncolj. Besz\u00e9lj arr\u00f3l, hogy szerinted milyen vicces, hogy itt vagy, \u00e9s hogy \u00e9rzed magad, vagy hogy borzaszt\u00f3an ideges volt\u00e1l, amikor ide hajtott\u00e1l. Ezekkel a dolgokkal, amelyeket a mindennapi fl\u00f6rt\u00f6l\u00e9sben term\u00e9szetesnek vesz\u00fcnk, a legjobb es\u00e9lyed van arra, hogy pontosan azzal a p\u00e1rral csin\u00e1lj valamit, akivel szexu\u00e1lisan szeretn\u00e9l egy\u00fctt lenni. Csak egy pillanatra el kell felejtened ezt a mindenki \u00e1ltal felvetett h\u00e1ts\u00f3 sz\u00e1nd\u00e9kot, hogy \"K\u00e9s\u0151bb szexelni fogunk?\", \u00e9s eml\u00e9kezz arra, hogy kik \u00e1llnak el\u0151tted: norm\u00e1lis f\u00e9lelmekkel \u00e9s bizonytalans\u00e1gokkal rendelkez\u0151 emberek, akik szeretnek sz\u00f3rakozni, szeretik, ha romantik\u00e1znak vel\u00fck, \u00e9s szeretik, ha megveszik \u0151ket.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Amikor el\u0151sz\u00f6r l\u00e9p be egy szvingerklubba, izgalom \u00e9s idegess\u00e9g kever\u00e9k\u00e9t \u00e9rezheti. De megnyugodhat, nincs mit\u0151l f\u00e9lnie. A szvingerklubok olyan bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gos helyek, ahol a hasonl\u00f3 gondolkod\u00e1s\u00fa emberek biztons\u00e1gos \u00e9s konszenzusos k\u00f6rnyezetben fedezhetik fel a szexualit\u00e1sukat. Egy swinger klubban sz\u00e1m\u00edthatsz arra, hogy ... <a title=\"Mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik egy swinger klubban?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/mi-tortenik-valojaban-egy-swinger-klubban\/\" aria-label=\"Tov\u00e1bbi inform\u00e1ci\u00f3 err\u0151l: What happens in a swingers club?\">B\u0151vebben<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swinger-club"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/hu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}