{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lt\/kas-is-tikruju-vyksta-svingeriu-klube\/","title":{"rendered":"Kas vyksta svingeri\u0173 klube?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Turinys<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf14d444a\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Perjungti<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62bf14d444a\"  aria-label=\"Perjungti\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lt\/kas-is-tikruju-vyksta-svingeriu-klube\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >\u012evadas: Kas yra svingeri\u0173 klubas?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lt\/kas-is-tikruju-vyksta-svingeriu-klube\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Ko tur\u0117\u010diau tik\u0117tis?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lt\/kas-is-tikruju-vyksta-svingeriu-klube\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Prie\u0161ingu atveju jums visi\u0161kai n\u0117ra ko baimintis.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lt\/kas-is-tikruju-vyksta-svingeriu-klube\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Kaip ten su kuo nors susipa\u017einti?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 \u012f\u017eeng\u0119 \u012f svingeri\u0173 klub\u0105 galite jausti jaudul\u012f ir nerim\u0105. Ta\u010diau b\u016bkite ram\u016bs, n\u0117ra ko bijoti. Svingeri\u0173 klubai - tai svetingos erdv\u0117s, kuriose bendramin\u010diai gali tyrin\u0117ti savo seksualum\u0105 saugioje ir abipusiu sutarimu paremtoje aplinkoje.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeri\u0173 klube galite tik\u0117tis pamatyti \u012fvairaus am\u017eiaus, form\u0173 ir dyd\u017ei\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173. Visi \u010dia susirinko d\u0117l tos pa\u010dios prie\u017easties - gerai praleisti laik\u0105 ir atskleisti savo fantazijas. \u010cia n\u0117ra jokio spaudimo dalyvauti, kas jums nepatinka, o sutikimas visada yra svarbiausia.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeri\u0173 klubo viduje galite steb\u0117ti \u012fvairi\u0105 veikl\u0105. Kai kurios poros gali m\u0117gautis intymiomis akimirkomis vienas su kitu, o kitos - bendrauti su kitais sve\u010diais. Gali b\u016bti \u012frengtos priva\u010di\u0173 susitikim\u0173 zonos, pavyzd\u017eiui, \u017eaidim\u0173 kambariai arba tams\u016bs kampeliai, skirti diskreti\u0161kesniems u\u017esi\u0117mimams.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeri\u0173 vakar\u0117lio metu galima tik\u0117tis ekshibicionizmo ir vojerizmo mi\u0161inio. Kai kuriems sve\u010diams gali patikti steb\u0117ti, kaip kiti atlieka seksualinius veiksmus, o kitiems gali b\u016bti patogiau dalyvauti patiems. Atmosfera paprastai b\u016bna laisva ir nesmerkianti, tod\u0117l kiekvienas gali laisvai reik\u0161ti savo norus.<\/p>\n<p>Tai, kas vyksta svingeri\u0173 klube ar sekso klube, priklauso tik nuo j\u016bs\u0173. Nesvarbu, ar esate ten tam, kad steb\u0117tum\u0117te, bendrautum\u0117te, ar tyrin\u0117tum\u0117te savo ribas, patirtis priklauso tik nuo j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173. Tik nepamir\u0161kite atvirai bendrauti su savo partneriu ir gerbti kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 ribas, ir tikrai praleisite \u012fsimintin\u0105 ir malon\u0173 laik\u0105 svingeri\u0173 bendruomen\u0117je.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Daugeliui \u017emoni\u0173 svingeri\u0173 klubas yra viena i\u0161 pirm\u0173j\u0173 viet\u0173, kur jie i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 pradeda naudotis atvir\u0173 santyki\u0173 seksualine laisve. Juolab kad prie\u0161 pirm\u0105j\u012f apsilankym\u0105 da\u017enai kyla neai\u0161kum\u0173 ir klaidingos informacijos apie tai, kas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 yra svingeri\u0173 klubas, kas jame vyksta ir ar apskritai verta ten eiti.<\/p>\n<p>Vienintel\u0117 informacija, kuri\u0105 galima rasti \u0161iuo klausimu, da\u017enai b\u016bna pa\u010di\u0173 klub\u0173 pateikta informacija, o tai, logi\u0161kai m\u0105stant, n\u0117ra labai patikimas s\u0105\u017einingos informacijos \u0161altinis.<\/p>\n<p>Tod\u0117l nor\u0117\u010diau papasakoti, ko tiksliai galite tik\u0117tis, \u012f k\u0105 atkreipti d\u0117mes\u012f ir, \u017einoma, i\u0161sklaidyti kai kuriuos paplitusius prietarus!<\/p>\n<p>Ir trumpa pastaba jums: \u010cia ra\u0161au tik apie heteroseksualius svingeri\u0173 klubus.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>\u012evadas: Kas yra svingeri\u0173 klubas?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Daugumos svingeri\u0173 klub\u0173 strukt\u016bra yra labai pana\u0161i. Yra registrat\u016bra, kurioje sumokate ir paprastai gaunate spintel\u0117s rakt\u0105 (kuriuo dalijat\u0117s kaip pora). \u010cia taip pat bus paklausta, ar esate ten buv\u0119 anks\u010diau, o jei ne, da\u017enai jums bus pasi\u016blyta ekskursija, kurios metu gal\u0117site visk\u0105 ap\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti, paprastai nemok\u0117dami \u012f\u0117jimo mokes\u010dio.<\/p>\n<p>Ka\u017ekur yra vienviet\u0117 persirengimo kabina, kurioje galite persirengti ir susid\u0117ti daiktus. Yra baras, kuriame paprastai galima gauti nemokam\u0173 g\u0117rim\u0173. Da\u017enai, bet ne visada tai b\u016bna alkoholiniai g\u0117rimai. Be to, paprastai yra \u0161vedi\u0161kas stalas su daugiau ar ma\u017eiau geru maistu, kuris taip pat \u012fskai\u010diuotas \u012f kain\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Be to, klubas paprastai yra padalytas \u012f dvi zonas: oficiali\u0105j\u0105 ir \u017eaidim\u0173 zon\u0105. Oficialioje dalyje yra visi k\u0105 tik i\u0161vardyti dalykai, paprastai ten yra ir \u0161oki\u0173 aik\u0161tel\u0117. Daugelyje klub\u0173 yra nustatytas aprangos kodas, skirtas \u0161iai oficialiai daliai. Da\u017eniausiai taisykl\u0117se sakoma ka\u017ekas pana\u0161aus \u012f tai, kad pageidautini pakankamai eleganti\u0161ki arba seksual\u016bs drabu\u017eiai, o kuo v\u0117lesnis vakaras, tuo ma\u017eiau svarbu apskritai k\u0105 nors d\u0117v\u0117ti. Da\u017eniausiai leid\u017eiama vaik\u0161\u010dioti su apatiniu trikota\u017eu arba itin lengvai apsirengus, kol tai padarys visi kiti, ir niekas jums netrukdys. \u0160ioje oficialioje dalyje paprastai nereikia tik\u0117tis nieko kito, kaip tik didesnio nuogumo, nei gal\u0117tum\u0117te b\u016bti \u012fprat\u0119. Retkar\u010diais pasitaiko \u0161iek tiek energingesni\u0173 glamoni\u0173 ar oralinio sekso, ta\u010diau da\u017eniausiai \u0161i veikla gana greitai perkeliama \u012f \u017eaidim\u0173 zonas.<\/p>\n<p>\u017daidim\u0173 erdv\u0119 paprastai sudaro kelios patalpos, padengtos kilim\u0117liais. Higienos sumetimais po jais yra rank\u0161luos\u010diai, o prezervatyvai ir servet\u0117l\u0117s yra pasiekiami. \u0160iose \u017eaidim\u0173 zonose, kaip turb\u016bt numanote, galima u\u017esiimti seksu.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160ie nedideli kambariai paprastai yra labai lankomi, tod\u0117l nereik\u0117t\u0173 pykti, jei jie yra \"u\u017eimti\" - jei \u0161iek tiek palauksite, kambariai galiausiai v\u0117l taps laisvi.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Ko tur\u0117\u010diau tik\u0117tis?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pirmiausia: Tuo tarpu absoliu\u010diai kiekviename svingeri\u0173 klube galioja ai\u0161ki taisykl\u0117 \"Ne rei\u0161kia ne\". \u0160i\u0105 taisykl\u0119 patvirtina tai, kad kiekvienas, kuris jos nesilaiko, i\u0161skrenda be gr\u0105\u017eos ir yra i\u0161varomas i\u0161 klubo.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Vien d\u0117l \u0161ios taisykl\u0117s apsilankymas svingeri\u0173 klube jums gali b\u016bti labai naudingas. Jei dar to nedarote, \u010dia gal\u0117site \u012fgyvendinti savo seksualum\u0105 ai\u0161kiai reglamentuotuose r\u0117muose.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Kitas klausimas: jei vie\u0161ai \u017eaid\u017eiate su savo drauge, galite tik\u0117tis, kad aplinkiniai taip pat u\u017esiims seksu. Ypa\u010d jei \u0161ie \u017emon\u0117s yra fizi\u0161kai arti, gali b\u016bti, kad tam tikru momentu ranka atsargiai tatuiruos ir pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 palies nekalt\u0105 viet\u0105, pavyzd\u017eiui, pet\u012f ar koj\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Gali nutikti taip, kad \u012f jus, j\u016bs\u0173 draug\u0105 arba \u012f abu kartu pataikaujama. Ta\u010diau tokie bandymai u\u017ekalbinti paprastai b\u016bna kur kas drovesni ir tylesni nei \u012fprastoje naktinio klubo aplinkoje.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Prie\u0161ingu atveju jums visi\u0161kai n\u0117ra ko baimintis.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Jei taip, kod\u0117l tiek daug \u017emoni\u0173 bijo svingeri\u0173 ir por\u0173 klub\u0173? Juk kiekvienas gali ten nueiti ir kartu su savo drauge \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti pornografij\u0105 gyvai? Taip, b\u016btent taip, j\u016bs galite tai padaryti! \u012e\u0117jimas \u012f svingeri\u0173 klub\u0105 ne\u012fpareigoja j\u016bs\u0173 u\u017esiimti seksu su kitais, netgi apskritai ne\u012fpareigoja aktyviai lyti\u0161kai santykiauti. Taip pat galite ten nueiti tiesiog pavalgyti ir (arba) i\u0161gerti, jei norite. (Variantas, kur\u012f galiu rekomenduoti kiekvienai moteriai. Moterys svingeri\u0173 klubuose paprastai beveik nemoka \u012f\u0117jimo mokes\u010dio, bet apie tai v\u0117liau).<\/p>\n<p>Kad svingeri\u0173 klub\u0173 lankymas vis d\u0117lto n\u0117ra toks paplit\u0119s, mano nuomone, lemia tam tikri i\u0161ankstiniai nusistatymai ir klaidinga informacija.<\/p>\n<p>i\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas: Faktai ir mitai<br \/>\ni\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas: Ten yra tik seni \u017emon\u0117s<br \/>\nDaugelis jaun\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 turi i\u0161ankstin\u012f nusistatym\u0105, kad svingavimu u\u017esiima tik vyresni nei 60 met\u0173 am\u017eiaus \u017emon\u0117s, tod\u0117l tokiuose klubuose jie da\u017eniausiai randa senus ponus, kurie juos laiko \"\u0161vie\u017eia m\u0117sa\". Trumpai tariant, taip n\u0117ra.<\/p>\n<p>Daugelio svingeri\u0173 klub\u0173 lankytoj\u0173 am\u017eiaus vidurkis yra 35-45 metai. Patirtis rodo, kad j\u0173 amplitud\u0117 svyruoja nuo 18 iki 75 met\u0173, o tai rei\u0161kia, kad yra ir vyresni\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173. Bet ne tik. Tai priklauso ir nuo to, kokia yra klubo auditorija, paprastai tai galima gana lengvai ir greitai su\u017einoti pasitelkus nedidel\u0119 gudryb\u0119. (\u0160i\u0105 gudryb\u0119 paai\u0161kinu toliau straipsnyje).<\/p>\n<p>Jei mintis apie vyresnio am\u017eiaus \u017emones jums kelia nerim\u0105, taip pat rengiami special\u016bs jaun\u0173 por\u0173 vakarai, kuriuose vidutinis dalyvi\u0173 am\u017eius yra iki 30 met\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>Galvos auk\u0161tyn: Paprastai jie b\u016bna u\u017esakyti prie\u0161 kelis m\u0117nesius. Neabejotinai yra didel\u0117 jaunesnio am\u017eiaus \u017emoni\u0173 paklausa.<\/p>\n<p>i\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas: Ten yra tik chavs<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Faktas: Svingeri\u0173 scena kerta (beveik) VISAS socialines klases. \u010cia sutiksite i\u0161silavinusi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, \u017emoni\u0173, dirban\u010di\u0173 biure, \u017emoni\u0173, turin\u010di\u0173 daktaro laipsn\u012f, ir t. t., ir pan. Ten sutiksite ne tik savo socialin\u0119 aplink\u0105, bet ir \u017emones, su kuriais kitu atveju ma\u017eiau bendraujate. Tik silpnesni\u0173 socialini\u0173 sluoksni\u0173 atstov\u0173 \u010dia paprastai nerasite, nes jie papras\u010diausiai negali sau leisti sumok\u0117ti stojamojo mokes\u010dio.<\/p>\n<p>i\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas: Ten yra tik profesionalios moterys<br \/>\nTai taip pat yra i\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas, kuris n\u0117ra teisingas. Ne\u017einau \u012fstatym\u0173, bet kol kas kiekviename, kad ir ma\u017eiausio provincijos klubo pagrindiniame puslapyje radau taisykl\u0119, kad profesional\u016bs sekso paslaug\u0173 teik\u0117jai yra ai\u0161kiai nepageidaujami ir apie tai reikia nedelsiant prane\u0161ti, jei kyla \u012ftarimas, kad ka\u017ekas \u010dia atvyko pasipelnyti.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>i\u0161ankstinis nusistatymas: Swingeriai yra poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Klubo pasirinkimas: svingeri\u0173 ar por\u0173 klubas?<br \/>\nPirmiausia reik\u0117t\u0173 pa\u017eym\u0117ti, kad svingeri\u0173 klubai labai skiriasi. Kai kurie klubai vadinami ne svingeri\u0173 klubais, o por\u0173 klubais, nes juose priimamos mi\u0161rios poros, o ne pavieniai asmenys. Tiksl\u016bs j\u016bs\u0173 ir j\u016bs\u0173 kompaniono santykiai netikrinami.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160tai \u010dia galite prad\u0117ti rinktis klub\u0105: Ko norite? K\u0105 i\u0161dr\u012fstum\u0117te daryti? Ir kokie yra j\u016bs\u0173 reikalavimai?<\/p>\n<p>Por\u0173 klubo privalumas tas, kad jame n\u0117ra vieni\u0161\u0173 vyr\u0173. Tradicinius svingeri\u0173 klubus daugiausia finansuoja vieni\u0161i vyrai, o por\u0173 klubai, kaip rodo pavadinimas, \u012fsileid\u017eia tik poras. Tai rei\u0161kia, kad kiekvienai ten esan\u010diai damai ir d\u017eentelmenui ten pat tenka ir j\u0173 antrininkas, tod\u0117l n\u0117ra nelygaus ly\u010di\u0173 santykio. Ypa\u010d jei vis dar \u0161iek tiek abejojate, prad\u017eiai galite rinktis por\u0173 klub\u0105. Daugelis ten esan\u010di\u0173 por\u0173 taip pat yra naujokai svingeri\u0173 scenoje, tod\u0117l gana neu\u017etikrinti. Tod\u0117l vidutini\u0161kai pasitaiko ma\u017eiau atvej\u0173, nes daugelis (dar) nedr\u012fsta b\u016bti \u012f\u017eeid\u016bs.<\/p>\n<p>Ilg\u0105 laik\u0105 tur\u0117jau i\u0161ankstin\u012f nusistatym\u0105 prie\u0161 svingeri\u0173 klubus, \u012f kuriuos \u012fleid\u017eiami ir vieni\u0161i vyrai, bet buvau i\u0161mokytas geriau.<\/p>\n<p>Pirmasis akivaizdus svingeri\u0173 klub\u0173 privalumas yra tas, kad jie yra daug pigesni. Poros moka ma\u017eiau, o vieni\u0161os moterys paprastai beveik nieko nemoka. Solo vyrai moka daug daugiau ir prie dur\u0173 yra grie\u017etesn\u0117 atranka.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Antrasis privalumas yra tas, kad turite daugiau pasirinkimo galimybi\u0173. Por\u0173 klubai n\u0117ra tokie paplit\u0119 kaip svingeri\u0173 klubai. Bet kuriuo atveju, nesvarbu, kuriame Vokietijos regione gyvenate, galite b\u016bti tikri, kad kur nors yra svingeri\u0173 klubas - ne taip jau tikrai, kad tas pats pasakytina apie por\u0173 klub\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Paskutinis privalumas, kad ir kaip absurdi\u0161kai tai skamb\u0117t\u0173, yra solo vyrai.<\/p>\n<p>Skirtingai nei por\u0173 klube, \u010dia yra ir vieni\u0161\u0173 d\u017eentelmen\u0173, kurie labiau domisi galimybe susipa\u017einti su kitais ir yra aktyv\u016bs. D\u0117l to jums ir j\u016bs\u0173 kompanionui gali kilti nepatogum\u0173, jei esate nepatyr\u0119 arba j\u016bs\u0173 santykiuose svarb\u0173 vaidmen\u012f vaidina pavydas. A\u0161 asmeni\u0161kai i\u0161mokau vertinti toki\u0105 atmosfer\u0105. Nors man\u0119s niekada nedomino solo d\u017eentelmenai su atitinkamais palydovais, jie sukuria atmosfer\u0105, kurioje yra daugiau atvirumo ir flirto - taigi daugiau \u012fvyki\u0173 nei por\u0173 klube. \u017dinoma, tai priklauso ir nuo tikslaus klubo pasirinkimo.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Geriausias patarimas, padedantis priimti konkret\u0173 sprendim\u0105 d\u0117l klubo, pirmiausia yra pagrindinis puslapis ir paties renginio apra\u0161ymas. Daugelis svingeri\u0173 klub\u0173 rengia \"por\u0173 vakar\u0105\", taip pat daugelis rengia \u012fvairius kitus teminius vakarus. Taigi, jei norite svingeri\u0173 klube apsilankyti su savo drauge kaip smalsuoli\u0173 pora, tikriausiai tur\u0117tum\u0117te rinktis toki\u0105 por\u0173 nakt\u012f, o ne \"hardcore XXL vyr\u0173 pertekliaus vakar\u0117lius\", kurie ten pat vyksta. Nebent, \u017einoma, nor\u0117tum\u0117te.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>\u017dinokite, kad visada yra ir privalum\u0173, ir tr\u016bkum\u0173! Ma\u017euose \u0161eim\u0173 klubuose lengviau u\u017emegzti kontaktus, dideli klubai leid\u017eia ramiai pajusti savo ribas. Pigiuose klubuose da\u017enai vyrauja malonus \u0161irdingumas, brangiuose klubuose \u017emon\u0117s da\u017enai atrodo gra\u017eesni ir t. t., ir pan.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Kaip ten su kuo nors susipa\u017einti?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Galb\u016bt jau \u017einote visus \u0161iuos dalykus, jei anks\u010diau lank\u0117t\u0117s klube, arba galite j\u0173 i\u0161mokti apsilank\u0119 klube, kuriame esate atviri. j\u0173 i\u0161mokti apsilank\u0119 klube, kuriame esate atviri. Ta\u010diau turiu jums kelet\u0105 papildom\u0173 patarim\u0173, kurie gali jums pad\u0117ti, net jei klube lank\u0117t\u0117s anks\u010diau arba jei visa tai jums n\u0117ra naujiena.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>L\u0117tas b\u016bdas \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie nenori atmetimo<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Greitas b\u016bdas, kai kantryb\u0117s ma\u017eiau<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Tai itin greitas b\u016bdas, jei tiksliai \u017einote, ko norite.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Tiesiog prad\u0117kite linksmintis kartu arba atsigulkite \u0161alia jus dominan\u010dios poros ir prad\u0117kite linksmintis. Paprastai prireiks ne daugiau kaip keli\u0173 minu\u010di\u0173, kol pirmosios rankos nusvirs ar bus u\u017emegztas kitoks kontaktas. Visa tai vyksta beveik automati\u0161kai, be joki\u0173 dideli\u0173 kalb\u0173 ar pastang\u0173.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160is patarimas daugiausia skirtas poroms, kurios yra susitaikiusios su savimi. \u0160io patarimo pageidautina nenaudoti vieni\u0161iems vyrams, nes ten jis veikiau veda prie min\u0117to \"marginalinio vyri\u0161kio\" fenomeno, o ma\u017eiausiai por\u0173 i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 patraukia.<\/p>\n<p>Slaptas patarimas: flirtuokite!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>Taigi, jei tokiame klube flirtuojate \u012fprastai ir stengiat\u0117s, kaip ir laisv\u0117je, j\u016bs jau gerokai i\u0161siskirsite i\u0161 kit\u0173. B\u016bkite \u017eav\u016bs. Nebijokite. Flirtuokite su kitais, u\u017emegzkite fizin\u012f kontakt\u0105, \u0161okite. Kalb\u0117kite apie tai, kaip jums atrodo juokinga \u010dia b\u016bti ir kaip jau\u010diat\u0117s arba kad baisiai nervinot\u0117s, kai \u010dia va\u017eiavote. Darydami \u0161iuos dalykus, kurie kasdieniame flirte laikomi savaime suprantamais, turite geriausi\u0105 galimyb\u0119 k\u0105 nors nuveikti b\u016btent su ta pora, su kuria norite lyti\u0161kai santykiauti. Tereikia akimirkai pamir\u0161ti \u0161\u012f visiems b\u016bding\u0105 slapt\u0105 motyv\u0105: \"Ar mes v\u0117liau u\u017esiimsime seksu?\" ir prisiminti, kas yra prie\u0161 jus: \u017emon\u0117s su normaliomis baim\u0117mis ir nesaugumo jausmais, kuriems patinka linksmintis, kuriems patinka b\u016bti romanti\u0161kiems ir kuriems patinka, kad juos tur\u0117tum\u0117te.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 \u012f\u017eeng\u0119 \u012f svingeri\u0173 klub\u0105 galite jausti jaudul\u012f ir nerim\u0105. Ta\u010diau b\u016bkite ram\u016bs, n\u0117ra ko bijoti. Svingeri\u0173 klubai - tai svetingos erdv\u0117s, kuriose bendramin\u010diai gali tyrin\u0117ti savo seksualum\u0105 saugioje ir abipusiu sutarimu paremtoje aplinkoje. 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