{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/","title":{"rendered":"Kas notiek svingeru klub\u0101?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Satura r\u0101d\u012bt\u0101js<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c23d99c2b\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">P\u0101rsl\u0113gt<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c23d99c2b\"  aria-label=\"P\u0101rsl\u0113gt\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Ievads: Kas ir svingeru klubs?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Ko man vajadz\u0113tu sagaid\u012bt?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Pret\u0113j\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 jums nav nek\u0101du iemeslu baid\u012bties.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >K\u0101 es varu tur iepaz\u012bties?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Kad pirmo reizi ieejat svingeru klub\u0101, j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, j\u016btat satraukumu un nervozit\u0101ti. Bet esiet dro\u0161i, ka nav no k\u0101 baid\u012bties. Svingeru klubi ir viesm\u012bl\u012bgas telpas, kur l\u012bdz\u012bgi dom\u0101jo\u0161i cilv\u0113ki var iepaz\u012bt savu seksualit\u0101ti dro\u0161\u0101 un uz savstarp\u0113jas vieno\u0161an\u0101s pamata.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeru klub\u0101 var sagaid\u012bt da\u017e\u0101da vecuma, formas un auguma cilv\u0113ku grupu. Visi tur ir ieradu\u0161ies viena un t\u0101 pa\u0161a iemesla d\u0113\u013c - lai labi pavad\u012btu laiku un atkl\u0101tu savas fant\u0101zijas. Nav nek\u0101da spiediena piedal\u012bties kaut k\u0101d\u0101 pas\u0101kum\u0101, kas jums nav \u0113rts, un piekri\u0161ana vienm\u0113r ir galvenais.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeru kluba iek\u0161ien\u0113 var notikt da\u017e\u0101das aktivit\u0101tes. Da\u017ei p\u0101ri var iesaist\u012bties int\u012bmos br\u012b\u017eos viens ar otru, bet citi var miks\u0113ties un socializ\u0113ties ar citiem viesiem. Var b\u016bt paredz\u0113tas vietas, kas paredz\u0113tas priv\u0101t\u0101k\u0101m tik\u0161an\u0101s reiz\u0113m, piem\u0113ram, rota\u013cu istabas vai tum\u0161i st\u016br\u012b\u0161i diskr\u0113t\u0101kai r\u012bc\u012bbai.<\/p>\n<p>Svingeru ball\u012bt\u0113s var sagaid\u012bt ekshibicionisma un vuajerisma apvienojumu. Da\u017eiem viesiem var patikt v\u0113rot, k\u0101 citi iesaist\u0101s seksu\u0101l\u0101s darb\u012bb\u0101s, bet citiem var b\u016bt \u0113rt\u0101k pa\u0161iem piedal\u012bties. Atmosf\u0113ra parasti ir nepiespiesta un nesodo\u0161a, \u013caujot ikvienam br\u012bvi izpaust savas v\u0113lmes.<\/p>\n<p>Tas, kas notiek svingeru klub\u0101 vai seksa klub\u0101, ir atkar\u012bgs no jums. Neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, vai esat tur, lai v\u0113rotu, socializ\u0113tos vai izp\u0113t\u012btu savas robe\u017eas, \u0161\u012b pieredze ir atkar\u012bga tikai no jums. Tikai atcerieties atkl\u0101ti komunic\u0113t ar savu partneri un iev\u0113rot citu robe\u017eas, un j\u016bs noteikti pavad\u012bsiet neaizmirstamu un pat\u012bkamu laiku svingeru sabiedr\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Daudziem cilv\u0113kiem svingeru klubs ir viena no pirmaj\u0101m viet\u0101m, kur vi\u0146i patie\u0161\u0101m s\u0101k izmantot seksu\u0101lo br\u012bv\u012bbu, ko sniedz atkl\u0101tas attiec\u012bbas. V\u0113l jo vair\u0101k pirms pirm\u0101 apmekl\u0113juma bie\u017ei vien ir neskaidr\u012bbas un dezinform\u0101cija par to, kas \u012bsti ir svingeru klubs, kas tur notiek un vai visp\u0101r ir v\u0113rts tur doties.<\/p>\n<p>Vien\u012bg\u0101 inform\u0101cija, ko \u0161aj\u0101 sakar\u0101 var atrast, bie\u017ei vien ir inform\u0101cija, ko pied\u0101v\u0101 pa\u0161i klubi, un, p\u0113c visas lo\u0123ikas sprie\u017eot, tas ne\u0161\u0137iet p\u0101r\u0101k uzticams god\u012bgas inform\u0101cijas avots.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c es v\u0113los jums past\u0101st\u012bt, ko tie\u0161i j\u016bs varat sagaid\u012bt, uz ko v\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu un, protams, klied\u0113t da\u017eus izplat\u012btus aizspriedumus!<\/p>\n<p>Un \u012bsa piez\u012bme jums: Es \u0161eit rakstu tikai par heteroseksu\u0101liem svingeru klubiem.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Ievads: Kas ir svingeru klubs?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca svingeru klubu ir struktur\u0113ti \u013coti l\u012bdz\u012bgi. Ir re\u0123istrat\u016bra, kur j\u016bs samaks\u0101jat un parasti sa\u0146emat skap\u012b\u0161a atsl\u0113gu (kas ir kop\u012bga p\u0101rim). Tur jums ar\u012b pajaut\u0101s, vai esat tur jau biju\u0161i, un, ja n\u0113, jums bie\u017ei vien pied\u0101v\u0101s ekskursiju, kur\u0101 j\u016bs var\u0113siet visu apskat\u012bt, parasti nemaks\u0101jot ieejas maksu.<\/p>\n<p>Kaut kur ir vienviet\u012bga \u0123\u0113rbtuve, kur var p\u0101r\u0123\u0113rbties un novietot savas mantas. Tur ir b\u0101rs, kur parasti var sa\u0146emt bezmaksas dz\u0113rienus. Tas bie\u017ei, bet ne vienm\u0113r ietver alkoholiskos dz\u0113rienus. Turkl\u0101t parasti ir bufete ar vair\u0101k vai maz\u0101k labiem \u0113dieniem, kas ar\u012b ir iek\u013cauti cen\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Turkl\u0101t klubs parasti ir sadal\u012bts div\u0101s zon\u0101s - ofici\u0101laj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 un sp\u0113\u013cu zon\u0101. Ofici\u0101laj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 ir viss, ko tikko uzskait\u012bju, parasti tur ir ar\u012b deju laukums. Daudzos klubos ir noteikts \u0123\u0113rb\u0161an\u0101s kodekss, kas attiecas uz \u0161o form\u0101lo da\u013cu. Liel\u0101koties noteikumos ir teikts kaut kas l\u012bdz\u012bgs tam, ka ir v\u0113lams sapr\u0101t\u012bgi \u0161iks vai seks\u012bgs ap\u0123\u0113rbs, un jo v\u0113l\u0101k vakars iet uz priek\u0161u, jo maz\u0101k svar\u012bgi ir visp\u0101r kaut ko valk\u0101t. Liel\u0101koties jums ir at\u013cauts staig\u0101t apak\u0161ve\u013c\u0101 vai \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi viegli \u0123\u0113rbtiem, pirms to dara visi p\u0101r\u0113jie, un j\u016bs neviens netrauc\u0113s. \u0160aj\u0101 ofici\u0101laj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 parasti nav sagaid\u0101ms nekas vair\u0101k k\u0101 tikai liel\u0101ka kailuma kl\u0101tb\u016btne, nek\u0101 cit\u0101di b\u016btu pierasts. Reiz\u0113m notiks k\u0101da ener\u0123isk\u0101ka pettinga vai or\u0101lais sekss, bet liel\u0101koties \u0161\u012bs aktivit\u0101tes diezgan \u0101tri tiek p\u0101rceltas uz rota\u013cu zon\u0101m.<\/p>\n<p>Rota\u013cu zona parasti ir vair\u0101kas telpas, kas ir kl\u0101tas ar pakl\u0101jiem. Higi\u0113nas apsv\u0113rumu d\u0113\u013c zem tiem ir novietoti dvie\u013ci, k\u0101 ar\u012b pieejami prezervat\u012bvi un salvetes. \u0160aj\u0101s rota\u013cu zon\u0101s, k\u0101 jau dro\u0161i vien nojau\u0161at, var nodarboties ar seksu.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160\u012bs maz\u0101s telpas parasti ir \u013coti bie\u017ei apmekl\u0113tas, t\u0101p\u0113c nevajadz\u0113tu uztraukties, ja t\u0101s ir \"aiz\u0146emtas\" - ja nedaudz pagaid\u012bsiet, telpas atkal atbr\u012bvosies.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Ko man vajadz\u0113tu sagaid\u012bt?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pirmk\u0101rt: Tikm\u0113r piln\u012bgi katr\u0101 svingeru klub\u0101 ir skaidrs noteikums \"N\u0113 noz\u012bm\u0113 n\u0113\". \u0160o noteikumu apstiprina fakts, ka ikviens, kur\u0161 to neiev\u0113ro, izlido bez atl\u012bdz\u012bbas un tiek izsl\u0113gts no kluba.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160is noteikums vien var padar\u012bt svingeru kluba apmekl\u0113jumu \u013coti v\u0113rt\u012bgu. \u0160eit j\u016bs varat, ja v\u0113l neesat to dar\u012bjis, izdz\u012bvot savu seksu\u0101lo dz\u012bvi skaidri reglament\u0113t\u0101 sist\u0113m\u0101.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0101kamais punkts: ja j\u016bs ar savu pavadoni piedal\u0101ties publisk\u0101 rota\u013c\u0101, varat sagaid\u012bt, ka ar\u012b apk\u0101rt\u0113jie cilv\u0113ki nodarbosies ar seksu. Jo \u012bpa\u0161i, ja \u0161ie cilv\u0113ki atrodas fiziski tuvu, iesp\u0113jams, ka k\u0101d\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b k\u0101da roka piesardz\u012bgi p\u0101rk\u0101ps p\u0101ri un vispirms pieskarsies k\u0101dai nekait\u012bgai vietai, piem\u0113ram, plecam vai k\u0101jai.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Var gad\u012bties, ka j\u016bs vai j\u016bsu biedrs, vai abi kop\u0101 tiekat aizskarti. Tom\u0113r \u0161ie m\u0113\u0123in\u0101jumi uzmesties parasti ir daudz kautr\u012bg\u0101ki un klus\u0101ki nek\u0101 parast\u0101 naktskluba vid\u0113.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Pret\u0113j\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 jums nav nek\u0101du iemeslu baid\u012bties.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ja tas t\u0101 ir, tad k\u0101p\u0113c tik daudzi cilv\u0113ki tik \u013coti baid\u0101s no svingeru un p\u0101ru klubiem? Paties\u012bb\u0101 ikviens var\u0113tu tur iet un skat\u012bties pornogr\u0101fiju tie\u0161raid\u0113 kop\u0101 ar savu pavadoni? J\u0101, tie\u0161i t\u0101, to var dar\u012bt! Ieie\u0161ana svingeru klub\u0101 neuzliek pien\u0101kumu nodarboties ar seksu ar citiem, pat ne akt\u012bvu seksualit\u0101ti visp\u0101r. Ja v\u0113laties, varat tur ar\u012b vienk\u0101r\u0161i iet pa\u0113st un\/vai iedzert. (Iesp\u0113ja, ko es varu ieteikt ikvienai sievietei. Sievietes parasti gandr\u012bz nemaks\u0101 ieejas maksu svingeru klubos, bet par to v\u0113l\u0101k).<\/p>\n<p>Tas, ka svingeru klubu apmekl\u0113jums tom\u0113r nav tik izplat\u012bts, manupr\u0101t, ir saist\u012bts ar da\u017eiem aizspriedumiem un dezinform\u0101ciju.<\/p>\n<p>Aizspriedumi: Fakti un m\u012bti<br \/>\nAizspriedumi: Tur ir tikai veci cilv\u0113ki<br \/>\nDaudziem jaunie\u0161iem ir aizspriedums, ka \u0161\u016bpoles ir kaut kas t\u0101ds, ar ko nodarbojas tikai 60+ paaudze, un t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i \u0161\u0101dos klubos p\u0101rsvar\u0101 atrad\u012bs vecus kungus, kuri vi\u0146us uzskata par \"svaigu ga\u013cu\". \u012as\u0101k sakot, t\u0101 nav.<\/p>\n<p>Daudzos svingeru klubos apmekl\u0113t\u0101ju vid\u0113jais vecums ir no 35 l\u012bdz 45 gadiem. Pieredze r\u0101da, ka diapazons ir no 18 l\u012bdz 75 gadiem, kas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka, j\u0101, ir ar\u012b vec\u0101ki cilv\u0113ki. Bet ne tikai. Tas ir atkar\u012bgs ar\u012b no t\u0101, k\u0101da auditorija ir klub\u0101, parasti to var sal\u012bdzino\u0161i viegli un \u0101tri noskaidrot ar nelielu triku. (\u0160o triku es izskaidroju t\u0101l\u0101k rakst\u0101).<\/p>\n<p>Ja doma par gados vec\u0101kiem cilv\u0113kiem jums liek justies \u013coti ne\u0113rti, tiek pied\u0101v\u0101ti ar\u012b \u012bpa\u0161i jauno p\u0101ru vakari, kuros vid\u0113jais vecums ir zem 30 gadiem.<\/p>\n<p>Uzman\u012bbu: Parasti t\u0101s ir rezerv\u0113tas m\u0113ne\u0161iem iepriek\u0161. Noteikti ir liels piepras\u012bjums p\u0113c jaun\u0101k\u0101 vecuma cilv\u0113kiem.<\/p>\n<p>Aizspriedumi: Tur ir tikai \u010davi<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Fakts ir \u0161\u0101ds: Svingeru aina ir \u0161\u0137\u0113rslis (gandr\u012bz) VISIEM soci\u0101lajiem sl\u0101\u0146iem. Taj\u0101 j\u016bs sastapsiet cilv\u0113kus ar izgl\u012bt\u012bbu, cilv\u0113kus, kas str\u0101d\u0101 biroj\u0101, cilv\u0113kus ar doktora gr\u0101du un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k. J\u016bs tur satiksiet ne tikai savu soci\u0101lo vidi, bet ar\u012b cilv\u0113kus, ar kuriem cit\u0101di jums ir maz\u0101k sakara. \u0160eit parasti nav sastopami tikai soci\u0101li v\u0101j\u0101ko sl\u0101\u0146u p\u0101rst\u0101vji, jo vi\u0146i vienk\u0101r\u0161i nevar at\u013cauties maks\u0101t ieejas maksu.<\/p>\n<p>Aizspriedumi: Tur ir tikai profesion\u0101las d\u0101mas<br \/>\nAr\u012b tas ir aizspriedums, kas neatbilst paties\u012bbai. Es nezinu likumu, bet l\u012bdz \u0161im katr\u0101 m\u0101jaslap\u0101, lai ar\u012b maz\u0101k\u0101 provinces klub\u0101, esmu atradusi noteikumu, ka profesion\u0101li seksa pakalpojumu sniedz\u0113ji nav laipni gaid\u012bti un par to nekav\u0113joties j\u0101zi\u0146o, ja ir aizdomas, ka k\u0101ds \u0161eit ieradies, lai peln\u012btu naudu.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Aizspriedumi: Svingeri ir poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Kluba izv\u0113le: svingeru vai p\u0101ru klubs?<br \/>\nPirmk\u0101rt, j\u0101atz\u012bm\u0113, ka starp da\u017e\u0101diem svingeru klubiem ir lielas at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbas. Da\u017eus klubus sauc nevis par svingeru klubiem, bet gan par p\u0101ru klubiem, jo tajos tiek uz\u0146emti jaukta dzimuma p\u0101ri, nevis atsevi\u0161\u0137i indiv\u012bdi. Prec\u012bzas attiec\u012bbas starp jums un j\u016bsu pavadoni netiek p\u0101rbaud\u012btas.<\/p>\n<p>Un tie\u0161i \u0161eit varat s\u0101kt izv\u0113l\u0113ties klubu: Ko j\u016bs v\u0113laties? Ko tu uzdr\u012bksties dar\u012bt? Un k\u0101das ir j\u016bsu pras\u012bbas?<\/p>\n<p>P\u0101ru kluba priek\u0161roc\u012bba ir t\u0101, ka taj\u0101 nav solo v\u012brie\u0161u. Kam\u0113r tradicion\u0101los svingeru klubus galvenok\u0101rt finans\u0113 solo v\u012brie\u0161i, p\u0101ru klubi, k\u0101 jau nor\u0101da nosaukums, ielai\u017e tikai p\u0101rus. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka katrai d\u0101mai un kungam, kas tur ir, ir ar\u012b k\u0101ds pret\u012b st\u0101vo\u0161ais, un t\u0101d\u0113j\u0101di nav nevienl\u012bdz\u012bgas dzimumu proporcijas. \u012apa\u0161i, ja v\u0113l esi nedaudz nedro\u0161s, k\u0101 s\u0101kumu vari izv\u0113l\u0113ties p\u0101ru klubu. Daudzi no tur eso\u0161ajiem p\u0101riem ar\u012b ir jaunpien\u0101c\u0113ji svingeru sc\u0113n\u0101 un t\u0101p\u0113c diezgan nedro\u0161i. T\u0101p\u0113c vid\u0113ji notiek maz\u0101k, jo daudzi (v\u0113l) neuzdro\u0161in\u0101s b\u016bt aizskaro\u0161i.<\/p>\n<p>Ilgu laiku man bija aizspriedumi pret svingeru klubiem, kuros var piedal\u012bties ar\u012b solo v\u012brie\u0161i, bet mani m\u0101c\u012bja lab\u0101k.<\/p>\n<p>Pirm\u0101 ac\u012bmredzam\u0101 svingeru klubu priek\u0161roc\u012bba ir t\u0101, ka tie ir daudz l\u0113t\u0101ki. P\u0101ri maks\u0101 maz\u0101k, bet solo d\u0101mas parasti nemaks\u0101 gandr\u012bz neko. Solo v\u012brie\u0161i maks\u0101 daudz vair\u0101k, un pie durv\u012bm ir stingr\u0101ka atlase.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Otra priek\u0161roc\u012bba ir t\u0101, ka jums ir liel\u0101ka izv\u0113le. P\u0101ru klubi nav tik izplat\u012bti k\u0101 svingeru klubi. Jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 neatkar\u012bgi no t\u0101, kur\u0101 no V\u0101cijas re\u0123ioniem j\u016bs dz\u012bvojat, j\u016bs varat b\u016bt sal\u012bdzino\u0161i dro\u0161i, ka kaut kur pie\u0146emam\u0101 att\u0101lum\u0101 atrodas svingeru klubs, bet ne tik dro\u0161i, ka tas pats attiecas uz p\u0101ru klubiem.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 priek\u0161roc\u012bba ir, lai cik absurdi tas neizklaus\u012btos, solo v\u012brie\u0161i.<\/p>\n<p>At\u0161\u0137ir\u012bb\u0101 no p\u0101ru kluba ir ar\u012b solo d\u017eentlme\u0146i, kuriem ir pastiprin\u0101ta interese iepaz\u012bties ar citiem un kuri ir akt\u012bvi. Tas var rad\u012bt ne\u0113rt\u012bbas gan jums, gan j\u016bsu pavadonim, ja jums nav pieredzes vai j\u016bsu attiec\u012bb\u0101s sp\u0113l\u0113 lomu greizsird\u012bba. Es person\u012bgi esmu iem\u0101c\u012bjies nov\u0113rt\u0113t \u0161o atmosf\u0113ru. Lai gan mani nekad nav interes\u0113ju\u0161i solo d\u017eentlme\u0146i kop\u0101 ar attiec\u012bgajiem eskorta partneriem, vi\u0146i rada atmosf\u0113ru, kur\u0101 ir vair\u0101k atkl\u0101t\u012bbas un flirta - t\u0101tad ar\u012b vair\u0101k notikumu nek\u0101 p\u0101ru klub\u0101. Protams, tas ir atkar\u012bgs ar\u012b no konkr\u0113t\u0101 kluba izv\u0113les.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Lab\u0101kais padoms, lai pie\u0146emtu konkr\u0113tu l\u0113mumu par klubu, pirmk\u0101rt, ir m\u0101jas lapa un pa\u0161a pas\u0101kuma apraksts. Daudzos svingeru klubos ir \"p\u0101ru vakars\", un daudzos ir ar\u012b da\u017e\u0101di citi tematiskie vakari. T\u0101p\u0113c, ja v\u0113laties apmekl\u0113t svingeru klubu kop\u0101 ar savu pavadoni k\u0101 zi\u0146k\u0101r\u012bgs p\u0101ris, jums, iesp\u0113jams, vajadz\u0113tu izv\u0113l\u0113ties \u0161\u0101du p\u0101ru nakti, nevis \"hardcore XXL v\u012brie\u0161u p\u0101rpalikumu ball\u012btes\", kas tur ar\u012b notiek. Ja vien, protams, j\u016bs nev\u0113laties.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>\u0145emiet v\u0113r\u0101, ka vienm\u0113r ir gan plusi, gan m\u012bnusi! Mazos \u0123imenes klubos ir viegl\u0101k nodibin\u0101t kontaktus, lielie klubi \u013cauj jums mier\u012bgi sajust savas robe\u017eas. L\u0113tos klubos bie\u017ei vien valda pat\u012bkama sirsn\u012bba, d\u0101rgos klubos cilv\u0113ki bie\u017ei vien izskat\u0101s skaist\u0101ki un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>K\u0101 es varu tur iepaz\u012bties?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs jau zin\u0101t visas \u0161\u012bs lietas, ja esat apmekl\u0113jis k\u0101du klubu iepriek\u0161, vai ar\u012b varat t\u0101s apg\u016bt, apmekl\u0113jot klubu ar atv\u0113rtu pr\u0101tu. apg\u016bt, apmekl\u0113jot klubu ar atv\u0113rtu pr\u0101tu. Tom\u0113r man jums ir da\u017ei papildu padomi, kas var jums pal\u012bdz\u0113t pat tad, ja esat apmekl\u0113jis klubu jau iepriek\u0161 vai ja jums tas viss nav nekas jauns.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>L\u0113nais veids cilv\u0113kiem, kuri nev\u0113las noraid\u012bjumu<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>\u0100trais veids, kad ir maz\u0101k paciet\u012bbas<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>\u013boti \u0101trs veids, ja prec\u012bzi zin\u0101t, ko v\u0113laties.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Vienk\u0101r\u0161i s\u0101ciet izklaid\u0113ties tur kop\u0101 vai ar\u012b apgulieties k\u0101da interesanta p\u0101ra tuvum\u0101 un s\u0101ciet izklaid\u0113ties. Parasti paies ne vair\u0101k k\u0101 da\u017eas min\u016btes, l\u012bdz pirm\u0101s rokas pastaig\u0101s vai jebk\u0101d\u0101 cit\u0101 veid\u0101 tiks nodibin\u0101ts kontakts. Viss notiek gandr\u012bz autom\u0101tiski, bez liel\u0101m sarun\u0101m vai p\u016bl\u0113m.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160is padoms galvenok\u0101rt attiecas uz p\u0101riem, kuri ir mier\u0101 ar sevi. \u0160o padomu v\u0113lams neizmantot solo v\u012brie\u0161iem, jo tur tas dr\u012bz\u0101k noved pie iepriek\u0161 min\u0113t\u0101 \"margin\u0101l\u0101 d\u012bkdiena\" fenomena, un vismaz\u0101k p\u0101ru tas patie\u0161\u0101m \u0161\u0137iet pievilc\u012bgs.<\/p>\n<p>Slepenais padoms: Flirt\u0113jiet!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0101tad, ja j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i norm\u0101li flirt\u0113jat \u0161\u0101d\u0101 klub\u0101 un cen\u0161aties, glu\u017ei t\u0101pat k\u0101 br\u012bv\u0101 dab\u0101, j\u016bs jau iev\u0113rojami izce\u013caties no vid\u0113j\u0101. Esi burv\u012bgs. Nebaidieties. Flirt\u0113jiet ar citiem, veidojiet fizisku kontaktu, dejojiet. Run\u0101jiet par to, cik smiekl\u012bgi jums \u0161\u0137iet \u0161eit atrasties un k\u0101 j\u016bs j\u016btaties vai ka esat bijis \u0161ausm\u012bgi nervozs, braucot \u0161urp. Darot \u0161\u012bs lietas, kas ikdienas flirt\u0101 tiek uzskat\u012btas par pa\u0161saprotam\u0101m, jums ir vislab\u0101k\u0101 iesp\u0113ja kaut ko dar\u012bt tie\u0161i ar to p\u0101ri, ar kuru v\u0113laties b\u016bt seksu\u0101li akt\u012bvs. Jums vienk\u0101r\u0161i uz br\u012bdi ir j\u0101aizmirst \u0161is slepenais mot\u012bvs, kas visiem ir: \"Vai m\u0113s v\u0113l\u0101k nodarbosimies ar seksu?\", un j\u0101atceras, kas ir j\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101: cilv\u0113ki ar norm\u0101l\u0101m bail\u0113m un nedro\u0161\u012bbu, kuriem pat\u012bk izklaid\u0113ties un kuriem pat\u012bk romantiskas attiec\u012bbas, un kuriem pat\u012bk, ka vi\u0146iem ir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kad pirmo reizi ieejat svingeru klub\u0101, j\u016bs, iesp\u0113jams, j\u016btat satraukumu un nervozit\u0101ti. Bet esiet dro\u0161i, ka nav no k\u0101 baid\u012bties. Svingeru klubi ir viesm\u012bl\u012bgas telpas, kur l\u012bdz\u012bgi dom\u0101jo\u0161i cilv\u0113ki var iepaz\u012bt savu seksualit\u0101ti dro\u0161\u0101 un uz savstarp\u0113jas vieno\u0161an\u0101s pamata. Svingeru klub\u0101 j\u016bs varat sagaid\u012bt ... <a title=\"Kas notiek svingeru klub\u0101?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/kas-patiesiba-notiek-svingeru-kluba\/\" aria-label=\"Las\u012bt vair\u0101k par Kas notiek svingeru klub\u0101?\">Las\u012bt vair\u0101k<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swinger-club"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}