{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/ro\/ce-se-intampla-de-fapt-intr-un-club-swinger\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00eentr-un club de swingeri?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Tabla de con\u021binut<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d5357f7be\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d5357f7be\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/ro\/ce-se-intampla-de-fapt-intr-un-club-swinger\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Introducere: Ce este un club de swingeri?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/ro\/ce-se-intampla-de-fapt-intr-un-club-swinger\/#What_should_I_expect\" >La ce ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219tept?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/ro\/ce-se-intampla-de-fapt-intr-un-club-swinger\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >\u00cen caz contrar, nu ave\u021bi absolut nimic de temut.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/ro\/ce-se-intampla-de-fapt-intr-un-club-swinger\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Cum pot s\u0103 cunosc pe cineva acolo?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>C\u00e2nd intra\u021bi pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00eentr-un club de swingeri, este posibil s\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi un amestec de entuziasm \u0219i nervozitate. Dar fi\u021bi siguri, nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 fie team\u0103 de nimic. Cluburile de swingeri sunt spa\u021bii primitoare \u00een care persoanele care g\u00e2ndesc la fel \u00ee\u0219i pot explora sexualitatea \u00eentr-un mediu sigur \u0219i consensual.<\/p>\n<p>La un club de swingeri, v\u0103 pute\u021bi a\u0219tepta s\u0103 vede\u021bi un grup divers de oameni de toate v\u00e2rstele, formele \u0219i dimensiunile. Toat\u0103 lumea este acolo din acela\u0219i motiv - s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exploreze fanteziile. Nu exist\u0103 nicio presiune pentru a participa la ceva cu care nu v\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi confortabil, iar consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul este \u00eentotdeauna esen\u021bial.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen interiorul unui club de swingeri, pute\u021bi asista la o varietate de activit\u0103\u021bi care au loc. Unele cupluri pot fi implicate \u00een momente intime, \u00een timp ce altele se pot amesteca \u0219i socializa cu al\u021bi oaspe\u021bi. Pot exista zone desemnate pentru \u00eent\u00e2lniri mai private, cum ar fi camere de joac\u0103 sau col\u021buri \u00eentunecate pentru activit\u0103\u021bi mai discrete.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen timpul unei petreceri swingers, v\u0103 pute\u021bi a\u0219tepta s\u0103 vede\u021bi un amestec de exhibi\u021bionism \u0219i voyeurism. Unora dintre invita\u021bi le poate pl\u0103cea s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 cum al\u021bii se angajeaz\u0103 \u00een acte sexuale, \u00een timp ce altora le poate fi mai confortabil s\u0103 participe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i. Atmosfera este de obicei relaxat\u0103 \u0219i lipsit\u0103 de prejudec\u0103\u021bi, permi\u021b\u00e2nd tuturor s\u0103 se simt\u0103 liberi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exprime dorin\u021bele.<\/p>\n<p>Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 la un club de swingeri sau la un sex club depinde \u00een cele din urm\u0103 de tine. Fie c\u0103 sunte\u021bi acolo pentru a observa, a socializa sau a v\u0103 explora propriile limite, experien\u021ba este \u00een \u00eentregime ceea ce face\u021bi din ea. Aminti\u021bi-v\u0103 doar s\u0103 comunica\u021bi deschis cu partenerul dvs. \u0219i s\u0103 respecta\u021bi limitele celorlal\u021bi \u0219i cu siguran\u021b\u0103 ve\u021bi petrece un timp memorabil \u0219i pl\u0103cut \u00een comunitatea swingerilor.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Pentru mul\u021bi oameni, clubul de swingeri este unul dintre primele locuri \u00een care \u00eencep s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 libertatea sexual\u0103 a unei rela\u021bii deschise. Cu at\u00e2t mai mult, \u00eenainte de prima vizit\u0103 exist\u0103 adesea incertitudine \u0219i dezinformare cu privire la ce este de fapt un club de swingeri, ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acolo \u0219i dac\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103 merge\u021bi acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Singurele informa\u021bii care pot fi g\u0103site \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103 sunt adesea cele oferite chiar de cluburi \u0219i care, dup\u0103 orice logic\u0103, nu par a fi o surs\u0103 foarte fiabil\u0103 de informa\u021bii oneste.<\/p>\n<p>Prin urmare, a\u0219 dori s\u0103 v\u0103 spun aici la ce anume v\u0103 pute\u021bi a\u0219tepta, la ce s\u0103 fi\u021bi aten\u021bi \u0219i, bine\u00een\u021beles, s\u0103 clarific\u0103m unele prejudec\u0103\u021bi comune!<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i o scurt\u0103 not\u0103 pentru voi: Aici scriu doar despre cluburile de swingeri heterosexuali.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Introducere: Ce este un club de swingeri?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Marea majoritate a cluburilor de swingeri sunt structurate foarte asem\u0103n\u0103tor. Exist\u0103 o recep\u021bie unde pl\u0103ti\u021bi \u0219i de obicei primi\u021bi o cheie de dulap (\u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit\u0103 \u00een cuplu). Acolo ve\u021bi fi, de asemenea, \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 a\u021bi mai fost acolo \u0219i, dac\u0103 nu, vi se va oferi adesea un tur ghidat, unde pute\u021bi arunca o privire peste tot, de obicei f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103ti\u021bi taxa de intrare.<\/p>\n<p>Undeva exist\u0103 un vestiar unisex unde v\u0103 pute\u021bi schimba \u0219i v\u0103 pute\u021bi depozita lucrurile. Exist\u0103 un bar unde, de obicei, pute\u021bi ob\u021bine b\u0103uturi gratuite. Acestea includ adesea, dar nu \u00eentotdeauna, b\u0103uturi alcoolice. \u00cen plus, exist\u0103 de obicei un bufet cu m\u00e2ncare mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin bun\u0103, care este, de asemenea, inclus\u0103 \u00een pre\u021b.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen plus, clubul este de obicei \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit \u00een dou\u0103 zone, o parte formal\u0103 \u0219i zona de joac\u0103. \u00cen partea formal\u0103 exist\u0103 toate lucrurile pe care tocmai le-am enumerat, de obicei exist\u0103 \u0219i un ring de dans. Multe cluburi au un cod vestimentar, pentru aceast\u0103 zon\u0103 formal\u0103. De cele mai multe ori, regulile spun ceva de genul c\u0103 se doresc haine rezonabil de \u0219ic sau sexy \u0219i c\u0103, cu c\u00e2t se las\u0103 seara mai t\u00e2rziu, cu at\u00e2t este mai pu\u021bin important s\u0103 purta\u021bi orice. De cele mai multe ori vi se permite s\u0103 v\u0103 plimba\u021bi \u00een lenjerie intim\u0103 sau \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 extrem de lejer, \u00eenaintea tuturor celorlal\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fi\u021bi deranjat\u0103. \u00cen aceast\u0103 parte formal\u0103, de obicei nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi dec\u00e2t la mai mult\u0103 nuditate dec\u00e2t v-a\u021bi fi obi\u0219nuit. Ocazional, vor avea loc m\u00e2ng\u00e2ieri mai viguroase sau sex oral, dar \u00een cea mai mare parte aceast\u0103 activitate este mutat\u0103 destul de repede \u00een zonele de joac\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Zona de joac\u0103 este de obicei format\u0103 din mai multe camere acoperite cu saltele. Exist\u0103 prosoape de pus dedesubt din motive de igien\u0103 \u0219i prezervative \u0219i \u0219erve\u021bele la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103. \u00cen aceste zone de joac\u0103, dup\u0103 cum probabil a\u021bi ghicit, pute\u021bi face sex.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Aceste camere mici sunt de obicei foarte frecventate \u0219i, prin urmare, nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 sup\u0103ra\u021bi dac\u0103 sunt \"ocupate\" - dac\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi pu\u021bin, camerele vor deveni din nou libere \u00een cele din urm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>La ce ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219tept?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Mai \u00eent\u00e2i de toate: \u00centre timp, absolut fiecare club swingers are o regul\u0103 clar\u0103 \"Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 nu\". Aceast\u0103 regul\u0103 este sus\u021binut\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 oricine nu o respect\u0103 zboar\u0103 afar\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 rambursare \u0219i este exclus din club.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Doar aceast\u0103 regul\u0103 poate face ca o vizit\u0103 la un club de swingeri s\u0103 merite foarte mult pentru tine. Aici pute\u021bi, dac\u0103 nu face\u021bi deja acest lucru, s\u0103 v\u0103 tr\u0103i\u021bi sexualitatea autodeterminat\u0103 \u00eentr-un cadru clar reglementat.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>La urm\u0103torul punct: Dac\u0103 te afli \u00eentr-o pies\u0103 public\u0103 cu partenerul t\u0103u, te po\u021bi a\u0219tepta ca oamenii din jurul t\u0103u s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219i ei sex. Mai ales dac\u0103 aceste persoane se afl\u0103 \u00een imediata apropiere fizic\u0103, este posibil ca la un moment dat o m\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 tatoneze cu precau\u021bie \u0219i s\u0103 ating\u0103 pentru prima dat\u0103 un loc inofensiv, cum ar fi un um\u0103r sau un picior.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla ca tu sau partenerul t\u0103u sau am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 fi\u021bi agasa\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103. Cu toate acestea, aceste \u00eencerc\u0103ri de ag\u0103\u021bare sunt de obicei mult mai timide \u0219i mai lini\u0219tite dec\u00e2t \u00een mediul obi\u0219nuit al cluburilor de noapte.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>\u00cen caz contrar, nu ave\u021bi absolut nimic de temut.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Dac\u0103 acesta este cazul, de ce se tem at\u00e2t de mul\u021bi oameni de cluburile de swingeri \u0219i de cupluri? De fapt, oricine ar putea merge acolo \u0219i s\u0103 urm\u0103reasc\u0103 filme porno live \u00eempreun\u0103 cu partenerul s\u0103u? Da, exact, ai putea face asta! Intrarea \u00eentr-un club swingers nu te oblig\u0103 s\u0103 faci sex cu al\u021bii, nici m\u0103car s\u0103 ai o sexualitate activ\u0103. De asemenea, pute\u021bi merge acolo doar pentru a m\u00e2nca \u0219i\/sau a v\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103ta, dac\u0103 dori\u021bi. (O op\u021biune pe care o pot recomanda fiec\u0103rei femei. De obicei, femeile nu pl\u0103tesc aproape nicio tax\u0103 de intrare \u00een cluburile swingers, dar mai multe despre asta mai t\u00e2rziu).<\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 vizitarea cluburilor de swingeri nu este totu\u0219i at\u00e2t de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit\u0103 se datoreaz\u0103, \u00een opinia mea, unor prejudec\u0103\u021bi \u0219i dezinform\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>Prejudec\u0103\u021bile: Fapte \u0219i mituri<br \/>\nPrejudec\u0103\u021bi: Acolo sunt numai oameni b\u0103tr\u00e2ni<br \/>\nMul\u021bi tineri au prejudecata c\u0103 swingingul este ceva ce face doar genera\u021bia de peste 60 de ani \u0219i c\u0103, \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103, \u00een astfel de cluburi vor g\u0103si mai ales domni \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 care \u00eei privesc ca pe \"carne proasp\u0103t\u0103\". Pe scurt: nu este a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p>Multe cluburi de swingeri au un public a c\u0103rui v\u00e2rst\u0103 medie este \u00eentre 35 \u0219i 45 de ani. Experien\u021ba arat\u0103 c\u0103 intervalul merge de la 18 la 75, ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 da, exist\u0103 \u0219i persoane mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. Dar nu numai. Depinde \u0219i ce public are clubul, de obicei acest lucru poate fi aflat relativ u\u0219or \u0219i rapid cu un mic truc. (Explic acest truc mai jos \u00een articol).<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 ideea de oameni mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 v\u0103 nelini\u0219te\u0219te, exist\u0103 \u0219i nop\u021bi speciale pentru cupluri tinere, unde v\u00e2rsta medie este sub 30 de ani.<\/p>\n<p>Aten\u021bie: Acestea sunt de obicei rezervate cu luni \u00een avans. Exist\u0103 cu siguran\u021b\u0103 o cerere mare, \u00een intervalul de v\u00e2rst\u0103 mai t\u00e2n\u0103r.<\/p>\n<p>Prejudec\u0103\u021bi: Acolo sunt doar chavs<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103: Scena swinger este o t\u0103ietur\u0103 prin (aproape) TOATE clasele sociale. Acolo ve\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lni oameni care au o educa\u021bie, oameni cu slujbe de birou \u0219i oameni cu doctorate \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe. Ve\u021bi \u00eent\u00e2lni acolo nu numai propriul mediu social, ci \u0219i oamenii cu care altfel ave\u021bi mai pu\u021bin de-a face. Doar clasele sociale mai slabe nu se \u00eent\u00e2lnesc de obicei aici, pentru c\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu nu \u00ee\u0219i permit s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 taxa de intrare.<\/p>\n<p>Prejudec\u0103\u021bi: Acolo sunt doar doamne profesioniste<br \/>\nAceasta este, de asemenea, o prejudecat\u0103, care nu este adev\u0103rat\u0103. Nu cunosc legea, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 acum am g\u0103sit pe fiecare pagin\u0103 de internet, fie c\u0103 este vorba de cea a celui mai mic club de provincie, o regul\u0103 conform c\u0103reia lucr\u0103torii sexuali profesioni\u0219ti nu sunt bineveni\u021bi \u0219i ar trebui raporta\u021bi imediat dac\u0103 exist\u0103 suspiciunea c\u0103 cineva este aici pentru a face bani.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Prejudec\u0103\u021bi: Swingerii sunt poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Alegerea clubului: club de swingeri sau de cupluri?<br \/>\n\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, trebuie remarcat faptul c\u0103 exist\u0103 diferen\u021be mari \u00eentre diferitele cluburi de swingeri. Unele cluburi nu se numesc cluburi de swingeri, ci cluburi de cupluri, deoarece acolo sunt admise cupluri mixte \u0219i nu persoane singure. Rela\u021bia exact\u0103 dintre dvs. \u0219i partenerul dvs. nu este verificat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i de aici pute\u021bi \u00eencepe s\u0103 alege\u021bi un club: Ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti? Ce \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0219ti s\u0103 faci? \u0218i care sunt cerin\u021bele tale?<\/p>\n<p>Un club de cupluri are avantajul c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bi singuri acolo. \u00cen timp ce cluburile swingers tradi\u021bionale sunt finan\u021bate \u00een principal de b\u0103rba\u021bi singuri, cluburile de cupluri, dup\u0103 cum sugereaz\u0103 \u0219i numele, las\u0103 s\u0103 intre doar cupluri. Acest lucru \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 pentru fiecare doamn\u0103 \u0219i domn care se afl\u0103 acolo, exist\u0103 \u0219i o contraparte \u0219i, astfel, nu exist\u0103 raporturi inegale \u00eentre sexe. Mai ales dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi \u00eenc\u0103 un pic nesigur, pute\u021bi alege un club de cupluri ca punct de plecare. Multe dintre cuplurile de acolo sunt, de asemenea, noi pe scena swinger \u0219i, prin urmare, destul de nesigure. Prin urmare, \u00een medie, se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 mai pu\u021bin, deoarece mul\u021bi nu \u00eendr\u0103znesc (\u00eenc\u0103) s\u0103 fie ofensatori.<\/p>\n<p>Mult timp am avut prejudec\u0103\u021bi fa\u021b\u0103 de cluburile de swingeri care permit \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi singuri, dar am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat mai bine.<\/p>\n<p>Primul avantaj evident al cluburilor swingers este: sunt mult mai ieftine. Cuplurile pl\u0103tesc mai pu\u021bin, iar doamnele singure de obicei nu pl\u0103tesc aproape nimic. B\u0103rba\u021bii solo pl\u0103tesc mult mai mult \u0219i exist\u0103 o selec\u021bie mai strict\u0103 la u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Al doilea avantaj este c\u0103 ave\u021bi mai multe op\u021biuni. Cluburile de cupluri nu sunt la fel de frecvente ca \u0219i cluburile de swingeri. \u00cen orice caz, indiferent \u00een ce cuib sau \u00een ce regiune ur-catolic\u0103 a Germaniei locui\u021bi, pute\u021bi fi relativ sigur c\u0103 undeva exist\u0103 un club de swingeri la o distan\u021b\u0103 acceptabil\u0103 - nu la fel de sigur c\u0103 acela\u0219i lucru este valabil pentru un club de cupluri.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimul avantaj este, oric\u00e2t de absurd ar p\u0103rea: b\u0103rba\u021bii singuri.<\/p>\n<p>Spre deosebire de clubul cuplurilor, exist\u0103 domni solo care au un interes sporit \u00een a-i cunoa\u0219te pe al\u021bii \u0219i sunt activi. Acest lucru v\u0103 poate st\u00e2njeni pe dvs. \u0219i pe partenerul dvs. dac\u0103 nu ave\u021bi experien\u021b\u0103 sau dac\u0103 gelozia joac\u0103 un rol \u00een rela\u021bia dvs. Eu personal am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 apreciez aceast\u0103 atmosfer\u0103. Chiar dac\u0103 nu am fost niciodat\u0103 interesat de domnii solo cu escortele mele respective, acestea creeaz\u0103 o atmosfer\u0103 \u00een care exist\u0103 mai mult\u0103 deschidere \u0219i mai mult flirt - \u0219i, prin urmare, mai multe \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri dec\u00e2t \u00eentr-un club de cupluri. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103, depinde \u0219i de alegerea exact\u0103 a clubului.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Cel mai bun sfat pentru a lua o decizie concret\u0103 pentru un club este \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pagina de pornire \u0219i descrierea evenimentului \u00een sine. Multe cluburi swingers au o \"noapte a cuplurilor\" \u0219i multe au, de asemenea, diverse alte nop\u021bi tematice. A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 vizita\u021bi un club de swingeri \u00eempreun\u0103 cu partenerul dvs. ca un cuplu curios, probabil c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 alege\u021bi o astfel de noapte a cuplurilor mai degrab\u0103 dec\u00e2t \"petrecerile hardcore cu surplus masculin XXL\" care au loc \u0219i acolo. Cu excep\u021bia cazului \u00een care, desigur, a\u021bi dori s\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Fi\u021bi con\u0219tien\u021bi de faptul c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna avantaje \u0219i dezavantaje! Cluburile familiale mici faciliteaz\u0103 stabilirea de contacte, cluburile mari v\u0103 permit s\u0103 v\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi limitele \u00een lini\u0219te. Cluburile ieftine au adesea o cordialitate pl\u0103cut\u0103, \u00een cluburile scumpe oamenii par adesea mai frumo\u0219i \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Cum pot s\u0103 cunosc pe cineva acolo?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>S-ar putea s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi deja toate aceste lucruri dac\u0103 a\u021bi mai vizitat un club, sau le pute\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba vizit\u00e2nd unul cu o minte deschis\u0103. le pute\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba vizit\u00e2nd unul cu o minte deschis\u0103. Cu toate acestea, am c\u00e2teva sfaturi suplimentare pentru dvs. care v\u0103 pot ajuta chiar dac\u0103 a\u021bi mai vizitat un club sau dac\u0103 toate acestea nu sunt noi pentru dvs.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Calea lent\u0103 pentru persoanele care nu doresc s\u0103 fie respinse<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Metoda rapid\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd r\u0103bdarea este redus\u0103<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Modul foarte rapid, dac\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi exact ce dori\u021bi.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Doar \u00eencepe\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 distra\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 acolo sau \u00eentinde\u021bi-v\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 un cuplu care v\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00eencepe\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 distra\u021bi. De obicei, va dura cel mult c\u00e2teva minute p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd primele m\u00e2ini se plimb\u0103 sau se stabile\u0219te un contact \u00een orice alt mod. Totul decurge aproape automat, f\u0103r\u0103 discu\u021bii sau eforturi mari.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Acest sfat este destinat \u00een principal cuplurilor care sunt \u00eemp\u0103cate cu ele \u00eensele. De preferin\u021b\u0103, acest sfat nu ar trebui folosit de b\u0103rba\u021bii singuri, deoarece acolo duce mai degrab\u0103 la fenomenul men\u021bionat mai sus al \"labagiului marginal\", iar pu\u021binele cupluri \u00eel g\u0103sesc cu adev\u0103rat atractiv.<\/p>\n<p>Sfat secret: Flirteaz\u0103!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 flirtezi \u00een mod normal \u00eentr-un astfel de club \u0219i faci un efort, la fel cum ai face-o \u00een s\u0103lb\u0103ticie, deja ie\u0219i considerabil \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de media. Fii fermec\u0103tor. Nu v\u0103 fie team\u0103. Flirta\u021bi cu ceilal\u021bi, face\u021bi contact fizic, dansa\u021bi. Vorbi\u021bi despre c\u00e2t de amuzant vi se pare s\u0103 fi\u021bi aici \u0219i cum v\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi sau despre faptul c\u0103 a\u021bi fost teribil de emo\u021bionat c\u00e2nd a\u021bi condus p\u00e2n\u0103 aici. F\u0103c\u00e2nd aceste lucruri, care sunt de la sine \u00een flirtul de zi cu zi, ai cele mai mari \u0219anse s\u0103 faci ceva exact cu cuplul cu care vrei s\u0103 fii activ sexual. Trebuie doar s\u0103 ui\u021bi pentru o clip\u0103 de acest motiv ascuns pe care \u00eel are toat\u0103 lumea: \"O s\u0103 facem sex mai t\u00e2rziu?\" \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi aminte\u0219ti pe cine ai \u00een fa\u021ba ta: oameni cu temeri \u0219i nesiguran\u021be normale c\u0103rora le place s\u0103 se distreze \u0219i s\u0103 fie roman\u021ba\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103rora le-a pl\u0103cut s\u0103 fie avu\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2nd intra\u021bi pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00eentr-un club de swingeri, este posibil s\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi un amestec de entuziasm \u0219i nervozitate. Dar fi\u021bi siguri, nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 fie team\u0103 de nimic. Cluburile de swingeri sunt spa\u021bii primitoare \u00een care persoanele care g\u00e2ndesc la fel \u00ee\u0219i pot explora sexualitatea \u00eentr-un mediu sigur \u0219i consensual. 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