{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010co sa deje vo swingers klube?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Obsah<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c24104fda\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Prep\u00edna\u010d<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c24104fda\"  aria-label=\"Prep\u00edna\u010d\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >\u00davod: \u010co je to swingers klub?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/#What_should_I_expect\" >\u010co m\u00f4\u017eem o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >V opa\u010dnom pr\u00edpade sa nem\u00e1te \u010doho ob\u00e1va\u0165.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Ako sa tam m\u00f4\u017eem s niek\u00fdm zozn\u00e1mi\u0165?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Ke\u010f prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t vst\u00fapite do swingers klubu, mo\u017eno poc\u00edtite zmes vzru\u0161enia a nervozity. Ale bu\u010fte si ist\u00ed, \u017ee sa nem\u00e1te \u010doho b\u00e1\u0165. Swingers kluby s\u00fa pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 priestory, kde m\u00f4\u017eu podobne zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00faci jedinci sk\u00fama\u0165 svoju sexualitu v bezpe\u010dnom a konsenzu\u00e1lnom prostred\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Vo swingers klube m\u00f4\u017eete o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 r\u00f4znorod\u00fa skupinu \u013eud\u00ed v\u0161etk\u00fdch vekov\u00fdch kateg\u00f3ri\u00ed, tvarov a ve\u013ekost\u00ed. V\u0161etci s\u00fa tam z rovnak\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu - chc\u00fa sa dobre zabavi\u0165 a presk\u00fama\u0165 svoje fant\u00e1zie. Neexistuje tu \u017eiadny n\u00e1tlak, aby ste sa z\u00fa\u010dast\u0148ovali na nie\u010dom, \u010do v\u00e1m nie je pr\u00edjemn\u00e9, a k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fd je v\u017edy s\u00fahlas.<\/p>\n<p>Vo vn\u00fatri swingers klubu m\u00f4\u017eete by\u0165 svedkami r\u00f4znych aktiv\u00edt. Niektor\u00e9 p\u00e1ry sa m\u00f4\u017eu venova\u0165 int\u00edmnym chv\u00ed\u013eam medzi sebou, zatia\u013e \u010do in\u00e9 sa m\u00f4\u017eu stret\u00e1va\u0165 s ostatn\u00fdmi hos\u0165ami. M\u00f4\u017eu tu by\u0165 vyhraden\u00e9 priestory na s\u00fakromnej\u0161ie stretnutia, napr\u00edklad herne alebo tmav\u00e9 k\u00fatiky na diskr\u00e9tnej\u0161ie aktivity.<\/p>\n<p>Po\u010das swingers p\u00e1rty m\u00f4\u017eete o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 zmes exhibicionizmu a voyeurizmu. Niektor\u00fdm hos\u0165om sa m\u00f4\u017ee p\u00e1\u010di\u0165 pozera\u0165 sa na sexu\u00e1lne akty in\u00fdch, zatia\u013e \u010do in\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pr\u00edjemnej\u0161ie, ke\u010f sa ich sami z\u00fa\u010dastnia. Atmosf\u00e9ra je zvy\u010dajne uvo\u013enen\u00e1 a neodsudzuj\u00faca, \u010do umo\u017e\u0148uje ka\u017ed\u00e9mu slobodne vyjadri\u0165 svoje t\u00fa\u017eby.<\/p>\n<p>To, \u010do sa deje vo swingers alebo sex klube, je nakoniec na v\u00e1s. \u010ci u\u017e ste tam preto, aby ste pozorovali, stret\u00e1vali sa s \u013eu\u010fmi alebo sk\u00famali svoje vlastn\u00e9 hranice, z\u00e1\u017eitok z\u00e1vis\u00ed len od v\u00e1s. Len nezabudnite otvorene komunikova\u0165 so svoj\u00edm partnerom a re\u0161pektova\u0165 hranice ostatn\u00fdch a ur\u010dite za\u017eijete nezabudnute\u013en\u00e9 a pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 chv\u00edle v swingovej komunite.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Pre mnoh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed je swingers klub jedn\u00fdm z prv\u00fdch miest, kde skuto\u010dne za\u010dn\u00fa vyu\u017e\u00edva\u0165 sexu\u00e1lnu slobodu otvoren\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. O to viac pred prvou n\u00e1v\u0161tevou \u010dasto panuje neistota a dezinform\u00e1cie o tom, \u010do to vlastne swingers klub je, \u010do sa tam deje a \u010di sa tam v\u00f4bec oplat\u00ed \u00eds\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>Jedin\u00e9 inform\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 sa v tejto s\u00favislosti daj\u00fa n\u00e1js\u0165, s\u00fa \u010dasto tie, ktor\u00e9 pon\u00fakaj\u00fa samotn\u00e9 kluby, a tie sa pod\u013ea v\u0161etkej logiky nezdaj\u00fa by\u0165 ve\u013emi spo\u013eahliv\u00fdm zdrojom pravdiv\u00fdch inform\u00e1ci\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Preto by som v\u00e1m tu r\u00e1d povedal, \u010do presne m\u00f4\u017eete o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, na \u010do si m\u00f4\u017eete da\u0165 pozor a samozrejme vyjasni\u0165 niektor\u00e9 be\u017en\u00e9 predsudky!<\/p>\n<p>A kr\u00e1tka pozn\u00e1mka pre v\u00e1s: P\u00ed\u0161em tu len o heterosexu\u00e1lnych swingers kluboch.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>\u00davod: \u010co je to swingers klub?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Preva\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina swingers klubov m\u00e1 ve\u013emi podobn\u00fa \u0161trukt\u00faru. Je tu recepcia, kde zaplat\u00edte a zvy\u010dajne dostanete k\u013e\u00fa\u010d od skrinky (spolo\u010dn\u00fd pre p\u00e1r). Tam sa v\u00e1s tie\u017e op\u00fdtaj\u00fa, \u010di ste tam u\u017e boli, a ak nie, \u010dasto v\u00e1m pon\u00faknu prehliadku, kde si m\u00f4\u017eete v\u0161etko pozrie\u0165, zvy\u010dajne bez platenia vstupn\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<p>Niekde sa nach\u00e1dza unisex \u0161at\u0148a, kde sa m\u00f4\u017eete prezliec\u0165 a odlo\u017ei\u0165 si veci. Je tu bar, kde zvy\u010dajne dostanete n\u00e1poje zadarmo. To \u010dasto, ale nie v\u017edy, zah\u0155\u0148a aj alkoholick\u00e9 n\u00e1poje. Okrem toho je tu zvy\u010dajne bufet s viac \u010di menej dobr\u00fdm jedlom, ktor\u00e9 je tie\u017e zahrnut\u00e9 v cene.<\/p>\n<p>Okrem toho je klub zvy\u010dajne rozdelen\u00fd na dve \u010dasti, form\u00e1lnu a hraciu. Vo form\u00e1lnej \u010dasti sa nach\u00e1dzaj\u00fa v\u0161etky veci, ktor\u00e9 som pr\u00e1ve vymenoval, zvy\u010dajne je tam aj tane\u010dn\u00fd parket. Mnoh\u00e9 kluby maj\u00fa pre t\u00fato form\u00e1lnu \u010das\u0165 stanoven\u00fd dress code. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sa v pravidl\u00e1ch p\u00ed\u0161e nie\u010do v tom zmysle, \u017ee je \u017eiaduce primerane elegantn\u00e9 alebo sexi oble\u010denie a \u010d\u00edm nesk\u00f4r ve\u010der nastane, t\u00fdm menej je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ma\u0165 na sebe v\u00f4bec nie\u010do. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sa m\u00f4\u017eete prech\u00e1dza\u0165 v spodnej bielizni alebo extr\u00e9mne \u013eahko oble\u010den\u00ed sk\u00f4r, ako to urobia v\u0161etci ostatn\u00ed, bez toho, aby v\u00e1s niekto ob\u0165a\u017eoval. V tejto form\u00e1lnej \u010dasti zvy\u010dajne nemus\u00edte o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 ni\u010d in\u00e9 ako v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu nahotu, ne\u017e na ak\u00fa by ste inak boli zvyknut\u00ed. Ob\u010das sa vyskytne aj nejak\u00e9 razantnej\u0161ie maznanie alebo or\u00e1lny sex, ale v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sa t\u00e1to \u010dinnos\u0165 pomerne r\u00fdchlo presunie do priestorov na hranie.<\/p>\n<p>Hrac\u00ed priestor je zvy\u010dajne nieko\u013eko miestnost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa pokryt\u00e9 roho\u017eami. Z hygienick\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov s\u00fa pod nimi uter\u00e1ky a v dosahu kond\u00f3my a utierky. V t\u00fdchto hrac\u00edch priestoroch, ako ste u\u017e mo\u017eno uh\u00e1dli, m\u00f4\u017eete ma\u0165 sex.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Tieto mal\u00e9 miestnosti s\u00fa zvy\u010dajne ve\u013emi frekventovan\u00e9, a preto by ste sa nemali roz\u010du\u013eova\u0165, ak s\u00fa \"obsaden\u00e9\" - ak chv\u00ed\u013eu po\u010dk\u00e1te, miestnosti sa nakoniec op\u00e4\u0165 uvo\u013enia.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>\u010co m\u00f4\u017eem o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Predov\u0161etk\u00fdm: Medzit\u00fdm m\u00e1 \u00faplne ka\u017ed\u00fd swingers klub jasn\u00e9 pravidlo \"Nie znamen\u00e1 nie\". Toto pravidlo je podporen\u00e9 t\u00fdm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd, kto ho nedodr\u017eiava, vylet\u00ed bez n\u00e1hrady a je z klubu vyk\u00e1zan\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>U\u017e len v\u010faka tomuto pravidlu sa v\u00e1m n\u00e1v\u0161teva swingers klubu m\u00f4\u017ee ve\u013emi oplati\u0165. Tu m\u00f4\u017eete, ak to e\u0161te nerob\u00edte, pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 svoju vlastn\u00fa sexualitu v jasne regulovanom r\u00e1mci.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>K \u010fal\u0161iemu bodu: Ak ste na verejnej hre so svoj\u00edm spolo\u010dn\u00edkom, m\u00f4\u017eete o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, \u017ee \u013eudia okolo v\u00e1s bud\u00fa ma\u0165 tie\u017e sex. Najm\u00e4 ak s\u00fa t\u00edto \u013eudia v tesnej fyzickej bl\u00edzkosti, je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee v ur\u010ditom okamihu sa ruka opatrne pretiahne a prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t sa dotkne ne\u0161kodn\u00e9ho miesta, ako je rameno alebo noha.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00f4\u017ee sa sta\u0165, \u017ee v\u00e1s, v\u00e1\u0161ho spolo\u010dn\u00edka alebo v\u00e1s oboch niekto napadne. Tieto pokusy o balenie s\u00fa v\u0161ak zvy\u010dajne ove\u013ea plachej\u0161ie a tich\u0161ie ako v be\u017enom prostred\u00ed no\u010dn\u00e9ho klubu.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>V opa\u010dnom pr\u00edpade sa nem\u00e1te \u010doho ob\u00e1va\u0165.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ak je to tak, pre\u010do sa to\u013eko \u013eud\u00ed tak boj\u00ed swingers a klubov pre p\u00e1ry? Vlastne tam m\u00f4\u017ee \u00eds\u0165 ktoko\u013evek a pozera\u0165 porno na\u017eivo spolu so svoj\u00edm partnerom? \u00c1no, presne tak, to by ste mohli! Vstup do swingers klubu v\u00e1s nezav\u00e4zuje k sexu s in\u00fdmi, dokonca v\u00f4bec nie k akt\u00edvnej sexualite. Ak chcete, m\u00f4\u017eete sa tam \u00eds\u0165 aj len najes\u0165 a\/alebo opi\u0165. (Mo\u017enos\u0165, ktor\u00fa m\u00f4\u017eem odporu\u010di\u0165 ka\u017edej \u017eene. \u017deny vo swingers kluboch zvy\u010dajne neplatia takmer \u017eiadne vstupn\u00e9, ale o tom nesk\u00f4r).<\/p>\n<p>To, \u017ee n\u00e1v\u0161teva swingers klubov napriek tomu nie je tak\u00e1 roz\u0161\u00edren\u00e1, je pod\u013ea m\u00f4jho n\u00e1zoru sp\u00f4soben\u00e9 ur\u010dit\u00fdmi predsudkami a dezinform\u00e1ciami.<\/p>\n<p>Predsudky: Fakty a m\u00fdty<br \/>\nPredsudky: S\u00fa tam len star\u00ed \u013eudia<br \/>\nMnoh\u00ed mlad\u00ed \u013eudia maj\u00fa predsudok, \u017ee swing je nie\u010do, \u010do rob\u00ed len gener\u00e1cia nad 60 rokov, a preto v tak\u00fdchto kluboch n\u00e1jdu v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou star\u00fdch p\u00e1nov, ktor\u00ed ich pova\u017euj\u00fa za \"\u010derstv\u00e9 m\u00e4so\". Stru\u010dne povedan\u00e9: nie je to tak.<\/p>\n<p>V mnoh\u00fdch swingers kluboch je priemern\u00fd vek n\u00e1v\u0161tevn\u00edkov 35 a\u017e 45 rokov. Sk\u00fasenosti ukazuj\u00fa, \u017ee rozp\u00e4tie je od 18 do 75 rokov, \u010do znamen\u00e1, \u017ee \u00e1no, s\u00fa tu aj star\u0161\u00ed \u013eudia. Ale nielen t\u00edto. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed aj na tom, ak\u00e9 publikum klub m\u00e1, zvy\u010dajne sa to d\u00e1 zisti\u0165 pomerne \u013eahko a r\u00fdchlo pomocou mal\u00e9ho triku. (Tento trik vysvet\u013eujem \u010falej v \u010dl\u00e1nku).<\/p>\n<p>Ak v\u00e1s predstava star\u0161\u00edch \u013eud\u00ed ve\u013emi znepokojuje, s\u00fa tu aj \u0161peci\u00e1lne noci pre mlad\u00e9 p\u00e1ry, kde je priemern\u00fd vek menej ako 30 rokov.<\/p>\n<p>Pozor: Tieto miesta s\u00fa zvy\u010dajne rezervovan\u00e9 mesiace vopred. V mlad\u0161om veku je o ne ur\u010dite ve\u013ek\u00fd z\u00e1ujem.<\/p>\n<p>Predsudky: S\u00fa tam len \u010divavy<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Faktom je, \u017ee: swingersk\u00e1 sc\u00e9na je prierezom (takmer) V\u0160ETK\u00ddCH spolo\u010densk\u00fdch vrstiev. Stretnete tam \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa vzdelanie, \u013eud\u00ed s kancel\u00e1rskou pr\u00e1cou a \u013eud\u00ed s doktor\u00e1tom a tak \u010falej a tak \u010falej. Stretnete tam nielen svoje soci\u00e1lne prostredie, ale aj \u013eud\u00ed, s ktor\u00fdmi inak m\u00e1te menej spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho. Len soci\u00e1lne slab\u0161ie vrstvy tu zvy\u010dajne nen\u00e1jdete, preto\u017ee si jednoducho nem\u00f4\u017eu dovoli\u0165 zaplati\u0165 vstupn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Predsudky: S\u00fa tam len profesion\u00e1lne d\u00e1my<br \/>\nAj to je predsudok, ktor\u00fd nie je pravdiv\u00fd. Nepozn\u00e1m z\u00e1kon, ale zatia\u013e som na ka\u017edej domovskej str\u00e1nke, \u010di u\u017e ide o najmen\u0161\u00ed provin\u010dn\u00fd klub, na\u0161iel pravidlo, \u017ee profesion\u00e1lne sexu\u00e1lne pracovn\u00ed\u010dky nie s\u00fa jednozna\u010dne v\u00edtan\u00e9 a treba to okam\u017eite nahl\u00e1si\u0165, ak existuje podozrenie, \u017ee si tu niekto chce zarobi\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Predsudky: Swingers s\u00fa poly<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00fdber klubu: swingers alebo klub pre p\u00e1ry?<br \/>\nV prvom rade treba poznamena\u0165, \u017ee medzi jednotliv\u00fdmi swingers klubmi s\u00fa ve\u013ek\u00e9 rozdiely. Niektor\u00e9 kluby sa nenaz\u00fdvaj\u00fa swingers kluby, ale kluby pre p\u00e1ry, preto\u017ee sa do nich prij\u00edmaj\u00fa p\u00e1ry zmie\u0161an\u00e9ho pohlavia, a nie jednotlivci. Presn\u00fd vz\u0165ah medzi vami a va\u0161\u00edm spolo\u010dn\u00edkom sa nekontroluje.<\/p>\n<p>A pr\u00e1ve tu si m\u00f4\u017eete za\u010da\u0165 vybera\u0165 klub: \u010co chcete? Na \u010do si tr\u00fafate? A ak\u00e9 s\u00fa va\u0161e po\u017eiadavky?<\/p>\n<p>Klub pre p\u00e1ry m\u00e1 t\u00fa v\u00fdhodu, \u017ee v \u0148om nie s\u00fa \u017eiadni s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei. K\u00fdm tradi\u010dn\u00e9 swingers kluby financuj\u00fa najm\u00e4 s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei, kluby pre p\u00e1ry, ako u\u017e n\u00e1zov napoved\u00e1, vp\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa do svojich priestorov len p\u00e1ry. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee na ka\u017ed\u00fa d\u00e1mu a p\u00e1na, ktor\u00ed tam s\u00fa, pripad\u00e1 aj ich n\u00e1protivok, a tak tam nie je nerovn\u00fd pomer pohlav\u00ed. Najm\u00e4 ak ste e\u0161te trochu neist\u00ed, m\u00f4\u017eete si na za\u010diatok vybra\u0165 klub pre p\u00e1ry. Mnoh\u00e9 z tamoj\u0161\u00edch p\u00e1rov s\u00fa tie\u017e nov\u00e1\u010dikmi na swingerskej sc\u00e9ne, a preto s\u00fa dos\u0165 neist\u00e9. Preto sa v priemere st\u00e1va menej, preto\u017ee mnoh\u00ed sa (zatia\u013e) neodv\u00e1\u017eia by\u0165 \u00fato\u010dn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Dlho som mala predsudky vo\u010di swingers klubom, ktor\u00e9 umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00fa aj s\u00f3lo mu\u017eov, ale nau\u010dili ma to lep\u0161ie.<\/p>\n<p>Prvou zjavnou v\u00fdhodou swingers klubov je, \u017ee s\u00fa ove\u013ea lacnej\u0161ie. P\u00e1ry platia menej a s\u00f3lo d\u00e1my zvy\u010dajne neplatia takmer ni\u010d. S\u00f3lo mu\u017ei platia ove\u013ea viac a pri vstupe je pr\u00edsnej\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdber.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Druhou v\u00fdhodou je, \u017ee m\u00e1te v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdber. P\u00e1rov\u00e9 kluby nie s\u00fa tak\u00e9 be\u017en\u00e9 ako swingers kluby. V ka\u017edom pr\u00edpade, bez oh\u013eadu na to, v ktorom hniezde alebo ur-katol\u00edckom regi\u00f3ne Nemecka \u017eijete, m\u00f4\u017eete si by\u0165 relat\u00edvne ist\u00ed, \u017ee niekde je swingers klub v prijate\u013enom dosahu - nie je tak ist\u00e9, \u017ee to ist\u00e9 plat\u00ed pre klub pre p\u00e1ry.<\/p>\n<p>Poslednou v\u00fdhodou je, akoko\u013evek absurdne to m\u00f4\u017ee znie\u0165: s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei.<\/p>\n<p>Na rozdiel od klubov pre p\u00e1ry s\u00fa tu s\u00f3lo p\u00e1ni, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fd z\u00e1ujem o spozn\u00e1vanie in\u00fdch a s\u00fa akt\u00edvni. To m\u00f4\u017ee v\u00e1m a v\u00e1\u0161mu spolo\u010dn\u00edkovi sp\u00f4sobi\u0165 nepr\u00edjemnosti, ak ste nesk\u00fasen\u00ed alebo vo va\u0161om vz\u0165ahu hr\u00e1 \u00falohu \u017eiarlivos\u0165. Ja osobne som sa nau\u010dil t\u00fato atmosf\u00e9ru oce\u0148ova\u0165. Aj ke\u010f som nikdy nemal z\u00e1ujem o s\u00f3lo p\u00e1nov s pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00fdmi eskortn\u00fdmi slu\u017ebami, vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru, v ktorej je viac otvorenosti a flirtovania - a teda viac diania ako v kluboch pre p\u00e1ry. Ur\u010dite to z\u00e1vis\u00ed aj od presn\u00e9ho v\u00fdberu klubu.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Najlep\u0161\u00edm tipom na konkr\u00e9tne rozhodnutie pre klub je v prvom rade domovsk\u00e1 str\u00e1nka a popis samotn\u00e9ho podujatia. Mnoh\u00e9 swingers kluby maj\u00fa \"noc pre p\u00e1ry\" a mnoh\u00e9 maj\u00fa aj r\u00f4zne in\u00e9 tematick\u00e9 ve\u010dery. Ak teda chcete nav\u0161t\u00edvi\u0165 swingers klub so svoj\u00edm spolo\u010dn\u00edkom ako zvedav\u00fd p\u00e1r, mali by ste si pravdepodobne vybra\u0165 sk\u00f4r tak\u00fato noc pre p\u00e1ry ne\u017e \"hardcore XXL mu\u017esk\u00e9 prebytkov\u00e9 p\u00e1rty\", ktor\u00e9 sa tam tie\u017e konaj\u00fa. Pokia\u013e by ste, samozrejme, nechceli.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Uvedomte si, \u017ee v\u017edy existuj\u00fa v\u00fdhody a nev\u00fdhody! Mal\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 kluby u\u013eah\u010duj\u00fa nadv\u00e4zovanie kontaktov, ve\u013ek\u00e9 kluby v\u00e1m umo\u017enia v pokoji poc\u00edti\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 hranice. Lacn\u00e9 kluby maj\u00fa \u010dasto pr\u00edjemn\u00fa srde\u010dnos\u0165, v drah\u00fdch kluboch \u013eudia \u010dasto vyzeraj\u00fa kraj\u0161ie a tak \u010falej a tak \u010falej.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Ako sa tam m\u00f4\u017eem s niek\u00fdm zozn\u00e1mi\u0165?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>V\u0161etky tieto veci u\u017e mo\u017eno viete, ak ste u\u017e predt\u00fdm nav\u0161t\u00edvili nejak\u00fd klub, alebo sa ich m\u00f4\u017eete nau\u010di\u0165, ak ho nav\u0161t\u00edvite s otvorenou mys\u013eou. sa ich m\u00f4\u017eete nau\u010di\u0165, ak ho nav\u0161t\u00edvite s otvorenou mys\u013eou. M\u00e1m v\u0161ak pre v\u00e1s nieko\u013eko \u010fal\u0161\u00edch tipov, ktor\u00e9 v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017eu pom\u00f4c\u0165, aj ke\u010f ste u\u017e nejak\u00fd klub nav\u0161t\u00edvili, alebo ak to v\u0161etko pre v\u00e1s nie je ni\u010d nov\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Pomal\u00fd sp\u00f4sob pre \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nechc\u00fa odmietnutie<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>R\u00fdchly sp\u00f4sob, ke\u010f je menej trpezlivosti<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Ak presne viete, \u010do chcete, je to ve\u013emi r\u00fdchly sp\u00f4sob.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Jednoducho sa tam za\u010dnite spolu bavi\u0165 alebo si \u013eahnite do bl\u00edzkosti dvojice, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1s zauj\u00edma, a za\u010dnite sa bavi\u0165. Zvy\u010dajne to trv\u00e1 nanajv\u00fd\u0161 nieko\u013eko min\u00fat, k\u00fdm sa k v\u00e1m zat\u00falaj\u00fa prv\u00e9 ruky alebo d\u00f4jde k in\u00e9mu kontaktu. Cel\u00e9 to prebieha takmer automaticky, bez nejak\u00e9ho ve\u013ek\u00e9ho rozpr\u00e1vania alebo n\u00e1mahy.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Tento tip je ur\u010den\u00fd hlavne pre p\u00e1ry, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa v pokoji samy so sebou. Tento tip by rad\u0161ej nemali pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 s\u00f3lo mu\u017ei, preto\u017ee tam sk\u00f4r vedie k vy\u0161\u0161ie spom\u00ednan\u00e9mu fenom\u00e9nu \"okrajov\u00e9ho onanistu\" a najmenej p\u00e1rov je naozaj atrakt\u00edvnych.<\/p>\n<p>Tajn\u00fd tip: Flirtujte!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>Tak\u017ee ak v takomto klube len norm\u00e1lne flirtujete a sna\u017e\u00edte sa, rovnako ako v pr\u00edrode, u\u017e v\u00fdrazne vy\u010dnievate z priemeru. Bu\u010fte o\u010daruj\u00faci. Nebojte sa. Flirtujte s ostatn\u00fdmi, nadv\u00e4zujte fyzick\u00fd kontakt, tancujte. Hovorte o tom, ak\u00e9 je to z\u00e1bavn\u00e9, \u017ee ste tu a ako sa c\u00edtite, alebo \u017ee ste boli stra\u0161ne nerv\u00f3zni, ke\u010f ste sem i\u0161li. T\u00fdm, \u017ee budete robi\u0165 tieto veci, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa pri ka\u017edodennom flirtovan\u00ed samozrejmos\u0165ou, m\u00e1te najlep\u0161iu \u0161ancu urobi\u0165 nie\u010do presne s t\u00fdm p\u00e1rom, s ktor\u00fdm chcete by\u0165 sexu\u00e1lne akt\u00edvni. Mus\u00edte len na chv\u00ed\u013eu zabudn\u00fa\u0165 na tento skryt\u00fd mot\u00edv, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd: \"Budeme ma\u0165 nesk\u00f4r sex?\", a uvedomi\u0165 si, koho m\u00e1te pred sebou: \u013eud\u00ed s norm\u00e1lnymi obavami a neistotami, ktor\u00ed sa radi bavia a radi sa nechaj\u00fa romantizova\u0165 a radi sa nechaj\u00fa ma\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ke\u010f prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t vst\u00fapite do swingers klubu, mo\u017eno poc\u00edtite zmes vzru\u0161enia a nervozity. Ale bu\u010fte si ist\u00ed, \u017ee sa nem\u00e1te \u010doho b\u00e1\u0165. Swingers kluby s\u00fa pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 priestory, kde m\u00f4\u017eu podobne zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00faci jedinci sk\u00fama\u0165 svoju sexualitu v bezpe\u010dnom a konsenzu\u00e1lnom prostred\u00ed. Vo swingers klube m\u00f4\u017eete o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, \u017ee uvid\u00edte ... <a title=\"\u010co sa deje vo swingers klube?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/co-sa-v-skutocnosti-deje-vo-swinger-klube\/\" aria-label=\"Pre\u010d\u00edtajte si viac o \u010co sa deje vo swingers klube?\">Pre\u010d\u00edtajte si viac<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swinger-club"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}