{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sl\/kaj-se-dejansko-dogaja-v-klubu-swingerjev\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaj se dogaja v svingerskem klubu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Kazalo vsebine<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d06600ce6\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d06600ce6\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sl\/kaj-se-dejansko-dogaja-v-klubu-swingerjev\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Uvod: Kaj je svingerski klub?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sl\/kaj-se-dejansko-dogaja-v-klubu-swingerjev\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Kaj naj pri\u010dakujem?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sl\/kaj-se-dejansko-dogaja-v-klubu-swingerjev\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >V nasprotnem primeru se vam ni treba bati.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sl\/kaj-se-dejansko-dogaja-v-klubu-swingerjev\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Kako lahko tam koga spoznam?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Ko prvi\u010d vstopite v svingerski klub, boste morda ob\u010dutili me\u0161anico vznemirjenja in nervoze. Vendar bodite prepri\u010dani, da se ni treba ni\u010desar bati. Svingerski klubi so prijazni prostori, kjer lahko podobno misle\u010di posamezniki raziskujejo svojo spolnost v varnem in sporazumnem okolju.<\/p>\n<p>V svingerskem klubu lahko pri\u010dakujete raznoliko skupino ljudi vseh starosti, oblik in velikosti. Vsi so tam iz istega razloga - da bi se zabavali in raziskovali svoje fantazije. Nobenega pritiska ni, da bi sodelovali pri \u010dem, kar vam ni prijetno, in soglasje je vedno klju\u010dnega pomena.<\/p>\n<p>V svingerskem klubu se lahko odvijajo razli\u010dne dejavnosti. Nekateri pari se lahko ukvarjajo z intimnimi trenutki drug z drugim, drugi pa se dru\u017eijo z drugimi gosti. Za bolj zasebna sre\u010danja so lahko namenjeni posebni prostori, kot so igralnice ali temni koti\u010dki za bolj diskretne dejavnosti.<\/p>\n<p>Na svingerski zabavi lahko pri\u010dakujete me\u0161anico ekshibicionizma in voajerizma. Nekateri gostje lahko u\u017eivajo v opazovanju drugih pri spolnih dejanjih, medtem ko se drugi morda bolje po\u010dutijo, \u010de pri tem sodelujejo sami. Vzdu\u0161je je navadno spro\u0161\u010deno in brez obsojanja, tako da lahko vsak svobodno izrazi svoje \u017eelje.<\/p>\n<p>Dogajanje v svingerskem klubu ali seks klubu je na koncu odvisno od vas. Ne glede na to, ali ste tam zaradi opazovanja, dru\u017eenja ali raziskovanja lastnih meja, je izku\u0161nja povsem odvisna od vas. Ne pozabite le na odprto komunikacijo s svojim partnerjem in spo\u0161tovanje meja drugih, pa boste v svingerski skupnosti zagotovo pre\u017eiveli nepozaben in prijeten \u010das.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Za veliko ljudi je svingerski klub eden od prvih krajev, kjer dejansko za\u010dnejo izkori\u0161\u010dati spolno svobodo odprtega razmerja. \u0160e ve\u010d, pred prvim obiskom se pogosto pojavijo negotovost in napa\u010dne informacije o tem, kaj svingerski klub pravzaprav je, kaj se v njem dogaja in ali se tja sploh spla\u010da iti.<\/p>\n<p>Edine informacije, ki jih je v zvezi s tem mogo\u010de najti, so pogosto tiste, ki jih ponujajo klubi sami, kar pa se po vsej logiki ne zdi preve\u010d zanesljiv vir po\u0161tenih informacij.<\/p>\n<p>Zato bi vam rad povedal, kaj to\u010dno lahko pri\u010dakujete, na kaj morate biti pozorni in seveda odpravil nekaj splo\u0161nih predsodkov!<\/p>\n<p>In \u0161e kratek zapis za vas: Tu pi\u0161em samo o heteroseksualnih svingerskih klubih.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Uvod: Kaj je svingerski klub?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>Velika ve\u010dina svingerskih klubov ima zelo podobno strukturo. Tam je recepcija, kjer pla\u010date in obi\u010dajno dobite klju\u010d omarice (ki si jo delite v paru). Tam vas bodo tudi vpra\u0161ali, ali ste tam \u017ee bili, in \u010de ne, vam bodo pogosto ponudili voden ogled, kjer si lahko vse ogledate, obi\u010dajno brez pla\u010dila vstopnine.<\/p>\n<p>Nekje je na voljo garderoba za mo\u0161ke in \u017eenske, kjer se lahko preoble\u010dete in pospravite svoje stvari. Tam je tudi bar, kjer lahko obi\u010dajno dobite brezpla\u010dno pija\u010do. To pogosto, vendar ne vedno, vklju\u010duje tudi alkoholne pija\u010de. Poleg tega je obi\u010dajno na voljo tudi samopostre\u017eni bife z bolj ali manj dobro hrano, ki je prav tako vklju\u010dena v ceno.<\/p>\n<p>Poleg tega je klub obi\u010dajno razdeljen na dva dela, in sicer na uradni del in igralni del. V uradnem delu so vse stvari, ki sem jih pravkar na\u0161tel, obi\u010dajno pa je tam tudi plesi\u0161\u010de. Veliko klubov ima za ta formalni del dolo\u010dena pravila obla\u010denja. Ve\u010dinoma pravila pravijo nekaj takega, da so za\u017eelena primerno elegantna ali seksi obla\u010dila in da pozneje ko se ve\u010der za\u010dne, manj pomembno je, da je sploh kaj oble\u010denega. Ve\u010dinoma se lahko sprehajate v spodnjem perilu ali zelo rahlo oble\u010deni, \u0161e preden to storijo vsi drugi, ne da bi vas pri tem kdo motil. V tem formalnem delu obi\u010dajno ne morete pri\u010dakovati ni\u010desar drugega kot ve\u010d golote, kot ste je sicer vajeni. Ob\u010dasno pride do bolj \u017eivahnega bo\u017eanja ali oralnega seksa, vendar se te dejavnosti ve\u010dinoma precej hitro preselijo v igralne prostore.<\/p>\n<p>Igralni prostor je obi\u010dajno ve\u010d prostorov, ki so pokriti s preprogami. Zaradi higiene so pod njimi brisa\u010de, kondomi in rob\u010dki pa so na dosegu roke. Kot ste morda uganili, lahko v teh igralnih prostorih seksate.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Te majhne sobe so obi\u010dajno zelo obiskane, zato vas ne sme razjeziti, \u010de so \"zasedene\" - \u010de malo po\u010dakate, bodo sobe s\u010dasoma spet proste.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Kaj naj pri\u010dakujem?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Najprej: Medtem ima popolnoma vsak svingerski klub jasno pravilo \"Ne pomeni ne\". To pravilo je podkrepljeno z dejstvom, da vsakdo, ki se ga ne dr\u017ei, odleti brez povra\u010dila stro\u0161kov in je iz kluba izklju\u010den.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>\u017de zaradi tega pravila se vam lahko obisk svingerskega kluba zelo spla\u010da. Tu lahko, \u010de tega \u0161e ne po\u010dnete, \u017eivite svojo lastno spolnost v jasno urejenem okviru.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Naslednja to\u010dka: \u010de ste s svojim spremljevalcem na javni zabavi, lahko pri\u010dakujete, da bodo ljudje okoli vas prav tako seksali. Zlasti \u010de so ti ljudje v neposredni fizi\u010dni bli\u017eini, je mogo\u010de, da se bo na neki to\u010dki roka previdno dotaknila nedol\u017enega mesta, kot je rama ali noga.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Lahko se zgodi, da vas, va\u0161ega spremljevalca ali oba skupaj zadenejo. Vendar so ti poskusi zalezovanja obi\u010dajno veliko bolj srame\u017eljivi in tihi kot v obi\u010dajnem okolju no\u010dnega kluba.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>V nasprotnem primeru se vam ni treba bati.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce je temu tako, zakaj se toliko ljudi tako boji svingerskih klubov in klubov za pare? Pravzaprav bi lahko vsakdo \u0161el tja in si skupaj s svojim spremljevalcem ogledal pornografijo v \u017eivo? Da, to\u010dno tako, to lahko storite! Vstop v svingerski klub vas ne zavezuje k spolnim odnosom z drugimi, celo k aktivni spolnosti ne. \u010ce \u017eelite, lahko greste tja tudi samo jesti in\/ali se napiti. (To je mo\u017enost, ki jo lahko priporo\u010dim vsaki \u017eenski. \u017denske v svingerskih klubih obi\u010dajno ne pla\u010dajo skoraj nobene vstopnine, a o tem ve\u010d pozneje).<\/p>\n<p>Da obisk svingerskih klubov kljub temu ni tako raz\u0161irjen, je po mojem mnenju posledica nekaterih predsodkov in napa\u010dnih informacij.<\/p>\n<p>Predsodki: Predsodki: dejstva in miti<br \/>\nPredsodki: Tam so samo stari ljudje<br \/>\nMnogi mladi imajo predsodek, da je swinganje nekaj, s \u010dimer se ukvarja le generacija nad 60 let, in da bodo zato v tak\u0161nih klubih ve\u010dinoma na\u0161li stare gospode, ki jih imajo za \"sve\u017ee meso\". Na kratko: ni tako.<\/p>\n<p>V \u0161tevilnih svingerskih klubih je povpre\u010dna starost obiskovalcev med 35 in 45 let. Izku\u0161nje ka\u017eejo, da je razpon od 18 do 75 let, kar pomeni, da je nekaj ljudi starej\u0161ih. Vendar ne samo. To je odvisno tudi od tega, kak\u0161no ob\u010dinstvo ima klub, obi\u010dajno pa je to mogo\u010de ugotoviti razmeroma enostavno in hitro z majhnim trikom. (Ta trik pojasnjujem v nadaljevanju \u010dlanka).<\/p>\n<p>\u010ce vas misel na starej\u0161e ljudi spravlja v zadrego, so na voljo tudi posebni ve\u010deri za mlade pare, kjer je povpre\u010dna starost manj kot 30 let.<\/p>\n<p>Pozor: Obi\u010dajno so rezervirane ve\u010d mesecev vnaprej. Povpra\u0161evanje po njih je vsekakor veliko, predvsem pri mlaj\u0161ih starostnih skupinah.<\/p>\n<p>Predsodki: Tam so samo \u010davsi<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Dejstvo je: Svingerska scena se prebija skozi (skoraj) VSE dru\u017ebene razrede. Tam boste sre\u010dali ljudi z izobrazbo, ljudi s pisarni\u0161kim delom in ljudi z doktoratom in tako naprej in tako naprej. Tam ne boste sre\u010dali le svojega socialnega okolja, temve\u010d tudi ljudi, s katerimi imate sicer manj opravka. Le \u0161ibkej\u0161ih dru\u017ebenih slojev tu obi\u010dajno ne najdete, ker si preprosto ne morejo privo\u0161\u010diti pla\u010dila vstopnine.<\/p>\n<p>Predsodki: Tam so samo poklicne dame.<br \/>\nTudi to je predsodek, ki ne dr\u017ei. Ne poznam zakona, vendar sem doslej na vsaki doma\u010di strani, pa naj gre za najmanj\u0161i provincialni klub, na\u0161el pravilo, da poklicni spolni delavci o\u010ditno niso dobrodo\u0161li in da je treba takoj prijaviti, \u010de obstaja sum, da je nekdo pri\u0161el zaslu\u017eiti denar.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>Predsodki: Swingerji so poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Izbira kluba: swingers ali klub za pare?<br \/>\nNajprej je treba poudariti, da obstajajo velike razlike med razli\u010dnimi svingerskimi klubi. Nekateri klubi se ne imenujejo svingerski klubi, temve\u010d klubi za pare, ker so vanje sprejeti me\u0161ani spolni pari in ne posamezniki. Natan\u010dno razmerje med vami in va\u0161im spremljevalcem se ne preverja.<\/p>\n<p>Tu lahko za\u010dnete izbirati klub: Kaj \u017eelite? Kaj si upate po\u010deti? In kak\u0161ne so va\u0161e zahteve?<\/p>\n<p>Klub za pare ima to prednost, da v njem ni samskih mo\u0161kih. Medtem ko tradicionalne svingerske klube ve\u010dinoma financirajo solo mo\u0161ki, klubi za pare, kot pove \u017ee ime, v svoje prostore spu\u0161\u010dajo le pare. To pomeni, da je za vsako damo in vsakega gospoda, ki sta tam, tudi sogovornik, zato ni neenakega razmerja med spoloma. Zlasti \u010de ste \u0161e vedno nekoliko negotovi, lahko za za\u010detek izberete klub za pare. Veliko parov tam je prav tako novih na svingerski sceni in zato precej negotovih. Zato se jih v povpre\u010dju zgodi manj, saj si mnogi (\u0161e) ne upajo biti \u017ealjivi.<\/p>\n<p>Dolgo sem imela predsodke do svingerskih klubov, ki omogo\u010dajo tudi solo mo\u0161ke, vendar so me nau\u010dili bolje.<\/p>\n<p>Prva o\u010ditna prednost svingerskih klubov je, da so veliko cenej\u0161i. Pari pla\u010dajo manj, samostojne dame pa obi\u010dajno ne pla\u010dajo skoraj ni\u010d. Samski mo\u0161ki pla\u010dajo veliko ve\u010d in na vratih je stro\u017eja selekcija.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Druga prednost je, da imate ve\u010djo izbiro. Klubi za pare niso tako pogosti kot svingerski klubi. Vsekakor ste lahko ne glede na to, v katerem nem\u0161kem gnezdu ali urokatoli\u0161ki regiji \u017eivite, relativno prepri\u010dani, da je nekje na dosegu roke svingerski klub, kar pa ne velja za klube za pare.<\/p>\n<p>Zadnja prednost je, naj se sli\u0161i \u0161e tako absurdno: solo mo\u0161ki.<\/p>\n<p>Za razliko od kluba parov so tu tudi samostojni gospodje, ki imajo pove\u010dan interes za spoznavanje drugih in so dejavni. To lahko povzro\u010di nelagodje med vami in va\u0161im spremljevalcem, \u010de ste neizku\u0161eni ali \u010de v va\u0161em odnosu igra vlogo ljubosumje. Osebno sem se nau\u010dil ceniti to vzdu\u0161je. \u010ceprav me solisti\u010dni gospodje z ustreznimi spremljevalci niso nikoli zanimali, ustvarijo vzdu\u0161je, v katerem je ve\u010d odprtosti in flirtanja - in se zato ve\u010d dogaja kot v klubih za pare. Vsekakor je to odvisno tudi od natan\u010dne izbire kluba.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Najbolj\u0161i nasvet za konkretno odlo\u010ditev za klub je predvsem doma\u010da stran in opis samega dogodka. Veliko svingerskih klubov ima \"ve\u010der za pare\", mnogi pa imajo tudi razli\u010dne druge tematske ve\u010dere. \u010ce torej \u017eelite obiskati svingerski klub s svojim spremljevalcem kot radoveden par, verjetno raje izberite tak\u0161en ve\u010der za pare kot pa \"hardcore XXL mo\u0161ke prese\u017eni\u0161ke zabave\", ki prav tako potekajo tam. Razen \u010de si to seveda \u017eelite.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Zavedajte se, da vedno obstajajo prednosti in slabosti! V majhnih dru\u017einskih klubih je la\u017eje navezati stike, v velikih klubih pa lahko v miru za\u010dutite svoje meje. V poceni klubih pogosto vlada prijetna prisr\u010dnost, v dragih klubih so ljudje pogosto videti lep\u0161i in tako naprej in tako naprej.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Kako lahko tam koga spoznam?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Morda vse to \u017ee veste, \u010de ste \u017ee kdaj obiskali kak\u0161en klub, lahko pa se tega nau\u010dite, \u010de ga obi\u0161\u010dete z odprtimi o\u010dmi. se tega nau\u010dite, \u010de ga obi\u0161\u010dete z odprtimi o\u010dmi. Vendar imam za vas nekaj dodatnih nasvetov, ki vam lahko pomagajo tudi, \u010de ste klub \u017ee obiskali ali \u010de vse to za vas ni ni\u010d novega.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Po\u010dasen na\u010din za ljudi, ki ne \u017eelijo zavrnitve<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Hitri na\u010din, ko je potrpljenja manj<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Zelo hiter na\u010din, \u010de natan\u010dno veste, kaj \u017eelite.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Tam se za\u010dnite skupaj zabavati ali pa se ulezite v bli\u017eino para, ki vas zanima, in se za\u010dnite zabavati. Obi\u010dajno bo trajalo najve\u010d nekaj minut, preden se bodo prve roke sprehodile \u010dez ali bo pri\u0161lo do kakr\u0161negakoli drugega stika. Vse skupaj poteka skoraj samodejno, brez kak\u0161nega ve\u010djega pogovora ali truda.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Ta nasvet je namenjen predvsem parom, ki so pomirjeni sami s seboj. Tega nasveta naj po mo\u017enosti ne uporabljajo solo mo\u0161ki, saj tam prej vodi do zgoraj omenjenega pojava \"marginalnega wankerja\" in je najmanj parom resni\u010dno privla\u010den.<\/p>\n<p>Skrivni nasvet: Flirtajte!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>\u010ce torej v takem klubu normalno flirtate in se trudite, kot bi se v naravi, \u017ee precej izstopate iz povpre\u010dja. Bodite o\u010darljivi. Ne bojte se. Flirtajte z drugimi, vzpostavite telesni stik, ple\u0161ite. Govorite o tem, kako sme\u0161no se vam zdi biti tukaj in kako se po\u010dutite ali da ste bili stra\u0161no \u017eiv\u010dni, ko ste se pripeljali sem. S temi stvarmi, ki so pri vsakdanjem flirtanju samoumevne, imate najve\u010d mo\u017enosti, da nekaj naredite prav s parom, s katerim si \u017eelite biti spolno aktivni. Morate le za trenutek pozabiti na ta skriti motiv, ki ga imajo vsi: \"Bova kasneje seksala?\", in se spomniti, koga imate pred seboj: ljudi z obi\u010dajnimi strahovi in negotovostjo, ki se radi zabavajo in so radi romanti\u010dni ter radi, da jih imate.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ko prvi\u010d vstopite v svingerski klub, boste morda ob\u010dutili me\u0161anico vznemirjenja in nervoze. Vendar bodite prepri\u010dani, da se ni treba ni\u010desar bati. Svingerski klubi so prijazni prostori, kjer lahko podobno misle\u010di posamezniki raziskujejo svojo spolnost v varnem in sporazumnem okolju. 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