{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sv\/vad-som-egentligen-hander-pa-en-swingersklubb\/","title":{"rendered":"Vad h\u00e4nder p\u00e5 en swingersklubb?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Inneh\u00e5llsf\u00f6rteckning<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c24309b12\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c24309b12\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sv\/vad-som-egentligen-hander-pa-en-swingersklubb\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Inledning: Vad \u00e4r en swingersklubb?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sv\/vad-som-egentligen-hander-pa-en-swingersklubb\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Vad kan jag f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta mig?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sv\/vad-som-egentligen-hander-pa-en-swingersklubb\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Annars har du absolut ingenting att frukta.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/sv\/vad-som-egentligen-hander-pa-en-swingersklubb\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Hur tr\u00e4ffar jag n\u00e5gon d\u00e4r?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>N\u00e4r du f\u00f6rst g\u00e5r in p\u00e5 en swingersklubb kan du k\u00e4nna en blandning av sp\u00e4nning och nervositet. Men var s\u00e5 s\u00e4ker, det finns inget att vara r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r. Swingerklubbar \u00e4r v\u00e4lkomnande platser d\u00e4r likasinnade individer kan utforska sin sexualitet i en s\u00e4ker och samtyckande milj\u00f6.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e5 en swingersklubb kan du f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta dig att se en varierad grupp m\u00e4nniskor i alla \u00e5ldrar, former och storlekar. Alla \u00e4r d\u00e4r av samma anledning - f\u00f6r att ha trevligt och utforska sina fantasier. Det finns ingen press att delta i n\u00e5got som du inte \u00e4r bekv\u00e4m med, och samtycke \u00e4r alltid nyckeln.<\/p>\n<p>Inne p\u00e5 en swingersklubb kan du bevittna en m\u00e4ngd olika aktiviteter som \u00e4ger rum. Vissa par kanske \u00e4gnar sig \u00e5t intima stunder med varandra, medan andra kanske minglar och umg\u00e5s med andra g\u00e4ster. Det kan finnas s\u00e4rskilda omr\u00e5den f\u00f6r mer privata m\u00f6ten, till exempel lekrum eller m\u00f6rka h\u00f6rn f\u00f6r mer diskreta aktiviteter.<\/p>\n<p>Under en swingersfest kan du f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta dig att se en blandning av exhibitionism och voyeurism. Vissa g\u00e4ster kanske tycker om att se andra delta i sexuella handlingar, medan andra kanske \u00e4r mer bekv\u00e4ma med att delta sj\u00e4lva. Atmosf\u00e4ren \u00e4r vanligtvis avslappnad och icke-d\u00f6mande, s\u00e5 att alla kan k\u00e4nna sig fria att uttrycka sina \u00f6nskningar.<\/p>\n<p>Vad som h\u00e4nder p\u00e5 en swingersklubb eller sexklubb \u00e4r i slut\u00e4ndan upp till dig. Oavsett om du \u00e4r d\u00e4r f\u00f6r att observera, umg\u00e5s eller utforska dina egna gr\u00e4nser \u00e4r upplevelsen helt och h\u00e5llet vad du g\u00f6r den till. Kom bara ih\u00e5g att kommunicera \u00f6ppet med din partner och respektera andras gr\u00e4nser, s\u00e5 kommer du s\u00e4kert att ha en minnesv\u00e4rd och trevlig tid i swinginggemenskapen.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>F\u00f6r m\u00e5nga m\u00e4nniskor \u00e4r swingersklubben en av de f\u00f6rsta platserna d\u00e4r de faktiskt b\u00f6rjar anv\u00e4nda den sexuella friheten i ett \u00f6ppet f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande. Desto mer, f\u00f6re det f\u00f6rsta bes\u00f6ket finns det ofta os\u00e4kerhet och felaktig information om vad en swingersklubb faktiskt \u00e4r, vad som h\u00e4nder d\u00e4r och om det \u00e4r v\u00e4rt att g\u00e5 dit alls.<\/p>\n<p>Den enda information som finns i detta avseende \u00e4r ofta den som erbjuds av klubbarna sj\u00e4lva, och det verkar inte vara en s\u00e4rskilt tillf\u00f6rlitlig k\u00e4lla till \u00e4rlig information.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e4rf\u00f6r vill jag h\u00e4r ber\u00e4tta exakt vad du kan f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta dig, vad du kan h\u00e5lla utkik efter och naturligtvis reda ut n\u00e5gra vanliga f\u00f6rdomar!<\/p>\n<p>Och en kort anteckning f\u00f6r dig: Jag skriver bara om heterosexuella swingersklubbar h\u00e4r.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Inledning: Vad \u00e4r en swingersklubb?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>De allra flesta swingersklubbar \u00e4r uppbyggda p\u00e5 ett mycket liknande s\u00e4tt. Det finns en reception d\u00e4r man betalar och vanligtvis f\u00e5r en nyckel till ett sk\u00e5p (som man delar som par). D\u00e4r f\u00e5r man ocks\u00e5 fr\u00e5gan om man har varit d\u00e4r tidigare och om inte s\u00e5 erbjuds man ofta en guidad tur d\u00e4r man f\u00e5r titta p\u00e5 allt, oftast utan att betala intr\u00e4de.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e5gonstans finns det ett unisex-omkl\u00e4dningsrum d\u00e4r du kan byta om och f\u00f6rvara dina saker. Det finns en bar d\u00e4r du vanligtvis kan f\u00e5 gratis drycker. Detta inkluderar ofta men inte alltid alkoholhaltiga drycker. Dessutom finns det vanligtvis en buff\u00e9 med mer eller mindre god mat, som ocks\u00e5 ing\u00e5r i priset.<\/p>\n<p>Dessutom \u00e4r klubben vanligtvis uppdelad i tv\u00e5 omr\u00e5den, en formell del och en lekdel. I den formella delen finns alla de saker som jag just listade, vanligtvis finns det ocks\u00e5 ett dansgolv. M\u00e5nga klubbar har en kl\u00e4dkod f\u00f6r den h\u00e4r formella delen. F\u00f6r det mesta s\u00e4ger reglerna n\u00e5got i stil med att lagom eleganta eller sexiga kl\u00e4der \u00e4r \u00f6nskv\u00e4rda och ju senare kv\u00e4llen blir, desto mindre viktigt \u00e4r det att ha p\u00e5 sig n\u00e5got alls. F\u00f6r det mesta f\u00e5r man g\u00e5 runt i underkl\u00e4der, eller extremt l\u00e4ttkl\u00e4dd, innan alla andra g\u00f6r det, utan att bli st\u00f6rd. I den h\u00e4r formella delen har du oftast inte mer att f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta dig \u00e4n mer nakenhet \u00e4n du kanske annars \u00e4r van vid. Ibland f\u00f6rekommer lite mer kraftfull petting eller oralsex, men f\u00f6r det mesta flyttas denna aktivitet till lekplatserna ganska snabbt.<\/p>\n<p>Lekplatsen best\u00e5r oftast av flera rum som \u00e4r t\u00e4ckta med mattor. Det finns handdukar att l\u00e4gga under av hygieniska sk\u00e4l och kondomer och v\u00e5tservetter inom r\u00e4ckh\u00e5ll. I dessa lekutrymmen kan man, som du kanske har gissat, ha sex.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Dessa sm\u00e5 rum \u00e4r vanligtvis v\u00e4lbes\u00f6kta och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r ska du inte bli irriterad om de \u00e4r \"upptagna\" - om du v\u00e4ntar lite kommer rummen s\u00e5 sm\u00e5ningom att bli lediga igen.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Vad kan jag f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta mig?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>F\u00f6rst och fr\u00e4mst..: Under tiden har absolut varje swingersklubb en tydlig \"Nej betyder nej\" -regel. Denna regel st\u00f6ds av det faktum att alla som inte f\u00f6ljer den flyger ut utan \u00e5terbetalning och \u00e4r avst\u00e4ngda fr\u00e5n klubben.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Bara denna regel kan g\u00f6ra ett bes\u00f6k p\u00e5 en swingersklubb mycket v\u00e4rdefullt f\u00f6r dig. H\u00e4r kan du, om du inte redan g\u00f6r det, leva ut din sj\u00e4lvbest\u00e4mda sexualitet inom ett tydligt reglerat ramverk.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Till n\u00e4sta punkt: Om du \u00e4r p\u00e5 en offentlig lek med din f\u00f6ljeslagare kan du f\u00f6rv\u00e4nta dig att m\u00e4nniskor runt omkring dig ocks\u00e5 kommer att ha sex. S\u00e4rskilt om dessa m\u00e4nniskor befinner sig i n\u00e4ra fysisk n\u00e4rhet \u00e4r det m\u00f6jligt att en hand vid n\u00e5gon tidpunkt f\u00f6rsiktigt kommer att tatuera \u00f6ver och f\u00f6rst r\u00f6ra vid en oskyldig plats som en axel eller ett ben.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Det kan h\u00e4nda att du eller din f\u00f6ljeslagare eller ni b\u00e5da blir raggade p\u00e5 tillsammans. Dessa raggningsf\u00f6rs\u00f6k \u00e4r dock vanligtvis mycket mer blyga och tysta \u00e4n i den vanliga nattklubbsmilj\u00f6n.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Annars har du absolut ingenting att frukta.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Om s\u00e5 \u00e4r fallet, varf\u00f6r \u00e4r d\u00e5 s\u00e5 m\u00e5nga m\u00e4nniskor s\u00e5 r\u00e4dda f\u00f6r swingersklubbar och parklubbar? Egentligen kan vem som helst g\u00e5 dit och titta p\u00e5 liveporr tillsammans med sin f\u00f6ljeslagare? Ja, exakt, det kan du g\u00f6ra! Att g\u00e5 in p\u00e5 en swingersklubb tvingar dig inte att ha sex med andra, inte ens till aktiv sexualitet \u00f6verhuvudtaget. Du kan ocks\u00e5 g\u00e5 dit bara f\u00f6r att \u00e4ta och\/eller bli full om du vill. (Ett alternativ som jag kan rekommendera till alla kvinnor. Kvinnor betalar vanligtvis n\u00e4stan ingen intr\u00e4desavgift p\u00e5 swingersklubbar, men mer om det senare).<\/p>\n<p>Att bes\u00f6ket p\u00e5 swingersklubbar \u00e4nd\u00e5 inte \u00e4r s\u00e5 utbrett beror enligt min mening p\u00e5 en del f\u00f6rdomar och felaktig information.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6rdomar: Fakta och myter<br \/>\nF\u00f6rdomar: Det finns bara gamla m\u00e4nniskor d\u00e4r<br \/>\nM\u00e5nga unga m\u00e4nniskor har f\u00f6rdomen att swinging \u00e4r n\u00e5got som bara 60+-generationen sysslar med och att de d\u00e4rf\u00f6r mest skulle hitta gamla herrar p\u00e5 s\u00e5dana klubbar som betraktar dem som \"f\u00e4rskt k\u00f6tt\". F\u00f6r att g\u00f6ra det kort: S\u00e5 \u00e4r inte fallet.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e5nga swingersklubbar har en publik vars medel\u00e5lder ligger mellan 35 och 45 \u00e5r. Erfarenheten visar att intervallet g\u00e5r fr\u00e5n 18 till 75, vilket inneb\u00e4r att ja, det finns n\u00e5gra m\u00e4nniskor som \u00e4r \u00e4ldre. Men inte bara. Det beror ocks\u00e5 p\u00e5 vilken publik klubben har, oftast kan man ta reda p\u00e5 detta relativt enkelt och snabbt med ett litet trick. (Jag f\u00f6rklarar detta trick l\u00e4ngre ner i artikeln).<\/p>\n<p>Om tanken p\u00e5 \u00e4ldre m\u00e4nniskor g\u00f6r dig v\u00e4ldigt illa till mods finns det ocks\u00e5 speciella n\u00e4tter f\u00f6r unga par d\u00e4r medel\u00e5ldern \u00e4r under 30 \u00e5r.<\/p>\n<p>Se upp: Dessa \u00e4r vanligtvis uppbokade m\u00e5nader i f\u00f6rv\u00e4g. Det finns definitivt en h\u00f6g efterfr\u00e5gan, i det yngre \u00e5ldersintervallet.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6rdomar: Det finns bara chavs d\u00e4r<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Fakta \u00e4r: Swingscenen \u00e4r ett snitt genom (n\u00e4stan) ALLA samh\u00e4llsklasser. D\u00e4r m\u00f6ter du m\u00e4nniskor som har en utbildning, m\u00e4nniskor med kontorsjobb och m\u00e4nniskor med doktorsexamen och s\u00e5 vidare och s\u00e5 vidare. D\u00e4r m\u00f6ter du inte bara din egen sociala milj\u00f6, utan ocks\u00e5 de m\u00e4nniskor som du annars har mindre att g\u00f6ra med. Det \u00e4r bara de svagare samh\u00e4llsklasserna som vanligtvis inte finns h\u00e4r, eftersom de helt enkelt inte har r\u00e5d att betala intr\u00e4desavgiften.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6rdomar: Det finns bara professionella damer d\u00e4r<br \/>\nDetta \u00e4r ocks\u00e5 en f\u00f6rdom, som inte \u00e4r sann. Jag k\u00e4nner inte till lagen, men hittills har jag p\u00e5 alla hemsidor, \u00e4ven p\u00e5 den minsta provinsklubbens, funnit en regel om att professionella sexarbetare helt klart inte \u00e4r v\u00e4lkomna och att det omedelbart ska rapporteras om det finns en misstanke om att n\u00e5gon \u00e4r h\u00e4r f\u00f6r att tj\u00e4na pengar.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6rdomar: Swingers \u00e4r poly<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Val av klubb: swingers- eller parklubb?<br \/>\nF\u00f6rst och fr\u00e4mst b\u00f6r det noteras att det finns stora skillnader mellan olika swingersklubbar. Vissa klubbar kallas inte swingers-klubbar utan parklubbar, eftersom par av blandat k\u00f6n sl\u00e4pps in d\u00e4r och inte individer. Det exakta f\u00f6rh\u00e5llandet mellan dig och din f\u00f6ljeslagare kontrolleras inte.<\/p>\n<p>Och det \u00e4r h\u00e4r du kan b\u00f6rja v\u00e4lja klubb: Vad \u00e4r det du vill? Vad v\u00e5gar du g\u00f6ra? Och vilka \u00e4r dina krav?<\/p>\n<p>En parklubb har f\u00f6rdelen att det inte finns n\u00e5gra solom\u00e4n d\u00e4r. Medan traditionella swingersklubbar huvudsakligen finansieras av ensamma m\u00e4n, sl\u00e4pper parklubbar, som namnet antyder, bara in par. Det betyder att f\u00f6r varje dam och herre som \u00e4r d\u00e4r finns det ocks\u00e5 en motpart och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r finns det inga oj\u00e4mlika k\u00f6nsf\u00f6rh\u00e5llanden. Speciellt om du fortfarande \u00e4r lite os\u00e4ker kan du v\u00e4lja en parklubb som en start. M\u00e5nga av paren d\u00e4r \u00e4r ocks\u00e5 nya p\u00e5 swinger-scenen och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r ganska os\u00e4kra. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r h\u00e4nder det i genomsnitt mindre, eftersom m\u00e5nga inte (\u00e4nnu) v\u00e5gar vara st\u00f6tande.<\/p>\n<p>Jag hade l\u00e4nge f\u00f6rdomar mot swingersklubbar som ocks\u00e5 till\u00e5ter solom\u00e4n, men jag fick l\u00e4ra mig b\u00e4ttre.<\/p>\n<p>Den f\u00f6rsta uppenbara f\u00f6rdelen med swingersklubbar \u00e4r: de \u00e4r mycket billigare. Par betalar mindre och solodamer betalar vanligtvis n\u00e4stan ingenting. Ensamma m\u00e4n betalar mycket mer och det finns ett str\u00e4ngare urval vid d\u00f6rren.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>Den andra f\u00f6rdelen \u00e4r att du har fler valm\u00f6jligheter. Parklubbar \u00e4r inte lika vanliga som swingersklubbar. Hur som helst, oavsett i vilket bo eller vilken urkatolsk region i Tyskland du bor, kan du vara relativt s\u00e4ker p\u00e5 att det n\u00e5gonstans finns en swingersklubb inom acceptabelt r\u00e4ckh\u00e5ll - inte lika s\u00e4ker p\u00e5 att detsamma g\u00e4ller f\u00f6r en parklubb.<\/p>\n<p>Den sista f\u00f6rdelen \u00e4r, hur absurt det \u00e4n kan l\u00e5ta: solom\u00e4n.<\/p>\n<p>Till skillnad fr\u00e5n parklubben finns det solo-herrar som har ett \u00f6kat intresse av att l\u00e4ra k\u00e4nna andra och \u00e4r aktiva. Detta kan g\u00f6ra dig och din partner obekv\u00e4ma om ni \u00e4r oerfarna eller om svartsjuka spelar en roll i ert f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande. Personligen har jag l\u00e4rt mig att uppskatta den h\u00e4r atmosf\u00e4ren. \u00c4ven om jag aldrig var intresserad av solo-herrarna med mina respektive eskorter, s\u00e5 skapar de en atmosf\u00e4r d\u00e4r det \u00e4r mer \u00f6ppet och mer flirtande - och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r h\u00e4nder det mer \u00e4n p\u00e5 en parklubb. Det beror naturligtvis ocks\u00e5 p\u00e5 det exakta valet av klubb.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Det b\u00e4sta tipset f\u00f6r att fatta ett konkret beslut om en klubb \u00e4r i f\u00f6rsta hand hemsidan och beskrivningen av sj\u00e4lva evenemanget. M\u00e5nga swingers-klubbar har en \"par-kv\u00e4ll\" och m\u00e5nga har ocks\u00e5 olika andra temakv\u00e4llar. S\u00e5 om du vill bes\u00f6ka en swingersklubb med din f\u00f6ljeslagare som ett nyfiket par, b\u00f6r du f\u00f6rmodligen v\u00e4lja en s\u00e5dan parkv\u00e4ll snarare \u00e4n de \"hardcore XXL-\u00f6verskottsfester f\u00f6r m\u00e4n\" som ocks\u00e5 \u00e4ger rum d\u00e4r. Om du inte vill det f\u00f6rst\u00e5s.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e4nk p\u00e5 att det alltid finns f\u00f6r- och nackdelar! Sm\u00e5 familjeklubbar g\u00f6r det l\u00e4ttare att f\u00e5 kontakt, stora klubbar l\u00e5ter dig k\u00e4nna dina egna gr\u00e4nser i lugn och ro. Billiga klubbar har ofta en trevlig hj\u00e4rtlighet, i dyra klubbar ser folk ofta snyggare ut och s\u00e5 vidare och s\u00e5 vidare.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Hur tr\u00e4ffar jag n\u00e5gon d\u00e4r?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du kanske redan vet alla dessa saker om du har bes\u00f6kt en klubb tidigare, eller s\u00e5 kan du l\u00e4ra dig dem genom att bes\u00f6ka en med ett \u00f6ppet sinne. l\u00e4ra dig dem genom att bes\u00f6ka en med ett \u00f6ppet sinne. Jag har dock n\u00e5gra extra tips till dig som kan hj\u00e4lpa dig \u00e4ven om du har bes\u00f6kt en klubb tidigare, eller om allt detta inte \u00e4r n\u00e5got nytt f\u00f6r dig.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Den l\u00e5ngsamma v\u00e4gen f\u00f6r m\u00e4nniskor som inte vill bli avvisade<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Det snabba s\u00e4ttet n\u00e4r t\u00e5lamodet tryter<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Det supersnabba s\u00e4ttet, om du vet exakt vad du vill ha.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6rja bara ha kul tillsammans d\u00e4r, eller l\u00e4gg dig i n\u00e4rheten av ett par som intresserar dig och b\u00f6rja ha kul. Det brukar ta h\u00f6gst n\u00e5gra minuter innan de f\u00f6rsta h\u00e4nderna vandrar \u00f6ver eller kontakt tas p\u00e5 n\u00e5got annat s\u00e4tt. Det hela g\u00e5r n\u00e4stan automatiskt, utan n\u00e5got st\u00f6rre prat eller anstr\u00e4ngning.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Detta tips \u00e4r fr\u00e4mst till f\u00f6r par som \u00e4r tillfreds med sig sj\u00e4lva. Detta tips ska helst inte anv\u00e4ndas av ensamst\u00e5ende m\u00e4n, f\u00f6r d\u00e4r leder det snarare till det ovan n\u00e4mnda fenomenet \"marginal wanker\", och det \u00e4r f\u00e5 par som verkligen tycker att det \u00e4r attraktivt.<\/p>\n<p>Hemligt tips: Fl\u00f6rta!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 om du bara flirtar normalt p\u00e5 en s\u00e5dan klubb och anstr\u00e4nger dig, precis som du skulle g\u00f6ra i naturen, sticker du redan ut avsev\u00e4rt fr\u00e5n genomsnittet. Var charmig. Var inte r\u00e4dd. Fl\u00f6rta med andra, ta fysisk kontakt, dansa. Prata om hur roligt du tycker att det \u00e4r att vara h\u00e4r och hur du k\u00e4nner dig eller att du var fruktansv\u00e4rt nerv\u00f6s n\u00e4r du k\u00f6rde hit. Genom att g\u00f6ra dessa saker, som tas f\u00f6r givet i vardagsflirt, har du den b\u00e4sta chansen att g\u00f6ra n\u00e5got med just det par du vill vara sexuellt aktiv med. Du m\u00e5ste bara gl\u00f6mma den h\u00e4r baktanken som alla har, \"Ska vi ha sex senare?\" f\u00f6r ett \u00f6gonblick och komma ih\u00e5g vilka du har framf\u00f6r dig: m\u00e4nniskor med normala r\u00e4dslor och os\u00e4kerheter som gillar att ha kul och gillar att bli romantiserade och gillade att bli tagna.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e4r du f\u00f6rst g\u00e5r in p\u00e5 en swingersklubb kan du k\u00e4nna en blandning av sp\u00e4nning och nervositet. Men var s\u00e5 s\u00e4ker, det finns inget att vara r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r. Swingerklubbar \u00e4r v\u00e4lkomnande platser d\u00e4r likasinnade individer kan utforska sin sexualitet i en s\u00e4ker och samtyckande milj\u00f6. 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