{"id":30,"date":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T06:16:24","slug":"what-actually-happens-in-a-swinger-club","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde ne olur?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1da9a024\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Ge\u00e7i\u015f<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c1da9a024\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/#Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\" >Giri\u015f: E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fc nedir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/#What_should_I_expect\" >Ne beklemeliyim?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/#Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\" >Aksi takdirde, kesinlikle korkacak bir \u015feyiniz yok.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/#How_do_I_meet_someone_there\" >Orada biriyle nas\u0131l tan\u0131\u015fabilirim?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fcne ilk girdi\u011finizde, heyecan ve gerginli\u011fin bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak emin olun, korkacak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok. Swingers kul\u00fcpleri, benzer d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bireylerin cinselliklerini g\u00fcvenli ve r\u0131zaya dayal\u0131 bir ortamda ke\u015ffedebilecekleri s\u0131cak alanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde, her ya\u015ftan, \u015fekilden ve boyuttan \u00e7e\u015fitli bir grup insan g\u00f6rmeyi bekleyebilirsiniz. Herkes ayn\u0131 nedenle oradad\u0131r - iyi vakit ge\u00e7irmek ve fantezilerini ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in. Rahat olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hi\u00e7bir \u015feye kat\u0131lman\u0131z i\u00e7in bask\u0131 yoktur ve r\u0131za her zaman anahtard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7inde, \u00e7e\u015fitli etkinliklerin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fine tan\u0131k olabilirsiniz. Baz\u0131 \u00e7iftler birbirleriyle samimi anlar ya\u015farken, di\u011ferleri di\u011fer konuklarla kayna\u015f\u0131yor ve sosyalle\u015fiyor olabilir. Daha gizli faaliyetler i\u00e7in oyun odalar\u0131 veya karanl\u0131k k\u00f6\u015feler gibi daha \u00f6zel kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar i\u00e7in belirlenmi\u015f alanlar olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme partisi s\u0131ras\u0131nda, te\u015fhircilik ve r\u00f6ntgencili\u011fin bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi bekleyebilirsiniz. Baz\u0131 konuklar ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n cinsel eylemlerde bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 izlemekten zevk al\u0131rken, di\u011ferleri kendileri kat\u0131l\u0131rken daha rahat olabilirler. Atmosfer genellikle rahatt\u0131r ve yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir, herkesin arzular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmekte \u00f6zg\u00fcr hissetmesine izin verir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde veya seks kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde ne olaca\u011f\u0131 nihayetinde size ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ster g\u00f6zlemlemek, ister sosyalle\u015fmek veya kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in orada olun, deneyim tamamen sizin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feydir. Partnerinizle a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermeyi unutmay\u0131n; sallanan toplulukta unutulmaz ve keyifli bir zaman ge\u00e7irece\u011finizden emin olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fc, a\u00e7\u0131k bir ili\u015fkinin cinsel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten kullanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131 ilk yerlerden biridir. Dahas\u0131, ilk ziyaretten \u00f6nce, bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekte ne oldu\u011fu, orada ne oldu\u011fu ve oraya gitmeye de\u011fip de\u011fmeyece\u011fi konusunda genellikle belirsizlik ve yanl\u0131\u015f bilgi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu konuda bulunabilecek tek bilgi genellikle kul\u00fcplerin kendileri taraf\u0131ndan sunulan bilgilerdir ve bu da t\u00fcm mant\u0131k \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde \u00e7ok g\u00fcvenilir bir d\u00fcr\u00fcst bilgi kayna\u011f\u0131 gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmemektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle, burada size tam olarak ne bekleyebilece\u011finizi, nelere dikkat edebilece\u011finizi anlatmak ve elbette baz\u0131 yayg\u0131n \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131 gidermek istiyorum!<\/p>\n<p>Ve sizin i\u00e7in k\u0131sa bir not: Burada sadece heteroseks\u00fcel e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcpleri hakk\u0131nda yaz\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduction_What_is_a_swingers_club\"><\/span>Giri\u015f: E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fc nedir?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, a swingers club is a place where people meet who are interested in partner swapping or even just voyeuristic or exhibitionistic behavior. Not everyone who goes to a swingers club wants to have sex with people other than their partner. And not everyone has the same ideas about what is okay and what is not. You have to make these rules for yourself and, if necessary, in agreement with your companion, and they are supported by the fact that a clear no is binding in any case and is protected by the club&#8217;s house rules. Who does not keep to a clear no will be kicked out. This rule can be found in absolutely every club, and usually it is explicitly stated somewhere on the homepage.<\/p>\n<p>E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcplerinin b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu \u00e7ok benzer \u015fekilde yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6deme yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve genellikle bir dolap anahtar\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z (\u00e7ift olarak payla\u015f\u0131lan) bir resepsiyon vard\u0131r. Orada size daha \u00f6nce orada bulunup bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da sorulacakt\u0131r ve e\u011fer bulunmad\u0131ysan\u0131z, genellikle giri\u015f \u00fccretini \u00f6demeden her \u015feye g\u00f6z atabilece\u011finiz rehberli bir tur teklif edilecektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir yerde e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011finiz ve saklayabilece\u011finiz unisex bir soyunma odas\u0131 vard\u0131r. Genellikle \u00fccretsiz i\u00e7ecek alabilece\u011finiz bir bar vard\u0131r. Buna her zaman olmasa da genellikle alkoll\u00fc i\u00e7ecekler de dahildir. Buna ek olarak, genellikle fiyata dahil olan az ya da \u00e7ok iyi yiyecekler i\u00e7eren bir b\u00fcfe vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131ca, kul\u00fcp genellikle resmi b\u00f6l\u00fcm ve oyun alan\u0131 olmak \u00fczere iki b\u00f6l\u00fcme ayr\u0131l\u0131r. Resmi b\u00f6l\u00fcmde az \u00f6nce listeledi\u011fim her \u015fey vard\u0131r, genellikle bir dans pisti de vard\u0131r. Bir\u00e7ok kul\u00fcb\u00fcn bu resmi alan i\u00e7in bir k\u0131yafet kural\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman kurallar, makul derecede \u015f\u0131k veya seksi k\u0131yafetlerin istendi\u011fi ve ak\u015fam ilerledik\u00e7e herhangi bir \u015fey giymenin o kadar az \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu gibi bir \u015fey s\u00f6yler. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman herkesten \u00f6nce i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131yla ya da son derece hafif k\u0131yafetlerle rahats\u0131z edilmeden dola\u015fman\u0131za izin verilir. Bu resmi b\u00f6l\u00fcmde, genellikle al\u0131\u015fk\u0131n oldu\u011funuzdan daha fazla \u00e7\u0131plakl\u0131ktan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey beklemezsiniz. Bazen daha \u015fiddetli sevi\u015fme veya oral seks ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir, ancak \u00e7o\u011funlukla bu aktivite olduk\u00e7a h\u0131zl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde oyun alanlar\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Oyun alan\u0131 genellikle paspaslarla kapl\u0131 birka\u00e7 odadan olu\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Hijyenik nedenlerden dolay\u0131 alt\u0131na koymak i\u00e7in havlular ve ula\u015f\u0131labilecek prezervatifler ve mendiller vard\u0131r. Bu oyun alanlar\u0131nda, tahmin edebilece\u011finiz gibi, seks yapabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas usually have different &#8220;themes&#8221;. There are smaller and larger play areas and often also areas in which two or four people can withdraw and make the room &#8220;closed&#8221;, so that no one else comes in. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that no one else is watching &#8211; you have to expect that.<\/p>\n<p>Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck odalar genellikle \u00e7ok s\u0131k kullan\u0131l\u0131r ve bu nedenle \"dolu\" olmalar\u0131 sizi rahats\u0131z etmemelidir - biraz beklerseniz, odalar eninde sonunda tekrar bo\u015f hale gelecektir.<\/p>\n<p>The play areas are comfortable for about 8 to 20 people and there is often a voyeuristic element, i.e. even when the play area is &#8220;full&#8221; there are usually still places to watch from. It&#8217;s not surprising that something usually happens in these crowds and sometimes, ironically, more happens there than on the playgrounds themselves.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_expect\"><\/span>Ne beklemeliyim?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce: Bu arada, kesinlikle her e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn a\u00e7\u0131k bir \"Hay\u0131r, hay\u0131r demektir\" kural\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu kural, kurala uymayanlar\u0131n para iadesi yap\u0131lmadan kul\u00fcpten at\u0131lmas\u0131 ve kul\u00fcpten men edilmesiyle desteklenir.<\/p>\n<p>This rule can be a bit confusing at first, because it forces you to behave differently than you would elsewhere. On the one hand, you have to have the courage to actually say no if you don&#8217;t want something. A no can be verbal or it can simply mean that you put away the hand that you suddenly feel somewhere on you. On the other hand, it also gives you security. If you change your mind after a no and you still feel like it, you can cancel your no by communicating clearly again.<\/p>\n<p>Tek ba\u015f\u0131na bu kural bile bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fc ziyaret etmeyi sizin i\u00e7in \u00e7ok de\u011ferli k\u0131labilir. Burada, e\u011fer hen\u00fcz yapm\u0131yorsan\u0131z, a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a d\u00fczenlenmi\u015f bir \u00e7er\u00e7eve i\u00e7inde kendi belirledi\u011finiz cinselli\u011finizi ya\u015fayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, you have to expect that you will see other people having sex. And you must expect to hear and smell these people. Even if you personally do not find these people aesthetically pleasing and normally would not like to look at them naked. Of course you can always just look away, but to know where you don&#8217;t want to look, you have seen it before.<\/p>\n<p>This is much less bad than you might think now. At the end of the day, we&#8217;re all just people, and even people who don&#8217;t meet your own aesthetic standards have fun having sex and a right to do so. That&#8217;s all it is. People who appear unhygienic usually don&#8217;t even come in. However, the smell in the air may bother you. This has nothing to do with a lack of hygiene, but simply with the fact that many people who have sex produce a particular odor. Especially because there won&#8217;t be any windows wide open for reasons of discretion.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sonraki noktaya: Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla halka a\u00e7\u0131k bir oyundaysan\u0131z, etraf\u0131n\u0131zdaki insanlar\u0131n da seks yapmas\u0131n\u0131 bekleyebilirsiniz. \u00d6zellikle bu insanlar fiziksel olarak yak\u0131nsa, bir noktada bir elin dikkatli bir \u015fekilde tatmas\u0131 ve \u00f6nce omuz veya bacak gibi zarars\u0131z bir noktaya dokunmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want that to happen, you can put your hand away at that point or speak up against it. You can also say &#8220;Stop.&#8221; at any later time. However, you should feel able to do this when visiting a swingers club. If for some reason you and\/or your companion are not able to set boundaries, I would advise against a visit to a swingers club.<\/p>\n<p>If you have chosen a club that allows solo males, you can expect that there will be masturbating men somewhere. You should take that into account in this case. Most of the time, it doesn&#8217;t take much more than body language to let these men know that they can&#8217;t do more than look. From an appropriate distance, however, they can not be stopped from watching. (And no, don&#8217;t worry, you won&#8217;t get splashed, that would result in a ban for the respective gentlemen). Often there is also an area where only couples have access.<\/p>\n<p>Size ya da arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ya da her ikinize birlikte vurulabilir. Ancak, bu tavlama giri\u015fimleri genellikle normal gece kul\u00fcb\u00fc ortam\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha utanga\u00e7 ve sessizdir.<\/p>\n<p>It is also common to have several small groups of people who already know each other and also mainly talk to each other, with little approaching of new people. If you are shy, you may feel like you are the only ones who don&#8217;t know anyone else. But you can quickly change that if you simply approach someone from these groups in a friendly and open manner, or look around to see who else is there &#8220;alone&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Otherwise_you_have_absolutely_nothing_to_fear\"><\/span>Aksi takdirde, kesinlikle korkacak bir \u015feyiniz yok.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>E\u011fer durum b\u00f6yleyse, neden bu kadar \u00e7ok insan e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme ve \u00e7ift kul\u00fcplerinden bu kadar korkuyor? Asl\u0131nda, herkes oraya gidebilir ve arkada\u015f\u0131yla birlikte canl\u0131 porno izleyebilir mi? Evet, kesinlikle, bunu yapabilirsiniz! Bir e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcne girmek sizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla seks yapmaya, hatta aktif cinselli\u011fe bile zorlamaz. \u0130sterseniz oraya sadece yemek yemek ve\/veya sarho\u015f olmak i\u00e7in de gidebilirsiniz. (Her kad\u0131na tavsiye edebilece\u011fim bir se\u00e7enek. Kad\u0131nlar genellikle e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcplerine neredeyse hi\u00e7 giri\u015f \u00fccreti \u00f6demezler, ancak bu konu hakk\u0131nda daha sonra daha fazla bilgi verece\u011fim).<\/p>\n<p>E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcplerinin ziyaretinin buna ra\u011fmen bu kadar yayg\u0131n olmamas\u0131, bence baz\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar ve yanl\u0131\u015f bilgilendirmelerden kaynaklan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nyarg\u0131: Ger\u00e7ekler ve efsaneler<br \/>\n\u00d6nyarg\u0131: Orada sadece ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar var<br \/>\nBir\u00e7ok gen\u00e7, swing yapman\u0131n sadece 60 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc neslin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey oldu\u011fu ve bu nedenle bu t\u00fcr kul\u00fcplerde \u00e7o\u011funlukla kendilerini \"taze et\" olarak g\u00f6ren ya\u015fl\u0131 beyler bulacaklar\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131s\u0131na sahiptir. K\u0131sacas\u0131: Durum b\u00f6yle de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn ya\u015f ortalamas\u0131 35 ila 45 aras\u0131nda olan bir izleyici kitlesi vard\u0131r. Deneyimler, aral\u0131\u011f\u0131n 18 ila 75 aras\u0131nda oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor, bu da evet, daha ya\u015fl\u0131 baz\u0131 insanlar oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na geliyor. Ama sadece de\u011fil. Bu ayn\u0131 zamanda kul\u00fcb\u00fcn hangi kitleye sahip oldu\u011funa da ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r, genellikle bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir numara ile nispeten kolay ve h\u0131zl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011frenilebilir. (Bu hileyi makalenin ilerleyen b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerinde a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131m).<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar fikri sizi \u00e7ok tedirgin ediyorsa, ya\u015f ortalamas\u0131n\u0131n 30'un alt\u0131nda oldu\u011fu \u00f6zel gen\u00e7 \u00e7iftler geceleri de vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Dikkat edin: Bunlar genellikle aylar \u00f6ncesinden rezerve edilir. Gen\u00e7 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kesinlikle y\u00fcksek bir talep var.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nyarg\u0131: Orada sadece chavlar var<br \/>\nMany people think that most people in the swinger scene are &#8220;simple-minded&#8221; or simply stupid. I don&#8217;t know where this prejudice comes from, but I can say that it is not true.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki: E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme sahnesi (neredeyse) T\u00dcM sosyal s\u0131n\u0131flar\u0131 keser. Orada e\u011fitimli insanlarla, ofis i\u015fleri olan insanlarla, doktoral\u0131 insanlarla vb. tan\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z. Orada sadece kendi sosyal \u00e7evrenizle de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc daha az ili\u015fkiniz olan insanlarla da tan\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z. Sadece daha zay\u0131f sosyal s\u0131n\u0131flar genellikle burada bulunmazlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc giri\u015f \u00fccretini \u00f6demeyi g\u00f6ze alamazlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nyarg\u0131: Orada sadece profesyonel bayanlar var<br \/>\nBu ayn\u0131 zamanda do\u011fru olmayan bir \u00f6nyarg\u0131d\u0131r. Yasay\u0131 bilmiyorum, ancak \u015fu ana kadar en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ta\u015fra kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde bile olsa, her ana sayfada profesyonel seks i\u015f\u00e7ilerinin a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve birinin para kazanmak i\u00e7in burada oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcpheleniliyorsa derhal bildirilmesi gerekti\u011fine dair bir kural buldum.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that there are such clubs. However, a quick internet search leads to an extremely clear result. Why should it be different? People who want to buy sexual services go to a brothel and not to a swingers club. So, apart from a few black sheep that may exist, there is no sex for sale in the swinger scene. Everyone pays admission and that&#8217;s it. You don&#8217;t buy a guarantee of sex, even if it is sometimes claimed otherwise at men&#8217;s surplus parties.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nyarg\u0131: Swingerlar poli<br \/>\nA prejudice I once had myself for a while is the idea that everyone who goes to a swingers club also has an open relationship. That&#8217;s not the case. Some couples actually go there just to see and be seen, and many other couples have clear rules about how far they want to go. Many there don&#8217;t even want a partner swap and I was admittedly surprised at first when I realized this myself for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>And to emphasize it again very clearly: Very few swingers live polyamory. So you really don&#8217;t need to go there if you hope to find a complement for your open relationship. The swinger scene is even one of the last places where I would do that. Swingers have often shed the restriction of sexual exclusivity in an impressive way &#8211; but only within this strictly defined framework. Many do absolutely nothing outside of such events and almost all of them exclude an emotional connection to another partner. Of course, you can meet someone now and then for whom this is different &#8211; but it is not the rule.<\/p>\n<p>Kul\u00fcp se\u00e7imi: e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirenler kul\u00fcb\u00fc m\u00fc yoksa \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fc m\u00fc?<br \/>\nHer \u015feyden \u00f6nce, farkl\u0131 swingers kul\u00fcpleri aras\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck farkl\u0131l\u0131klar oldu\u011fu unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Baz\u0131 kul\u00fcplere swingers kul\u00fcpleri de\u011fil, \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcpleri denir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc karma cinsiyetli \u00e7iftler oraya kabul edilir, bireyler de\u011fil. Siz ve arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131ndaki kesin ili\u015fki kontrol edilmez.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu noktada bir kul\u00fcp se\u00e7meye ba\u015flayabilirsiniz: Ne istiyorsunuz? Ne yapmaya cesaret ediyorsunuz? Ve talepleriniz nelerdir?<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fc, orada yaln\u0131z erkeklerin olmamas\u0131 avantaj\u0131na sahiptir. Geleneksel e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcpleri \u00e7o\u011funlukla yaln\u0131z erkekler taraf\u0131ndan finanse edilirken, \u00e7ift kul\u00fcpleri ad\u0131ndan da anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 gibi sadece \u00e7iftlerin girmesine izin verir. Bu, orada bulunan her han\u0131mefendi ve beyefendi i\u00e7in bir meslekta\u015f\u0131n\u0131n da oldu\u011fu ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla e\u015fit olmayan cinsiyet oranlar\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelir. \u00d6zellikle hala biraz emin de\u011filseniz, ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olarak bir \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fc se\u00e7ebilirsiniz. Oradaki \u00e7iftlerin \u00e7o\u011fu da swinger sahnesinde yenidir ve bu nedenle olduk\u00e7a g\u00fcvensizdir. Bu nedenle, ortalama olarak, daha az \u015fey olur, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu (hen\u00fcz) sald\u0131rgan olmaya cesaret edemez.<\/p>\n<p>Uzun s\u00fcre yaln\u0131z erkeklere de izin veren e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcplerine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131m vard\u0131, ama daha iyi \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n<p>E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcplerinin ilk bariz avantaj\u0131 \u015fudur: \u00e7ok daha ucuzdurlar. \u00c7iftler daha az \u00f6der ve yaln\u0131z bayanlar genellikle neredeyse hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00f6demez. Yaln\u0131z erkekler \u00e7ok daha fazla \u00f6der ve kap\u0131da daha s\u0131k\u0131 bir se\u00e7im vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>This is also immediately a tip to any woman reading here: If you are a crazy nature and like to experience something new, grab a girlfriend and go with her to such a club. You won&#8217;t get cheaper food and drink as much as you want anywhere, in addition of course to the evening entertainment and the dance floor. You don&#8217;t have to have sex if you don&#8217;t want to &#8211; you can if you want to.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kinci avantaj ise daha fazla se\u00e7ene\u011finizin olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7iftler kul\u00fcpleri e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcpleri kadar yayg\u0131n de\u011fildir. Her hal\u00fckarda, Almanya'n\u0131n hangi yuvas\u0131nda ya da Katolik b\u00f6lgesinde ya\u015farsan\u0131z ya\u015fay\u0131n, bir yerlerde kabul edilebilir bir eri\u015fim mesafesinde bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fc oldu\u011fundan nispeten emin olabilirsiniz - ayn\u0131 \u015feyin bir \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fc i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli oldu\u011fundan emin de\u011filsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Son avantaj, kula\u011fa ne kadar sa\u00e7ma gelse de: yaln\u0131z erkekler.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn aksine, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131maya daha fazla ilgi duyan ve aktif olan yaln\u0131z beyler vard\u0131r. E\u011fer deneyimsizseniz veya ili\u015fkinizde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k rol oynuyorsa, bu sizi ve arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 rahats\u0131z edebilir. Ben \u015fahsen bu atmosferi takdir etmeyi \u00f6\u011frendim. \u0130lgili eskortlar\u0131mla yaln\u0131z beylerle hi\u00e7 ilgilenmemi\u015f olsam da, daha a\u00e7\u0131k ve daha fazla fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn oldu\u011fu bir atmosfer yarat\u0131yorlar - ve bu nedenle bir \u00e7iftler kul\u00fcb\u00fcnden daha fazla oluyor. Elbette, bu ayn\u0131 zamanda kul\u00fcb\u00fcn tam se\u00e7imine de ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably meet solo ladies, but you should not expect to have a threesome with two women and one man, even if it is possible &#8211; don&#8217;t count on it.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kul\u00fcp i\u00e7in somut bir karar vermek i\u00e7in en iyi ipucu, ilk etapta ana sayfa ve etkinli\u011fin kendisinin a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir\u00e7ok e\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn \"\u00e7iftler gecesi\" vard\u0131r ve bir\u00e7o\u011funun da \u00e7e\u015fitli ba\u015fka tema geceleri vard\u0131r. Bu nedenle, merakl\u0131 bir \u00e7ift olarak arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fc ziyaret etmek istiyorsan\u0131z, muhtemelen orada da ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen \"hardcore XXL erkek fazlas\u0131 partileri\" yerine b\u00f6yle bir \u00e7iftler gecesini se\u00e7melisiniz. Tabii ki bunu yapmak istemiyorsan\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>The next good step is to create a profile on Joyclub and see who has signed up for that particular party. Good parties are often booked up months in advance. In addition, you can estimate the average age of the participants, as well as the social class, if you value such things. All this information together usually gives you a pretty good picture of what kind of club it is and what kind of crowd will probably be there that night. This picture is, in my experience, much more accurate than what the clubs themselves give you in terms of age average or what the homepage makes for an impression. That&#8217;s why I think Joyclub research is a good solution if you want to take a closer look. You can also find special events in places that are not normally a swingers club. A basic profile is free as a couple at Joyclub.<\/p>\n<p>Her zaman art\u0131lar ve eksiler oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n! K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck aile kul\u00fcpleri ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r, b\u00fcy\u00fck kul\u00fcpler kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 huzur i\u00e7inde hissetmenizi sa\u011flar. Ucuz kul\u00fcpler genellikle ho\u015f bir samimiyete sahiptir, pahal\u0131 kul\u00fcplerde insanlar genellikle daha g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ve bu b\u00f6yle devam eder.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_meet_someone_there\"><\/span>Orada biriyle nas\u0131l tan\u0131\u015fabilirim?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Daha \u00f6nce bir kul\u00fcb\u00fc ziyaret ettiyseniz t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 zaten biliyor olabilirsiniz veya a\u00e7\u0131k fikirli bir \u015fekilde bir kul\u00fcb\u00fc ziyaret ederek bunlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz. a\u00e7\u0131k fikirli bir \u015fekilde bir kul\u00fcb\u00fc ziyaret ederek bunlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz. Ancak, daha \u00f6nce bir kul\u00fcb\u00fc ziyaret etmi\u015f olsan\u0131z veya t\u00fcm bunlar sizin i\u00e7in yeni bir \u015fey olmasa bile size yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilecek birka\u00e7 ekstra ipucum var.<\/p>\n<p>The mistake that many couples make when they go to a club for the first time is that they think everything happens there without them having to do anything. Most women are used to just being flirted with and most men don&#8217;t really know how to hit on a couple. Both in combination often leads to many couples being unsure and not really knowing what to do. The other couples present are probably just as insecure, and therefore little or nothing happens in the end. Yet the whole thing is not that difficult. There are basically three good ways to do partner swapping, if that is the goal.<\/p>\n<p>Reddedilmek istemeyen insanlar i\u00e7in yava\u015f yol<br \/>\nThe slow way is basically not much different from an everyday flirting situation, except that it&#8217;s relatively clear to everyone involved what the deal is. You should try to be relatively on time for the start of the party. This is the phase when everyone is still wandering around the dance area or clustering around the buffet. You just join in this dance, but look for contact. These clubs are usually designed to make it easy to find contact. You can just sit down at the table with another couple or couples. You can stand next to another couple at the bar or on the dance floor, or other random scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8220;Hello&#8221;, or &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; is usually quite enough here, no one expects quantum physics from you. On the contrary, everyone is well aware that having sex with each other is a possibility during the course of the evening, so there is often a high willingness to get to know each other quickly. At any point in the conversation, you can ask directly if the couple in question would like to join you on one of the playgrounds. If you have the feeling that they are not quite sure yet &#8211; this can often be because each of them is afraid of catching their own partner off guard &#8211; you can simply say that you are going &#8220;upstairs&#8221; now. Or just go to where the playgrounds are located in the club in question and just see if the two of you follow. If you were sympathetic to each other, this usually works pretty well. If the whole thing doesn&#8217;t work, just go back and repeat the procedure &#8211; eventually it will work out!<\/p>\n<p>This way is also especially suitable as a solo lady, because here you are in a relatively comfortable position and probably want to avoid making the gentleman&#8217;s lady jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Daha az sab\u0131rl\u0131 olundu\u011funda h\u0131zl\u0131 yol<br \/>\nThe fast way is very similar to the slow way, but it involves a much higher level of eroticism and physical contact. This means you choose a couch or the dance floor rather than the dining area as your point of contact and, after a brief introductory conversation, start kissing and getting hot with your partner. If they are not interested, they usually leave pretty quickly at this point. If they are interested, they usually start to do the same and after a short time the &#8220;hands start to wander&#8221; to see how the other couple reacts. If the ice is broken to the sexual you can then relatively quickly start to flirt offensively. It doesn&#8217;t matter which of you starts it, because the second part of the couple will almost automatically start talking to the corresponding counterpart. The only important thing is that you try not to provoke jealousy by keeping the progress of your flirting synchronized. If you notice that one of the two is moving too fast, or is suspicious of what his or her partner is doing, just push him or her back to their partner. Let the two of them feel safe with each other and give them a chance to leave or talk things out and start over again a little slower if necessary. Or, alternatively, try it with another couple.<\/p>\n<p>Ne istedi\u011finizi tam olarak biliyorsan\u0131z, s\u00fcper h\u0131zl\u0131 yol.<br \/>\nThis way is for all those who don&#8217;t really want to get to know anyone, but just want to have sex and swap partners. To my knowledge this way is a speciality of the swinger scene and I haven&#8217;t seen it working like this anywhere else.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you feel like it, go to a playground. Pick one where there is room for several couples. If you are relatively attractive and\/or young, it doesn&#8217;t matter if the playground is completely empty beforehand &#8211; people will come, don&#8217;t worry.<\/p>\n<p>Sadece orada birlikte e\u011flenmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n ya da ilginizi \u00e7eken bir \u00e7iftin yan\u0131na uzan\u0131n ve e\u011flenmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. \u0130lk ellerin dola\u015fmas\u0131 veya ba\u015fka bir \u015fekilde temas kurulmas\u0131 genellikle en fazla birka\u00e7 dakika s\u00fcrecektir. Her \u015fey neredeyse otomatik olarak, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir konu\u015fma ya da \u00e7aba olmadan ilerler.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of not being attractive enough, just wait until your chosen couple is a bit more &#8220;into it&#8221; before approaching. Often the standards of attractiveness become almost completely blurred while you&#8217;re aroused, and you&#8217;ll probably notice in yourself that your criteria can shift quite a bit and you suddenly enjoy having sex with people who might not have matched your own preferences before. This is not bad or strange, it is simply normal that horniness has this effect. And you can also take advantage of this.<\/p>\n<p>To the best of my knowledge, this &#8220;super fast way&#8221; works almost always and for almost everyone, although of course not with everyone. By going to a big playground and not to a small corner, you have filtered out the people who are not interested in exchanging partners and touching each other almost from the beginning. Of course, it&#8217;s also a bit more random with whom you have fun. But in my opinion, it&#8217;s a very interesting experience to realize that maybe that&#8217;s not always so important.<\/p>\n<p>Bu ipucu esas olarak kendileriyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k \u00e7iftler i\u00e7indir. Bu ipucu tercihen yaln\u0131z erkekler taraf\u0131ndan kullan\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc orada daha \u00e7ok yukar\u0131da bahsedilen \"marjinal otuzbirci\" fenomenine yol a\u00e7ar ve en az \u00e7ift ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ekici bulur.<\/p>\n<p>Gizli ipucu: Fl\u00f6rt edin!<br \/>\nAs last I would like to give you still another important tip on the way. In many clubs, just because people often end up having sex with each other, doesn&#8217;t mean that they have better basic communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, b\u00f6yle bir kul\u00fcpte normal bir \u015fekilde fl\u00f6rt ederseniz ve t\u0131pk\u0131 vah\u015fi do\u011fada yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi \u00e7aba g\u00f6sterirseniz, zaten ortalamadan \u00f6nemli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7ekici olun. Korkmay\u0131n. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla fl\u00f6rt edin, fiziksel temas kurun, dans edin. Burada olman\u0131n ne kadar komik oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczden ve nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finizden ya da buraya gelirken \u00e7ok gergin oldu\u011funuzdan bahsedin. G\u00fcnl\u00fck fl\u00f6rtte hafife al\u0131nan bu \u015feyleri yaparak, tam olarak cinsel olarak aktif olmak istedi\u011finiz \u00e7iftle bir \u015feyler yapmak i\u00e7in en iyi \u015fansa sahip olursunuz. Herkesin sahip oldu\u011fu \"Daha sonra seks yapacak m\u0131y\u0131z?\" art niyetini bir an i\u00e7in unutmal\u0131 ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda kimlerin oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: e\u011flenmeyi seven, romantize edilmekten ho\u015flanan ve sahip olunmaktan ho\u015flanan normal korkular\u0131 ve g\u00fcvensizlikleri olan insanlar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fcne ilk girdi\u011finizde, heyecan ve gerginli\u011fin bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak emin olun, korkacak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok. Swingers kul\u00fcpleri, benzer d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bireylerin cinselliklerini g\u00fcvenli ve r\u0131zaya dayal\u0131 bir ortamda ke\u015ffedebilecekleri s\u0131cak alanlard\u0131r. Bir swingers kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde, bir g\u00f6rmeyi bekleyebilirsiniz ... <a title=\"E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde ne olur?\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/es-degi\u0307sti\u0307rme-kulubunde-gercekte-ne-olur\/\" aria-label=\"E\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirme kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde ne olur hakk\u0131nda devam\u0131n\u0131 oku\">Daha fazla bilgi edinin<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swinger-club"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}