{"id":113,"date":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=113"},"modified":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","slug":"how-to-recognize-other-swingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/\u5982\u4f55\u8bc6\u522b\u5176\u4ed6\u6447\u6446\u4eba\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5982\u4f55\u8bc6\u522b Swingers\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u76ee\u5f55<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62c2676910d\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">\u5207\u6362<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" 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href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/\u5982\u4f55\u8bc6\u522b\u5176\u4ed6\u6447\u6446\u4eba\/#Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\" >\u5176\u4ed6\u4f20\u95fb\u4e2d\u7684 Swingers \u6807\u5fd7\u548c\u7b26\u53f7<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>\u8fd9 4 \u6761\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u7ebf\u7d22\u662f\u5176\u4ed6\u5f98\u5f8a\u8005\u7684\u9762\u5305\u5c51\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>\u8bc6\u522b Swingers \u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u6709\u54ea\u4e9b\uff1f<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u8fd9\u662f\u6447\u6446\u821e\u754c\u7ecf\u5e38\u51fa\u73b0\u7684\u767e\u4e07\u7f8e\u5143\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u7684 \"\u6447\u6446 \"\u670b\u53cb\u4e00\u81f4\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6709\u4e00\u79cd\u7279\u5b9a\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u6807\u5fd7\u6216\u7b26\u53f7\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4efb\u4f55 \"\u6447\u6446 \"\u8005\u90fd\u4e0d\u4f1a\u56e0\u4e3a\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u53d1\u73b0\u800c\u4f7f\u7528\u5b83\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u670b\u53cb\u66fe\u8bd5\u56fe\u7528\u4e94\u989c\u516d\u8272\u7684\u8349\u576a\u88c5\u9970\u54c1\u6216\u5947\u5f02\u690d\u7269\u6765\u5411\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u53d1\u51fa\u81ea\u6211\u8ba4\u540c\u7684\u70df\u96fe\u4fe1\u53f7\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5c0f\u7ebf\u7d22\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e3a\u5176\u4ed6\u6b63\u5728\u5bfb\u627e\u7684\u6447\u6446\u8005\u63d0\u4f9b\u9762\u5305\u5c51\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u4eec\u901a\u5e38\u4e0d\u4f1a\u660e\u76ee\u5f20\u80c6\u5730\u628a\u8fd9\u4e9b\u7ebf\u7d22\u65e0\u610f\u4e2d\u900f\u9732\u7ed9\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u548c\u90bb\u5c45\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Although the swingers we know may not display a banner that says &#8220;swingers partying&#8221; in their front yard, that doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s completely impossible to find clues and signs that your neighbors may be in the lifestyle.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>\u8bc6\u522b Swingers \u7684\u6807\u5fd7<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u591a\u5e74\u6765\u4e0e\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u6362\u59bb\u670b\u53cb\u4eec\u4e00\u8d77\u53d1\u73b0\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5f81\u5146\u3002<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\"><\/span>1.\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u82b1\u56ed\u91cc\u6709\u8349\u576a\u4f8f\u5112\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u53ef\u7231\u3001\u751c\u7f8e\u3001\u8272\u5f69\u6591\u6593\u7684\u8349\u576a\u4f8f\u5112\u603b\u662f\u4e0e\u6447\u6446\u793e\u533a\u8054\u7cfb\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Our neighbors, who have no idea we are swingers, often joke that others in our neighborhood have gnomes and don&#8217;t know their true meaning. I always joke back and tell them that Martha and John may well be 80 by now &#8211; you never know!<\/p>\n<p>\u60f3\u8d77\u6765\u4e86\uff0c\u6211\u5976\u5976\u7684\u9662\u5b50\u91cc\u5230\u5904\u90fd\u662f\u8349\u576a\u4f8f\u5112\u3002\u4e5f\u8bb8\u6447\u6446\u662f\u9057\u4f20\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\"><\/span>2.\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f69\u6234\u5947\u7279\u7684\u73e0\u5b9d\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard for years that a black ring on a man&#8217;s right hand is a way to identify other swingers. Or that a woman wearing an anklet on her right ankle is a sign that a couple is out and about and open to meeting other swingers.<\/p>\n<p>While these might be clues to identification, I&#8217;m pretty sure I wouldn&#8217;t trust these clues alone or try to break the ice by asking, &#8220;&#8230;so I see your ring\/ankle, are you a swinger?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u6700\u8fd1\u4e86\u89e3\u5230\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u56fd\u9645\u6027\u7684\u6447\u6446\u4eba\u6807\u5fd7\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u7f51\u7ad9\u63d0\u4f9b\u73e0\u5b9d\u3001\u670d\u88c5\u3001\u4e34\u65f6\u7eb9\u8eab\u548c\u9970\u54c1\uff0c\u5e2e\u52a9\u5438\u5f15\u548c\u8bc6\u522b\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u5fd7\u540c\u9053\u5408\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>While we might wear something like this when we&#8217;re out of town or traveling, we certainly wouldn&#8217;t wear it locally for fear of being easily outed.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_have_a_hot_tub\"><\/span>3.\u4ed6\u4eec\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u70ed\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Having a hot tub on your back patio has always been associated with being a member of the swinging community. While I don&#8217;t necessarily think this is a safe way to say it, it is definitely a sign.<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u7136\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u70ed\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8bb8\u591a\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u670b\u53cb\u4e5f\u6709\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u623f\u5b50\u662f\u5728\u8fdb\u5165\u8fd9\u79cd\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e4b\u524d\u4e70\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u8bb8\u6211\u4eec\u6f5c\u610f\u8bc6\u91cc\u5c31\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u4eec\u6ce8\u5b9a\u8981\u6447\u6446\uff1f<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\"><\/span>4.\u5b83\u4eec\u4f3c\u4e4e\u8d8a\u8001\u8d8a\u70ed\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u8ba4\u8bc6\u7684\u6447\u6446\u4eba\u5c31\u50cf\u7f8e\u9152\u4e00\u6837\u8d8a\u9648\u8d8a\u9999\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56de\u60f3\u8d77\u4f60\u7684\u7ea6\u4f1a\u5c81\u6708\uff0c\u4f60\u662f\u5426\u8fd8\u8bb0\u5f97\u4e3a\u4e86\u7ed9\u7ea6\u4f1a\u5bf9\u8c61\u7559\u4e0b\u6df1\u523b\u5370\u8c61\u800c\u4ed8\u51fa\u7684\u52aa\u529b\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u8fd9\u4e9b\u70ed\u7231\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4eba\u4ecd\u7136\u5728\u505a\u51fa\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u52aa\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>While most people our age are skipping the gym, dropping waxing from their priority list, and showering once a week, we&#8217;re still keeping things tight from head to toe.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re part of the swinging lifestyle, it&#8217;s important to take care of your health and appearance. My husband and I look better now, in our late 30s, than we did when we were 25.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\"><\/span>\u5176\u4ed6\u4f20\u95fb\u4e2d\u7684 Swingers \u6807\u5fd7\u548c\u7b26\u53f7<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard of several other symbols and signs being used over the years, but couldn&#8217;t really confirm any of them as accurate.<\/p>\n<p>\u7f51\u4e0a\u6d41\u4f20\u7684\u5176\u4ed6\u4e00\u4e9b\u4f20\u8a00\u8fd8\u5305\u62ec\uff1a\u524d\u9662\u79cd\u6ee1\u6f58\u5e15\u65af\u8349\u3001\u83e0\u841d\u95e8\u628a\u624b\u3001\u82b1\u56ed\u91cc\u6709\u7c89\u8272\u706b\u70c8\u9e1f\u3001\u5973\u4eba\u6234\u811a\u8dbe\u73af\u3001\u60c5\u4fa3\u95f4\u6709\u5339\u914d\u7684\u9634\u9633\u7eb9\u8eab\u7b49\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u867d\u7136\u6211\u4eec\u4e2d\u7684\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4eba\u90fd\u4f1a\u7aed\u529b\u7ef4\u62a4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9690\u79c1\uff0c\u4f46\u4ecd\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u8ff9\u8c61\u8868\u660e\uff0c\u6447\u6446\u8005\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u88ab\u8bc6\u522b\u51fa\u6765\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u6700\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u90bb\u5c45\u6234\u7740\u5947\u7279\u7684\u9996\u9970\uff0c\u8349\u576a\u4e0a\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u5c0f\u77ee\u4eba\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u8d85\u5927\u7684\u70ed\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u8d8a\u6765\u8d8a\u70ed\uff0c\u800c\u5468\u56f4\u7684\u4eba\u5374\u8d8a\u6765\u8d8a\u8001\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u662f\u6362\u59bb\u72c2\u3002<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u8fd9 4 \u6761\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u7ebf\u7d22\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e3a\u5176\u4ed6\u5f98\u5f8a\u7684 Swingers \u63d0\u4f9b\u9762\u5305\u5c51\u3002\u662f\u5426\u6709\u7279\u5b9a\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u6765\u8bc6\u522b\u6447\u6446\u8005\uff1f\u8fd9\u662f\u6447\u6446\u793e\u533a\u4e2d\u7ecf\u5e38\u51fa\u73b0\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u4ef7\u503c\u767e\u4e07\u7f8e\u5143\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u6447\u6446\u670b\u53cb\u4e00\u81f4\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u54ea\u4e2a\u6447\u6446\u8005\u4f1a\u4f7f\u7528\u8fd9\u79cd\u65b9\u6cd5\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u4ed6\u4eec\u62c5\u5fc3\u5982\u679c... <a title=\"\u5982\u4f55\u8bc6\u522b Swingers\uff1f\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/\u5982\u4f55\u8bc6\u522b\u5176\u4ed6\u6447\u6446\u4eba\/\" aria-label=\"\u9605\u8bfb How to Recognize Swingers?\">\u66f4\u591a\u4fe1\u606f<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-the-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":429,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/429"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}