{"id":113,"date":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/?p=113"},"modified":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","modified_gmt":"2024-09-01T17:30:47","slug":"how-to-recognize-other-swingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u6416\u64fa\u8005\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u76ee\u9304<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a62d0e881783\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">\u5207\u63db<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" 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href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/#2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\" >2.\u4ed6\u5011\u4f69\u6234\u5947\u7279\u7684\u9996\u98fe\u3002<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/#3_They_have_a_hot_tub\" >3.\u4ed6\u5011\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u71b1\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\u3002<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/#4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\" >4.\u96a8\u8457\u5e74\u9f61\u7684\u589e\u9577\uff0c\u5b83\u5011\u4f3c\u4e4e\u6703\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u71b1\u3002<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/#Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\" >\u5176\u4ed6\u8b20\u50b3\u7684 Swingers \u6a19\u8a8c\u548c\u7b26\u865f<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>\u9019 4 \u500b\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u7dda\u7d22\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f5c\u70ba\u5176\u4ed6\u5f98\u5f8a\u8005\u7684\u9eb5\u5305\u5c51\u3002<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_There_Certain_Ways_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>\u662f\u5426\u6709\u67d0\u4e9b\u65b9\u6cd5\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b58\u5225\u6416\u64fa\u8005\uff1f<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u9019\u662f\u5728\u6416\u64fa\u6a02\u793e\u7fa4\u4e2d\u7d93\u5e38\u51fa\u73fe\u7684\u767e\u842c\u554f\u984c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u6416\u64fa\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u5171\u8b58\u662f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6709\u7279\u5b9a\u7684\u6a19\u8a8c\u6216\u7b26\u865f\u4ee3\u8868\u9019\u7a2e\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u6c92\u6709\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u51fa\u5c40\u800c\u4f7f\u7528\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u6709\u670b\u53cb\u8a66\u5716\u5229\u7528\u8272\u5f69\u7e7d\u7d1b\u7684\u8349\u576a\u64fa\u98fe\u6216\u5947\u7279\u7684\u690d\u7269\uff0c\u5411\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u50b3\u9054\u81ea\u6211\u8a8d\u540c\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u7159\u9727\u4fe1\u865f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9019\u4e9b\u5c0f\u7dda\u7d22\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f5c\u70ba\u5176\u4ed6\u6b63\u5728\u89c0\u5bdf\u7684\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u7684\u9eb5\u5305\u5c51\uff0c\u4f46\u901a\u5e38\u4e0d\u6703\u539a\u984f\u7121\u6065\u5230\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u628a\u9019\u4e9b\u7dda\u7d22\u50b3\u7d66\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u548c\u9130\u5c45\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Although the swingers we know may not display a banner that says &#8220;swingers partying&#8221; in their front yard, that doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s completely impossible to find clues and signs that your neighbors may be in the lifestyle.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_to_Identify_Swingers\"><\/span>\u8b58\u5225\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u7684\u8de1\u8c61<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u6211\u5011\u591a\u5e74\u4f86\u548c\u6211\u5011\u7684\u540c\u6027\u6200\u670b\u53cb\u4e00\u8d77\u767c\u73fe\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u8de1\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_They_have_lawn_gnomes_in_their_garden\"><\/span>1.\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u82b1\u5712\u88e1\u6709\u8349\u576a\u4f8f\u5112\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u53ef\u611b\u3001\u751c\u7f8e\u3001\u8272\u5f69\u7e7d\u7d1b\u7684\u8349\u576a\u4f8f\u5112\u4e00\u76f4\u8207\u6416\u64fa\u6a02\u793e\u7fa4\u6709\u95dc\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Our neighbors, who have no idea we are swingers, often joke that others in our neighborhood have gnomes and don&#8217;t know their true meaning. I always joke back and tell them that Martha and John may well be 80 by now &#8211; you never know!<\/p>\n<p>\u56de\u60f3\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u6211\u5976\u5976\u7684\u9662\u5b50\u88e1\u5c31\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u8349\u5730\u4f8f\u5112\u3002\u4e5f\u8a31\u9019\u500b\u6416\u64fa\u7684\u6771\u897f\u662f\u907a\u50b3\u7684\uff1f<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_wear_curious_jewelry\"><\/span>2.\u4ed6\u5011\u4f69\u6234\u5947\u7279\u7684\u9996\u98fe\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard for years that a black ring on a man&#8217;s right hand is a way to identify other swingers. Or that a woman wearing an anklet on her right ankle is a sign that a couple is out and about and open to meeting other swingers.<\/p>\n<p>While these might be clues to identification, I&#8217;m pretty sure I wouldn&#8217;t trust these clues alone or try to break the ice by asking, &#8220;&#8230;so I see your ring\/ankle, are you a swinger?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u6700\u8fd1\u5f97\u77e5\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u570b\u969b\u6027\u7684\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u7b26\u865f\u3002\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u7db2\u7ad9\u63d0\u4f9b\u73e0\u5bf6\u3001\u670d\u88dd\u3001\u81e8\u6642\u7d0b\u8eab\u548c\u98fe\u54c1\uff0c\u4ee5\u5e6b\u52a9\u5438\u5f15\u548c\u8b58\u5225\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u5fd7\u540c\u9053\u5408\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>While we might wear something like this when we&#8217;re out of town or traveling, we certainly wouldn&#8217;t wear it locally for fear of being easily outed.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_have_a_hot_tub\"><\/span>3.\u4ed6\u5011\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u71b1\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Having a hot tub on your back patio has always been associated with being a member of the swinging community. While I don&#8217;t necessarily think this is a safe way to say it, it is definitely a sign.<\/p>\n<p>\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u71b1\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u8a31\u591a\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u4e5f\u6709\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u7684\u662f\u5728\u9032\u5165\u9019\u7a2e\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e4b\u524d\u8cfc\u8cb7\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u8a31\u5728\u6f5b\u610f\u8b58\u4e2d\u6211\u5011\u5c31\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u5011\u6ce8\u5b9a\u8981\u6416\u64fa\uff1f<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_They_seem_to_get_hotter_as_they_get_older\"><\/span>4.\u96a8\u8457\u5e74\u9f61\u7684\u589e\u9577\uff0c\u5b83\u5011\u4f3c\u4e4e\u6703\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u71b1\u3002<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u6240\u8a8d\u8b58\u7684\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u5c31\u50cf\u7f8e\u9152\u4e00\u6a23\u9673\u5e74\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56de\u60f3\u8d77\u60a8\u7684\u7d04\u6703\u6b72\u6708\uff0c\u60a8\u662f\u5426\u9084\u8a18\u5f97\u70ba\u4e86\u7d66\u60a8\u7684\u7d04\u6703\u5c0d\u8c61\u7559\u4e0b\u6df1\u523b\u5370\u8c61\u800c\u4ed8\u51fa\u7684\u52aa\u529b\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5011\u9019\u4e9b\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e2d\u7684\u4eba\u4ecd\u7136\u6703\u505a\u51fa\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u52aa\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>While most people our age are skipping the gym, dropping waxing from their priority list, and showering once a week, we&#8217;re still keeping things tight from head to toe.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re part of the swinging lifestyle, it&#8217;s important to take care of your health and appearance. My husband and I look better now, in our late 30s, than we did when we were 25.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Other_Rumored_Signs_and_Symbols_of_Swingers\"><\/span>\u5176\u4ed6\u8b20\u50b3\u7684 Swingers \u6a19\u8a8c\u548c\u7b26\u865f<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>We&#8217;ve heard of several other symbols and signs being used over the years, but couldn&#8217;t really confirm any of them as accurate.<\/p>\n<p>\u7db2\u8def\u4e0a\u6d41\u50b3\u7684\u5176\u4ed6\u5e7e\u500b\u8b20\u8a00\u5305\u62ec\uff1a\u524d\u9662\u7684\u6f58\u5e15\u65af\u8349\u539f\u3001\u9cf3\u68a8\u9580\u9234\u3001\u82b1\u5712\u4e2d\u7684\u7c89\u7d05\u706b\u70c8\u9ce5\u3001\u6234\u8173\u8dbe\u74b0\u7684\u5973\u6027\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u60c5\u4fb6\u914d\u5c0d\u7684\u9670\u967d\u7d0b\u8eab\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5118\u7ba1\u6211\u5011\u9019\u7a2e\u751f\u6d3b\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e2d\u7684\u5927\u591a\u6578\u4eba\u90fd\u6703\u76e1\u529b\u7dad\u8b77\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u96b1\u79c1\uff0c\u4f46\u4ecd\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u8de1\u8c61\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b58\u5225\u51fa\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u6700\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u9130\u5c45\u6234\u8457\u5947\u7279\u7684\u9996\u98fe\u3001\u8349\u576a\u4e0a\u6eff\u5e03\u5730\u7cbe\u3001\u6709\u4e00\u500b\u8d85\u5927\u7684\u71b1\u6c34\u6d74\u7f38\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u71b1\uff0c\u800c\u5468\u906d\u7684\u4eba\u537b\u8d8a\u4f86\u8d8a\u8001\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u4ed6\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u662f\u8569\u5a66\u3002<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u9019 4 \u500b\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u7dda\u7d22\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f5c\u70ba\u5176\u4ed6\u5f98\u5f8a\u4e2d\u7684\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u7684\u9eb5\u5305\u5c51\u3002\u662f\u5426\u6709\u67d0\u4e9b\u65b9\u6cd5\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b58\u5225swingers\uff1f\u9019\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u5728\u97a6\u97c6\u793e\u7fa4\u4e2d\u7d93\u5e38\u51fa\u73fe\u7684\u767e\u842c\u554f\u984c\u3002\u6211\u5011\u7684\u6416\u64fa\u670b\u53cb\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u5171\u8b58\u662f\uff0c\u6c92\u6709\u6416\u64fa\u8005\u6703\u4f7f\u7528\u5b83\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u6dd8\u6c70\uff0c\u5982\u679c... <a title=\"\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u6416\u64fa\u8005\uff1f\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/\u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u5176\u4ed6\u6416\u64fa\u8005\/\" aria-label=\"\u95b1\u8b80\u66f4\u591a\u95dc\u65bc \u5982\u4f55\u8b58\u5225\u6416\u64fa\u8005\uff1f\">\u66f4\u591a\u8cc7\u8a0a<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-the-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":429,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/429"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swingero.com\/zh_tw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}