Swingerklubi külastus - omamoodi teejuht

Kas olete kunagi mõelnud, milline näeb välja külastus swingerklubis? Olen püstitanud mõned küsimused ja vastanud teemale.

Kui teil on veel küsimusi, võtke minuga julgelt ühendust ja ma vastan neile.

1. Milline on protseduur Swingerklubis?

Let’s start with the procedure. Nowadays it is best to look on the internet (e.g. Joyclub) and check which clubs are nearby. And then you should also look what parties are offered. There is everything possible: Parties for newcomers, S&M parties, gang-bang parties, men’s surplus, couples’ nights, bi parties and and and.

Järgmine samm on vaadata, milliseid inimesi on juba registreeritud ja kui palju. Pole midagi hullemat kui tühi swingerklubi... Pealegi on minu arvates alati oluline ka õige sihtgrupp vanuse mõttes.

Once that’s done, it’s about the preparation: Regarding the outfit, I’ll write more details in question 2. What you want to take with you beyond that is entirely up to you. In my case, I like to have a bit of sex toys or whips with me. What you don’t need are towels, shower gel and rubbers. You can get that in sufficient quantities there. I find a deodorant still quite good. If you then have everything together, pack everything in a bag and off you go!

Now when you are in the car and turn down the destination road, the cliché is usually fulfilled: An industrial area. Whereby it is also a good address for a swingers club. But when you drive into the parking lot, a cliché is disproved. As a rule, only “fat cars” are parked there. A few campers can be found more often. From the cars you can already guess who is in the club. The upper middle class of Germany. Now you park the car and walk up to the door. Here you have to ring the bell and it is opened. You pay the entrance fee (btw: it’s best to always have enough cash on you) and you get a key for your own locker. So you go to the locker room and change. Then you go to the bar and have a drink to calm your nerves.

Pärast seda võite vaadata ruume, seal on sageli esimene "tööl".

Mis pärast seda tuleb, on natuke igaühe enda otsustada. Vaadake, sööge midagi, kohtuge kellegagi, seksige ainult oma partneriga - kõik on teie enda otsustada.

Kui te tahate seksida, siis peaksite alati veenduma, et teil on rätik teie all (see on swingerklubi etikett).

Mänguruumides on alati saadaval puhastuslapid, kondoomid ja desinfitseerimissprei.

Pärast seksi hüppad duši alla ja siis algab kõik uuesti - või lähed koju... nagu sulle meeldib.

2. Mida ma kannan?

Riietus sõltub paljudest teguritest: Kas on ehk teemaõhtu? Kui julge ma olen? Mis mulle meeldib?

What’s important, especially for women: SEXY! Lingerie, corsages, suspenders, latex, lacquer, short dresses, catsuits and and…

With men it is always a bit more difficult. Many simply wear tight boxers, T-shirt and shoes. Shoes he and she should think about, it’s easy to forget! And then there are also special club outfits for men: vinyl pants, fishnet shirts.

It’s best to just search a bit on the Internet. There you get a good impression of the outfits.

3. Millised on ruumid?

Igas toas on suured madratsid, nn matid. Ja siis tavaliselt on igas toas erinev teema.

Sageli on ka alasid, mida saab sulgeda näiteks keti või isegi uksega. Eriti uustulnukatele on see ideaalne võimalus seksida klubis, ilma et peaks pidevalt kartma soovimatuid puudutusi.

4. Millised on reeglid?

Kõigepealt info: Swingerclubides võetakse reegleid väga täpselt. Kui te neid rikute, visatakse teid välja. Suurtel üritustel on kohal ka turvamehed, nii et võite end alati turvaliselt tunda, isegi kui olete üksik naine.

Reegel nr 1 on hügieen: Kohustuslik on panna rätik kõikjale. Kõikjal on prügikastid kasutatud salvrätikute jms kõrvaldamiseks. Samuti leiate kõikjalt desinfitseerimissprei, et siledaid pindu saaks hõlpsasti pühkida. Ja alati on olemas ka kummikud, kes seda soovivad.

Rule No. 2 is respect: everyone has to accept and respect the opinion of the other. Nothing may take place without the consent of the other. Likewise, no one is allowed to simply grope without being asked. As far as the rule is concerned, the club owner takes absolutely no joke either! If this is violated, the person quickly flies out of the swingers club. The club owner can’t afford to have anyone assaulting him or her.

Kas sa tõesti leiad sealt inimesi, kellega sa tahad seksida ja kuidas on see, et sa seksid võõraste inimestega?
See, kas leiate kellegi, keda tõesti tahate matile võtta, on muidugi õnne küsimus. Kui vaatad eelnevalt külaliste nimekirja, võid oma õnne veidi aidata. Ma võrdleksin seda natuke ONSi otsimisega diskos. On õhtuid, kus leiad 3 potentsiaalset ONSi ja siis jälle mitte ühtegi. Mul on siiani alati vedanud.

Kuidas seks siis välja näeb, on täielikult igaühe enda otsustada. Ühe või teise loo saad lugeda ka siit teistest artiklitest.

And the question, how the sex is, is relatively easy to answer: I absolutely love it when others watch me have sex. And I’m also into watching others. After all, that’s the only reason you go to a place like this. It always impressed me and the evenings were regular fodder for my hours alone….

5. Millised inimesed on seal?

Igal juhul on nad palju normaalsemad, kui te arvate. Ma mainisin seda eespool autode kohta. Paljud on ülemisest keskklassist. Inimesed, kes on päeval kaupmehed või akadeemikud. On insenere, ärijuhte, juriste, müürseppasid, arste, õpetajaid.... absoluutselt kõik on esindatud.

At the bar, people talk about the weather, and ten meters away, they’re screwing each other. I thought of the comparison to the sauna during my first visit. It is similar there.

So take a look around when you’re on the train and ask yourself, who likes to go to the swingers club on the weekend. There will be more than you think!