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您是否曾想过游览换妻俱乐部是什么样子?我设置了几个问题,并回答了这个话题。
如果您有更多问题,请随时联系我,我会为您解答。
1.Swingers 俱乐部的程序是什么?
Let’s start with the procedure. Nowadays it is best to look on the internet (e.g. Joyclub) and check which clubs are nearby. And then you should also look what parties are offered. There is everything possible: Parties for newcomers, S&M parties, gang-bang parties, men’s surplus, couples’ nights, bi parties and and and.
下一步是看看有哪些人已经注册,有多少人。没有什么比一个空荡荡的摇摆人俱乐部更糟糕的了......此外,我认为合适的目标群体年龄也很重要。
Once that’s done, it’s about the preparation: Regarding the outfit, I’ll write more details in question 2. What you want to take with you beyond that is entirely up to you. In my case, I like to have a bit of sex toys or whips with me. What you don’t need are towels, shower gel and rubbers. You can get that in sufficient quantities there. I find a deodorant still quite good. If you then have everything together, pack everything in a bag and off you go!
Now when you are in the car and turn down the destination road, the cliché is usually fulfilled: An industrial area. Whereby it is also a good address for a swingers club. But when you drive into the parking lot, a cliché is disproved. As a rule, only “fat cars” are parked there. A few campers can be found more often. From the cars you can already guess who is in the club. The upper middle class of Germany. Now you park the car and walk up to the door. Here you have to ring the bell and it is opened. You pay the entrance fee (btw: it’s best to always have enough cash on you) and you get a key for your own locker. So you go to the locker room and change. Then you go to the bar and have a drink to calm your nerves.
之后,您可以看看房间,在那里您经常可以找到第一个 "正在工作 "的人。
至于之后会发生什么,则由每个人自己决定。看一看、吃点东西、见个人、只和自己的伴侣做爱--一切都由你自己决定。
如果您想发生性关系,请务必在身下垫一条浴巾(这是交换俱乐部的礼仪)。
游戏区随时备有湿巾、避孕套和消毒喷雾。
性爱之后,你跳进浴室,然后一切重新开始--或者你回家......随你喜欢。
2.我穿什么?
服装取决于很多因素:是否有主题之夜?我有多勇敢?我喜欢什么?
What’s important, especially for women: SEXY! Lingerie, corsages, suspenders, latex, lacquer, short dresses, catsuits and and…
With men it is always a bit more difficult. Many simply wear tight boxers, T-shirt and shoes. Shoes he and she should think about, it’s easy to forget! And then there are also special club outfits for men: vinyl pants, fishnet shirts.
It’s best to just search a bit on the Internet. There you get a good impression of the outfits.
3.房间是什么样的?
每个房间都有大床垫,也就是所谓的垫子。通常每个房间都有不同的主题。
此外,通常还有一些区域可以封闭起来,例如用链条或门。特别是对于新手来说,这是在俱乐部里进行性生活的理想方式,而不必总是担心被不受欢迎的人碰触。
4.规则是什么?
首先是一个信息:Swingerclub 的规则非常严格。如果违反,就会被赶出去。在大型活动中,安保人员也会在场,因此即使是单身女性,您也可以始终感到安全。
第一条是卫生:必须随处放置毛巾。到处都有垃圾桶,可以处理用过的湿巾等。此外,消毒喷雾随处可见,光滑的表面很容易擦拭。此外,还随时为需要的人提供橡胶。
Rule No. 2 is respect: everyone has to accept and respect the opinion of the other. Nothing may take place without the consent of the other. Likewise, no one is allowed to simply grope without being asked. As far as the rule is concerned, the club owner takes absolutely no joke either! If this is violated, the person quickly flies out of the swingers club. The club owner can’t afford to have anyone assaulting him or her.
你真的能在那里找到你想做爱的人吗?
当然,您是否能找到您真正想要的人,还得看运气。事先看一下来宾名单,可以帮你增加一些运气。我想把这一点与在迪斯科舞厅寻找 ONS 的情况做个比较。有的晚上您能找到 3 个潜在的 ONS,有的晚上则完全找不到。到目前为止,我一直都很幸运。
至于性爱效果如何,则完全取决于每个人。您还可以在这里的其他文章中读到这样或那样的故事。
And the question, how the sex is, is relatively easy to answer: I absolutely love it when others watch me have sex. And I’m also into watching others. After all, that’s the only reason you go to a place like this. It always impressed me and the evenings were regular fodder for my hours alone….
5.那里有什么样的人?
总之,他们比你想象的要正常得多。我在上文提到了汽车。许多人来自中上阶层。他们白天是商人或学者。工程师、企业经理、律师、砖瓦匠、医生、教师....,应有尽有。
At the bar, people talk about the weather, and ten meters away, they’re screwing each other. I thought of the comparison to the sauna during my first visit. It is similar there.
So take a look around when you’re on the train and ask yourself, who likes to go to the swingers club on the weekend. There will be more than you think!